Update: Wild Girl in Summer Class

[One on One]

Alright, I have been talking to this girl in my summer class and I'm trying to get some action with her. FYI, I'm 21 and have never gotten any action because of my shyness so this is tough, but it is something I need to overcome. It is a summer class so I don't think I needed to immediately turn up the heat, I have time. Anyways, here is what went down today:

I came to class planning to ask for her number at the end of class. Well, we got to talking during class and she ended up asking if I went online so I knew she wanted my screenname so I asked for hers, then gave her mine. I know some DJs would say not to give out my screenname, but I think that would be rude since she was making the effort to get that information. Anyways, after this happened, I decided not to ask for the number today.

Now, also during today's class I let her talk a lot. She told me some pretty interesting stuff and she is a wild party girl. She told me about how she has been drinking a helluva lot and passing out and not remembering the stuff she does. She mentioned a job she had last summer where she took shots with her co-workers during lunch, haha. Anyways, I knew she was a party girl, but now she seems really wild....and willing She was wearing a shirt that said "The Best FCUK Ever"...I was meaning to say something about her shirt, but I forgot, dammnit.

Alright, so now I have her screenname, but I don't go online much and I definitely don't want to see her online until Thursday when we have class. I have kept myself mysterious, not really telling her too much about myself and she seems to have a high IL. I'm shy and a recovering AFC, but I have had my C+F moments and I her impression of me is good. I don't think I want a relationship with her, but I want action so I need to make sure I don't get LJBF.

Does anybody have any tips on how I should proceed? I'm thinking of getting her number next time or asking her out for a quick bite right after class.

 

[K56Connect]

Don't say anything about her shirt. She wears sh!t like that because she's screaming for attention. Ever other guy has already commented on it; don't even acknowledge it. As for how to get the number, just say to her "Let me get your number." Sounds simple, doesn't it? Well, that's because it IS SIMPLE. Why does everyone make a big deal out of this "getting a number" routine?

 

[xblitz44x]

"Don't say anything about her shirt. She wears sh!t like that because she's screaming for attention. Ever other guy has already commented on it; don't even acknowledge it."

Very, very good advice. I agree. She's either attracted or not but women who are that thirsty for attention drive me up a wall. Don't say anything about the shirt. Let it go.

I don't think there's anything wrong with the screen name. Especially since she basically volunteered it. Next time you see her, be it in class or online just say something like "Yeah I'm never online but I'd like to talk to you. Lets talk on the phone instead because God knows the next time I'll actually be on the internet". If she likes you she'll be cool with it. Chicks who are into you make it EASY for you. That seems to be something that we've forgotten here.

Make it a point to do that next time you see her. If not, then just e-mail me her screen name. I'll take care of it : )

-Blitz

 

[One on One]

Ok, I won't comment on her outfits. She dresses pretty sexy and I can tell she is more than willing to talk about sex. She always asks if I saw any hot girls at work (I'm a lifeguard). I really want to get some action with this girl.

So, now I need some advice on how to get action. There are only a few classes left in the semester and I need to isolate her. We get along very well, but obviously I'll have to get her to hang out outside of class.

I was thinking of casually asking her to come with me to get a bite after class or go to Starbucks or something simple like that. She can't say she isn't available because she always goes home and takes a nap and I know she is interested so I don't see how she could turn me down. So, the question then is whether or not this is a good move for me? I'm confident she'll accept, but does it move me closer to action?

Then, I was thinking while we are out eating, I expect things to go well and to flirt a lot. Like I said before, she has basically nothing to do during the day so I could suggest we rent a movie and go back and watch it. This girl might even go for getting some drinks while we watch the movie on a Thursday afternoon. I figure if I can get her alone watching a movie with me (and possibly having some drinks), it'll be easy as pie.

Any suggestions?

 

[One on One]

Can you guys help a guy out here? I see her in class tomorrow morning and I may ask her out for a bite then.