NOTE: I am a high school student, and the situation I'm about to describe involves a girl in the same school as me. In spite of this, I'm posting this thread here because 1) I don't particularly like the high school forum, and 2) I feel that this has less to do with high school specifically and more to do with basic DJ teachings, therefore I don't think this thread is totally out of place here.
Anyway, I'll keep the history as brief as I can. I'm in grade 12, and earlier this year I noticed this girl (who I later found out is in grade 10) who had been checking me out every time we crossed paths in the halls, but always looked away bashfully every time we made eye contact. Long story short, I approached her and put up my game, got her number, and tried to set up a date with her. When I did, she told me that she had mentioned me to her parents prior to my call, and they got really protective of her and told her that she was too young to date. At this point she apologized quite wholeheartedly and asked me if we could just be friends. I told her "It's worth a shot, I guess. No hard feelings".
Now I know that this is a very suspicious thing for her to have said, and in any other situation I would have immediately assumed that she wasn't interested. However, I can say with 100% confidence that this girl's interest level in me was (and still is) through the roof, so in this case I really do believe that her parents were forbidding her to date. For the sake of not making this post too long, I'll leave out specific examples of her interest for now, but if you want to hear some feel free to ask me.
Anyway, since I knew that she really was interested in me, and since I also knew that I would be coming back for another year, I decided to just keep flirting with her as I had always been and making sure to not fall into the friend zone, in hopes of keeping her interest level high enough for when her parents would loosen up on her. Sure enough, even after giving me a LJBF, she kept giving me powerful IOIs (she even gave me that "fvck me now" look a few times
).
So what's happening now is that I noticed on her MSN screen name that her 16th birthday is tomorrow. Nothing is certain, but her parents may very well loosen up on her once she hits that magic number. If this is the case, I would be interested in trying to take her out again.
My question to you all is: should I ask to see her again if she hints to me that she can do it, or should I take it further than that and wait for her to flat-out say that she wants to try again?
Anyway, I'll keep the history as brief as I can. I'm in grade 12, and earlier this year I noticed this girl (who I later found out is in grade 10) who had been checking me out every time we crossed paths in the halls, but always looked away bashfully every time we made eye contact. Long story short, I approached her and put up my game, got her number, and tried to set up a date with her. When I did, she told me that she had mentioned me to her parents prior to my call, and they got really protective of her and told her that she was too young to date. At this point she apologized quite wholeheartedly and asked me if we could just be friends. I told her "It's worth a shot, I guess. No hard feelings".
Now I know that this is a very suspicious thing for her to have said, and in any other situation I would have immediately assumed that she wasn't interested. However, I can say with 100% confidence that this girl's interest level in me was (and still is) through the roof, so in this case I really do believe that her parents were forbidding her to date. For the sake of not making this post too long, I'll leave out specific examples of her interest for now, but if you want to hear some feel free to ask me.
Anyway, since I knew that she really was interested in me, and since I also knew that I would be coming back for another year, I decided to just keep flirting with her as I had always been and making sure to not fall into the friend zone, in hopes of keeping her interest level high enough for when her parents would loosen up on her. Sure enough, even after giving me a LJBF, she kept giving me powerful IOIs (she even gave me that "fvck me now" look a few times
).So what's happening now is that I noticed on her MSN screen name that her 16th birthday is tomorrow. Nothing is certain, but her parents may very well loosen up on her once she hits that magic number. If this is the case, I would be interested in trying to take her out again.
My question to you all is: should I ask to see her again if she hints to me that she can do it, or should I take it further than that and wait for her to flat-out say that she wants to try again?
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