Little Panda
New Member
This is a guide of how to build and maintain a social circle in College, making you the most popular kid at school. I know this has been discussed before and I know there have been several guides written on this topic. What I'm about to provide you is a guide of MY way of doing it. MY way of seeing things, so spare me the wiseguy talk.
Remember that nothing in life is easy and that YOU have to make things happen. So don't come here complaining that this **** doesn't work because chances are that you are the one doing it wrong and/or not putting enough effort into it.
Constructive criticizm and other relevant comments are more than welcome.
Enjoy.
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I. Introduction
II. Layout/Plan
III. Making it happen
IV. Maintaining It
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Introduction
Your social circle does not only describe your friends and surroundings. Your social circle is what DEFINES you. After all, this is what all of us are really aiming for.
"I wanna get laid whenever I feel like it, in an infinite amount!!"
On the surface, this is true. We all want to get laid. However, we want this to be a part of our LIFE, we want our sexual aura to be a part of our definition as individuals. Most importantly, we want people to SEE this. FEEL this. KNOW this, about us.This is why the social circle plays the biggest role of your life. You can't expect yourself to be a "master pick up artist" with a crappy social circle. It doesn't add up. It doesn't work that way.
Now, let's briefly talk about College Game in general.
First off, DON'T APPLY ANY ROUTINES IN COLLEGE. I will get to this later.
You want to know the key to get laid in college? Here's the answer: Value.
In college, it's ALL about value. Your value is what gets you laid, your value is what makes everybody chase you and your value is what makes you the most popular kid in school that gets laid like a rockstar.
I will explain in detail exactly how you can achieve the highest value possible in college later on.
What I wanted to make clear in this introduction is this: Building a social circle with such a great power and becoming the most popular kid at school TAKES WORK. Yes, you actually have to do some work to get there.
With that being said: If you can't accept this fact and/or are too lazy to execute the necessary requirements - then don't even bother reading the rest of this.
Now, if you're ready, let's get to work.
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Layout/Plan
Before you start building your new social circle, you have to look at the life you're living at the moment. These are some key points you need answered:
1.What does your social circle look like right now?
2.How would you rate it? Good, bad?
3.What are the things that make your social circle good/bad?
4.Are there any friends in your surrounding that HURT your game?
5.How can you fix this?
Here's the point of this: You don't have to start from scratch. Try REPAIRING your social circle as it is and REMOVE all the components that are hurtful. This includes friends that give you nothing but trouble.
If you have a lot of friends that are "gamers" (like me) - you don't have to necessarily get rid of them (despite the fact that their value is at the bottom). But you must accept the fact that you will be spending a lot less time with them from now on. Not because you're pushing them away purposely, but because you're too busy constructing and adding parts to your social circle. This part is inevitable.
After you've answered all of those questions, you can now sit on the rollercoaster and wait for it to start:
1.Who are the most popular kids at school?
2.How much access to women to they have?
3.Which ones of those do I want to befriend?
NOTE: Those 3 questions ESPECIALLY invole the female students of your school.
So sit down and CAREFULLY think this through. You need to plan exactly what friends you are gonna keep, what friends must go and what friends are potential suiters for your social circle.
Oh, and women are exceptions. You don't need to kick them out/replace them. There can never be enough of them (*High Five*).
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Making It Happen
You have so far spotted and identified the "cool people". You have decided which people shall remain in your social circle and which shall... not.
You have your plan set up so now - it's time for the fun stuff.
Like mentioned earlier, college is all about value. If you got the value, you got the girls and all the other presents you can wish for.
The second part of this is to be SOCIAL. Combine value with a good social life - and you're on the road to a successful life in no time.
So here's what you need to do next:
1.Be social. Talk to everybody in the hallway and other places you find appropriate.
NOTE: This does NOT mean that you are "sarging" at school. This does NOT mean that you are supposed to "hit" on girls at school. It's too early for that.
Do it anyway - and you'll be sorry. No but seriously, it will get you a bad reputation (assuming that your game isn't at it's best potential).
2.Participate in events. People at school gotta KNOW how you are. They need to know of you. Joining events and/or performing on stage are GREAT ways of achieving this.
3.Be friendly to everyone. The reason I wrote this separately from "being social" is because most guys see other boys at school as "AMOGS" or "enemies" of some sort. DON'T do that. The guys at school are your FRIENDS and can be used as connections.
However, if a douchebag is still messing with you and being a total **** - just ignore him. He's trying to bring you down to his level and that's a trap you're not stupid enough to fall in (I hope).
4.Host parties. Yes, YOU are the host of almost every party/preparty in college. I will explain this properly below.
Now, you might say "But... I can't do it because of *insert reason here*."
That's OK, I used to have the very same problems as you. However, this can still be pulled off.
Say your friend told you: Hey, I think I'm gonna host a party next week.
It doesn't matter if you know the person or not. Point is, help him organize it and/or contribute to the party.
Possible contributions
*~ Bring booze
*~ Bring girls
*~ Be the HOST for him. Tell him you'll organize EVERYTHING (except for the guestlist).
Obviously, you will get a free pass to enter the party if you do this.
If you expect to get into GOOD parties for the popular kids, you are expected to somehow contribute to the event. Remember, this is the final step of the process.
In my opinion, bringing the girls (and possibly the booze) is the BEST way to get invited to any party. There is no party without women in it. That's just... a sausage fest.
So look through this post over and over until you GET IT. Write down the keywords and start memorizing - because this will be your biggest mission throughout your time in college.
You got the key components now. Keep them in your head and, most importantly, make sure you DO THEM.
Now, to the final note of this all...
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Maintaining It
Don't look at this as "work". It's not work. It's completely natural to talk to people in college without it seeming weird (unless you start doing some creepy ****).
