Hey guys, hope you're all well.
Anyway, I'm in a spot of trouble. During first week of Uni i didn't know a lot of people so i went nuts in establishing a make-shift social network. It's not as good as i want it to be but it's there and i'm hoping it'll get bigger/better over time. Anyway, some chubby girl is attracted to me.
I guess it was my fault for being DJ and ****y/funny towards her. It was my first week, i didn't know anyone so i gamed Uni girls like i usually would at a shopping mall. (Apparently I'm not supposed to do this at Uni? some guys on this board have advised me that at Uni i should take **** a little slower, especially if they're in my classes. IE. Don't ask for numbers so quickly)
So yeah, I think she wants to fck me. No, i know she does. She told me her parents don't really care if she comes home the next morning etc while looking at me in the eyes and lips. I wouldn't really mind fcking her (she has a cute enough face) but... I'm gaming a nicer lady and i don't want to fck it up. I don't want to just cold shoulder her either cause i don't know a lot of people yet and i really don't want to be labeled 'a jerk,' cause i don't want drama or anything. Oh yeah, I'm also living with my parents at the moment. All the girls I've had so far have had their own place (Dorm/Sharing etc) so i wouldn't know what to do with her cause she lives with her parents.
I was thinking maybe I'd call her out, make out with her or something then just tell her i wasn't looking for a relationship? If she's cool as a friend with benefits then that's a good thing?
I don't know what to do!
p.s oh yeah, would it be weird to just go to a motel to fck her? Then again, is fcking her a bad thing?
I also need to break up with my girlfriend. . . but i can't do that over the phone and she's moved 2 hours away from me.
Anyway, I'm in a spot of trouble. During first week of Uni i didn't know a lot of people so i went nuts in establishing a make-shift social network. It's not as good as i want it to be but it's there and i'm hoping it'll get bigger/better over time. Anyway, some chubby girl is attracted to me.
I guess it was my fault for being DJ and ****y/funny towards her. It was my first week, i didn't know anyone so i gamed Uni girls like i usually would at a shopping mall. (Apparently I'm not supposed to do this at Uni? some guys on this board have advised me that at Uni i should take **** a little slower, especially if they're in my classes. IE. Don't ask for numbers so quickly)
So yeah, I think she wants to fck me. No, i know she does. She told me her parents don't really care if she comes home the next morning etc while looking at me in the eyes and lips. I wouldn't really mind fcking her (she has a cute enough face) but... I'm gaming a nicer lady and i don't want to fck it up. I don't want to just cold shoulder her either cause i don't know a lot of people yet and i really don't want to be labeled 'a jerk,' cause i don't want drama or anything. Oh yeah, I'm also living with my parents at the moment. All the girls I've had so far have had their own place (Dorm/Sharing etc) so i wouldn't know what to do with her cause she lives with her parents.
I was thinking maybe I'd call her out, make out with her or something then just tell her i wasn't looking for a relationship? If she's cool as a friend with benefits then that's a good thing?
I don't know what to do!
p.s oh yeah, would it be weird to just go to a motel to fck her? Then again, is fcking her a bad thing?
I also need to break up with my girlfriend. . . but i can't do that over the phone and she's moved 2 hours away from me.