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Using Absence to My Own Advantage

kevbo

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over the past few days i've been camping, but before and after the trip were two things that i think are absolutely perfect.

i had left my schedule for the next school year's classes at my gf's house, so the day before my camping trip i went over to her house to get it. as a pleasant surprise, i found that her mom was at work and her brother was at lagoon so the house was empty except for us two! we sat on the couch and cuddled while holding hands and stuff while playing with her kittens for a little with me trying to finally break through her defenses and get a french kiss going, and maybe even start making out.

while we were sitting there, i tried a couple times to kiss her, but she held her mouth shut, so i eventually went to kissing her neck a little bit. this did the trick, and within a couple minutes of it we started french kissing for a little. shortly after that, i went home to pack for the trip.

today, i got back. she had left a message on my phone that i couldn't really understand, so i called her back. she was all excited and stuff, screaming, "Kevin! you're back!" and stuff. two of her friends were over there and one of them took the phone and said, "you know what? we've been here having to listen to her complain about you being gone this entire time."

this brought me to a cool conclusion: the fact that it took so long to get her defences down enough for a french kiss was okay this time, cause it took till right before i left, and because of this, she was left for three days with nothing to do but think about it. i know that i've finally gotten the last of her main defences down, so tonight, if she gets to have the movie thing she's trying to plan, i think i'll get to go for a good make-out session!
 

BWSL2

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Yep, you sure do live in Utah. I don't know how many of those types I've met. So hard to breakthrough, but often worth it.
 

TheSplat

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138 posts and he's finally grasped the concept of being a challenge.
 

kevbo

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hey, gimme a break! so what if i can be dense sometimes :) . lol. anyway, i wasn't saying JUST be a challenge. i was saying that to break her defences, i weakened her a bit, gave her the first real kiss she's ever had, THEN played the challenge. it's about the timing.

and bwsl2, doesn't it just suck that it requires so much work all the time? around here, there's almost no such thing as a one night stand! it takes a month just to get a freakin kiss with some of them! i think it's the mormon influence. my parent's are ex-mormons, so i've only been to church 2 or 3 times in my life, and they teach guys to be afc's and girls to avoid ANYTHING sexual... well, that's my theory for a lot of the girls here. mine isn't any religion, she's just nervous due to lack of experience.
 
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