Update: Attention InLawsHateME

[topdog3853]

So In case anybody cares here is my last post from two days ago

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=31928

So I said in my last post that I was going to take care of business, and F**k the morals that were running through my head. Well I'm in bed with this girl last night and we are having fun (no sex yet). I'm about to go for it and guess what I hear? I've never had sex before. My jaw kind of dropped. So whatever, we still had a fun night and did everything possible except sex, but I feel that I really could have finished the deal with her but if you read my last post I know this is not going to be anything long-term so I couldn't bring myself to do it. I'm mean take her V and then go running. It would have been different if I was more interested but damn!! Oh well just when I though I got over my moral issue, a f**king curve ball is thrown at me and they come creeping back at me.

so anyway INHM what ya think? I kind of think it is funny a little bit but I also don't want to f**k up someone's head in this situation.

 

[Quick]

I think you made a good decision. Girls always attach additional meaning to their first, and you don't want the guilt, nor the repercussions if she goes psycho after you split.

 

[topdog3853]

No doubt man, I agree with you. I just don't have time to deal with the bullsh*t just for the fact to have fun for one night.

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Well man, you would know what to do, you were there. Are you sure she didn't pick you to be THE one? In any case, you showed a lot of class bro, A LOT. I would have tapped it as soon as I heard 'never did it before'. You did good my man... not only that, she's probably thinking, 'I told him I was a virgin, and he was a gentleman about it. I'm going to do him so hard next time, he'll think I'm a slut.' ....you'll have another chance, and if she presents herself to you again, tap it, because she wants you to be the one. I know, it's easier said than done... It doesn't mean you guys will be shopping for curtains or anything so.... she just wants to have a summer to remember. You lucky mothasucka.

I also understand dude.... this reminded me of when I started fooling around with this girl, she wasn't a virgin, but her younger sister was. One night, I was coming home from some place, I ran into her sister and a friend of hers. Her friend pulled me to the side, and said, 'Christy... wants you to be the one to take away her virginity. She told me she didn't want to be a virgin anymore, but didn't have anyone to go to, I suggested you because you would know what to do.' Guess what I did? ....even though she looked like a smaller version of Samatha Fox at the time, I couldn't do it. For one, she was the sister of the girl I was seeing, and second, it didn't seem right for some odd reason. I dunno, like one day she just said, 'I'm tired of being a virgin.' ????? Whatever the case was, I told her I was totally honored that she would pick me, but her sister would murder us both. I think I was 18 at the time. She was like 14. Guess where she went for her problem? Her next door neighbor, who was 30 at the time. Still, I wasn't kicking myself for not doing it so..... oh, the girl I was seeing, I eventually ended up marrying, and divorced later... her sister and I, never mentioned that night during the 12 years I was married. Funny ain't it?