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[Dale North]

Alrite guyz, herez my situation. Just curious to what ppl here on the board think

I'm asian, about average height but appears abit skinny. For the earlier majority of my life, I've been known to be a typical nice guy.

Thanx to dis site though, I've changed bout a month ago, and put away all dat wussy stuff. I'm much more confident now, and don't care what ppl think about me.

I don't have much problem talking wit girls, (maybe a little with the blonde ones) and can usually get to know them as friends. however, maybe itz juz me, or maybe high-school just izn't the place for it, I find da DJ skills excessively hard to pull of.

Itz almost impossible to tell if a girl iz fallin for u or not, and in dat case, I usually assume she izn't. So now I'm talking and aquinted with several girls, but none of them seem to be gettin anywhere.

 

[naluholo]

You're assuming they aren't into you, so work on the confidence (that's extremely important). Move on to some different girls and try things a little differently, don't get stuck on the same couple of girls for too long. You'll start gettin' the hang of it and realizing what it takes to get things movin. After a little time and practice you'll start seein' when and how to use your skills, and you'll also learn to tell when they're interested.

Good luck

 

[The Bishop]

The change doesn't happen overnight. Remember, your peers already have an impression of you, so it might take awhile for your "new self" to become evident to them. Just keep doing what you are doing, and soon enough you will see yourself moving in the direction you want to.

As for your build, the only thing you can do is hit the gym. I am part asian and about 5"11, and used to have the same problem. Fortunately, i think "slightly skinny" is the easiest body type to improve of anyone out there. All you have to do is commit yourself.

On another note, I think you should lose the "dis" instead of "this" and whatnot. People who talk like that always seem to come off on me as somewhat low in the intelligence department. That's just my opinion, of course.

 

[punkrockpylot]

yeah...plus, i am just using high school as a boot camp (i am also using the DJ Boot Camp, coincidence? i think not...hehe) to hone my DJ skills though i get a few dates, i just hone and hone...my blade is getting close to razor sharp so i can use it during college...10 short months and i will be one of the biggest pimps in Louisville, Kentucky...just keep on practicing and dont worry if theyre into you or not...

 

[Dale North]

thanks everyone. But itz kinda hard when you don't really know if your getting anywhere. But I'll do what you guys say: keep practicing.

p.s. best of luck to u all too.