One on One
Master Don Juan
Lots of people here know the background story about this girl I met in my class this summer and we've meeting up at clubs and such, yet I have failed to make a move. Well, I got sick of going to clubs and parties, hoping to make something happen when I know it's not my ideal environment. So, we both go back to school in a week and I decide I need to grow some balls and just ask her out for a one-on-one date.
I called her up tonight. I sat around for 30 minutes, thinking about what I would say and made a little list and crap. I was very nervous. When I called her and said, "what's up," she tells me she's about to take a shower. ****! I hate **** like that. Do I ignore that **** and start a convo? Or, do I say OK I'll call you back later? Anyways, I was indecisive about the thing and I was like, "um, are you gonna shower now?"...blah blah. It was a bad 30 seconds or so, but eventually we get to talking.
OK, conversation ensued fairly well for like 7 minutes, which is about the length I wanted. Towards the end, she gives me the rundown of her clubbing plans for the week so there's a green light that she wants to hang out. I go ahead with my plan, which is to ask her to come over and see a movie with me tomorrow. I ask what she's doing tomorrow night and she says, "nothing really." So, I tell her I'm gonna chill out and watch a movie that night, feel free to join me. (Maybe I was a little to casual here). Well, she's like, "yeah!" There was some enthusiasm in her "yeah" kinda like when you are trying to figure out a problem and someone makes a good suggestion, then you're like "yeah!" That's how I would describe her response...not too great, but good enough. Then, she said like how you gotta get your last hang-outs in during the last week before you go back....so, hopefully I'm not friends zoned?
Anyways, I failed to actually arrange the date! I got nervous and didn't want to make it all formal. I told her have a good shower and I told her I'd talk to her online that night (she said she'd be on and always is).
So, I have her agreeing to hang out and watch a movie tomorrow, but we didn't discuss the specifics? How do I resolve this without sounding all needy and clingy?
I called her up tonight. I sat around for 30 minutes, thinking about what I would say and made a little list and crap. I was very nervous. When I called her and said, "what's up," she tells me she's about to take a shower. ****! I hate **** like that. Do I ignore that **** and start a convo? Or, do I say OK I'll call you back later? Anyways, I was indecisive about the thing and I was like, "um, are you gonna shower now?"...blah blah. It was a bad 30 seconds or so, but eventually we get to talking.
OK, conversation ensued fairly well for like 7 minutes, which is about the length I wanted. Towards the end, she gives me the rundown of her clubbing plans for the week so there's a green light that she wants to hang out. I go ahead with my plan, which is to ask her to come over and see a movie with me tomorrow. I ask what she's doing tomorrow night and she says, "nothing really." So, I tell her I'm gonna chill out and watch a movie that night, feel free to join me. (Maybe I was a little to casual here). Well, she's like, "yeah!" There was some enthusiasm in her "yeah" kinda like when you are trying to figure out a problem and someone makes a good suggestion, then you're like "yeah!" That's how I would describe her response...not too great, but good enough. Then, she said like how you gotta get your last hang-outs in during the last week before you go back....so, hopefully I'm not friends zoned?
Anyways, I failed to actually arrange the date! I got nervous and didn't want to make it all formal. I told her have a good shower and I told her I'd talk to her online that night (she said she'd be on and always is).
So, I have her agreeing to hang out and watch a movie tomorrow, but we didn't discuss the specifics? How do I resolve this without sounding all needy and clingy?