Use her on my rebound?

[Santos]

My AFC friends are with their GF's all weekend leaving me on my ass at home. Thank god I go back to university next week. After getting fed-up pursuing my oneitis I've decided I need to take my mind off her, that's the quickest way to get over it right - keep myself busy?

So, I met this girl a few weeks ago. I'd say she is about an HB8. Incredible body (average face - damn, I sound shallow). Well, we went out on two dates and to be honest her personality leaves much to be desired. She's boring, and I don't feel there's any real chemistry. Well, I haven't seen her for a while and she's invited me out to coffee on Friday. Seeing as my AFC buddies have ditched me AGAIN I thought "yeah, what the hell - let's do it."

She's a virgin (she gives me that impression) so I wouldn't use her for sex, besides I'm also a virgin - probably not a good idea. But I'm feeling crap and I'm thinking I should just go out with this girl for a while to get over my oneitis. I mean just making out with an HB8 and having her chase me is enough to boost my ego . Anything wrong with that? Besides, maybe she'll suprise me and end up being worthy of a LTR.

Guess I just wanted to know if you all think it's "un-DJ like"? Am I being AFC?

Thanks
Santos

 

[JohnJones]

You probably already know this but it's really a question of what you want to do.

You sound like you're interested in being a decent guy, but that doesn't mean you can't spend some time with her at your discretion, especially if you haven't misled her.

 

[NewMan]

Use her if you need to.

You probably won't enjoy your time very much though (especially since you said he poersonality sucked)...

Let me tell you what happened here.

Split up with my LTR - and met a girl in a bar. I was a little drunk at the time, but whatever - got her number closed the deal. Went out with her 1 week later - we played pool, ended back at my place and screwed.

i saw her 2 times since - each time we ended up banging.

i was just using her to get over my ex. Problem was I was not attracted to her..... and each morning I really didn't feel good about myself.... I was forcing the issue - forcing myself into banging her, and I should not have.

Now she wants more - and I have to tell her that it's over.


Bottom line - do what you feel you need to - just don't get into something that your not ready for.

AND FOR GOD"S SAKE, DON"T EVEN THINK ABOUT HAVING AN LTR WITH ANYONE UNTIL YOUR OVER YOUR EX.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

My only question is how in the fuk can you judge her as a HB8 when you describe her as "average in the face" with an incredible body? More like a HB6.5 to me and I'll tell you why. Average is HB5 right? Ok well she's average in the face with an incredible body, so boost her up a few notches for that. I'm not trying to hate, just want to stop the whole internet girl ratings boost.

Before you know it we'll have doods on here meeting ugly fat byatches and claim that they're HB8.5...LOL



PIMP

 

[Santos]

Originally posted by Pimp-sicle
My only question is how in the fuk can you judge her as a HB8 when you describe her as "average in the face" with an incredible body? More like a HB6.5 to me and I'll tell you why. Average is HB5 right? Ok well she's average in the face with an incredible body, so boost her up a few notches for that. I'm not trying to hate, just want to stop the whole internet girl ratings boost.

Before you know it we'll have doods on here meeting ugly fat byatches and claim that they're HB8.5...LOL



PIMP

Gee, thanks for posting something relevant to my QUESTION.
I'd say average is HB6, and anything below that is "below average". You have no idea how good her body is... I'd say a girl with a great body and average face (HB8) should rate higher than a girl with a great face and average body (HB6). These ratings are all a matter of opinion, and I don't see what difference it makes. We're not competeing with each other, and if we were, we'd probablly all be lying about how hot our women are

Oh, and what's wrong with fat women, huh? Some ppl think fat chicks are hot! I have personally banged over 137 - I loooove the way their fat wobbles when you pound them...

Santos

 

[Slickster]

Originally posted by Santos
So, I met this girl a few weeks ago. I'd say she is about an HB8. Incredible body (average face - damn, I sound shallow). Well, we went out on two dates and to be honest her personality leaves much to be desired.

Sounds like a match made in heaven.

Sorry Santos but your post reeks.

First you whine about your friends leaving your ass at home. You poor baby you. Get out on your own. Make new friends if you can't stand being alone.

Then you ask if its AFC to *use* someone you're not interested in to help mend your sorry ego. Thats not AFC bro its just dumb.

Man, you're like a teacher on holidays.....No Class.