Now here are some quick key points of how to NOT screw up:
1.Don't say the same things to different girls. In other words, don't use ROUTINES. Like I mentioned in the example above: People TALK. The girls WILL find out that you've said the EXACT same things to all of them. We all know the consequences of that.
2. Don't go around telling people you are studying "game". You will be ****ed if that gets out. If you're not sure by what I mean with this - ask me and I'll explain in detail.
3.Don't "sarge" in campus. Meaning, don't go around hitting on girls and trying to **** them. Only do this at parties.
If you can manage to stick to all the key points in this post - that would be perfect.
There's a chance that people may get jealous and try and sabotage this for you. Don't talk to those people.
There's a chance that your friends won't accept the new you. Make it clear to them that they will either accept it, or get lost. The worst thing you can do is to DROP all of this, because you want to keep your friends and you're scared of losing them. Remember, friends come and go.
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FINAL NOTE: I wrote this guide in half an hour. It was kind of quick, but I THINK that I got all the main points written down.
That being said, if you see anything that I should add, please tell me so and if I find it appropriate, I will do so.
Peace,
Little Panda.
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Remember that nothing in life is easy and that YOU have to make things happen. So don't come here complaining that this **** doesn't work because chances are that you are the one doing it wrong and/or not putting enough effort into it.
Constructive criticizm and other relevant comments are more than welcome.
Enjoy.
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I. Introduction
II. Layout/Plan
III. Making it happen
IV. Maintaining It
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Introduction
Your social circle does not only describe your friends and surroundings. Your social circle is what DEFINES you. After all, this is what all of us are really aiming for.
"I wanna get laid whenever I feel like it, in an infinite amount!!"
On the surface, this is true. We all want to get laid. However, we want this to be a part of our LIFE, we want our sexual aura to be a part of our definition as individuals. Most importantly, we want people to SEE this. FEEL this. KNOW this, about us.This is why the social circle plays the biggest role of your life. You can't expect yourself to be a "master pick up artist" with a crappy social circle. It doesn't add up. It doesn't work that way.
Now, let's briefly talk about College Game in general.
First off, DON'T APPLY ANY ROUTINES IN COLLEGE. I will get to this later.
You want to know the key to get laid in college? Here's the answer: Value.
In college, it's ALL about value. Your value is what gets you laid, your value is what makes everybody chase you and your value is what makes you the most popular kid in school that gets laid like a rockstar.
I will explain in detail exactly how you can achieve the highest value possible in college later on.
What I wanted to make clear in this introduction is this: Building a social circle with such a great power and becoming the most popular kid at school TAKES WORK. Yes, you actually have to do some work to get there.
With that being said: If you can't accept this fact and/or are too lazy to execute the necessary requirements - then don't even bother reading the rest of this.
Now, if you're ready, let's get to work.
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Layout/Plan
Before you start building your new social circle, you have to look at the life you're living at the moment. These are some key points you need answered:
1.What does your social circle look like right now?
2.How would you rate it? Good, bad?
3.What are the things that make your social circle good/bad?
4.Are there any friends in your surrounding that HURT your game?
5.How can you fix this?
Here's the point of this: You don't have to start from scratch. Try REPAIRING your social circle as it is and REMOVE all the components that are hurtful. This includes friends that give you nothing but trouble.
If you have a lot of friends that are "gamers" (like me) - you don't have to necessarily get rid of them (despite the fact that their value is at the bottom). But you must accept the fact that you will be spending a lot less time with them from now on. Not because you're pushing them away purposely, but because you're too busy constructing and adding parts to your social circle. This part is inevitable.
After you've answered all of those questions, you can now sit on the rollercoaster and wait for it to start:
1.Who are the most popular kids at school?
2.How much access to women to they have?
3.Which ones of those do I want to befriend?
NOTE: Those 3 questions ESPECIALLY invole the female students of your school.
So sit down and CAREFULLY think this through. You need to plan exactly what friends you are gonna keep, what friends must go and what friends are potential suiters for your social circle.
Oh, and women are exceptions. You don't need to kick them out/replace them. There can never be enough of them (*High Five*).
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Making It Happen
You have so far spotted and identified the "cool people". You have decided which people shall remain in your social circle and which shall... not.
You have your plan set up so now - it's time for the fun stuff.
Like mentioned earlier, college is all about value. If you got the value, you got the girls and all the other presents you can wish for.
The second part of this is to be SOCIAL. Combine value with a good social life - and you're on the road to a successful life in no time.
So here's what you need to do next:
1.Be social. Talk to everybody in the hallway and other places you find appropriate.
NOTE: This does NOT mean that you are "sarging" at school. This does NOT mean that you are supposed to "hit" on girls at school. It's too early for that.
Do it anyway - and you'll be sorry. No but seriously, it will get you a bad reputation (assuming that your game isn't at it's best potential).
2.Participate in events. People at school gotta KNOW how you are. They need to know of you. Joining events and/or performing on stage are GREAT ways of achieving this.
3.Be friendly to everyone. The reason I wrote this separately from "being social" is because most guys see other boys at school as "AMOGS" or "enemies" of some sort. DON'T do that. The guys at school are your FRIENDS and can be used as connections.
However, if a douchebag is still messing with you and being a total **** - just ignore him. He's trying to bring you down to his level and that's a trap you're not stupid enough to fall in (I hope).
4.Host parties. Yes, YOU are the host of almost every party/preparty in college. I will explain this properly below.
Now, you might say "But... I can't do it because of *insert reason here*."
That's OK, I used to have the very same problems as you. However, this can still be pulled off.
Say your friend told you: Hey, I think I'm gonna host a party next week.
It doesn't matter if you know the person or not. Point is, help him organize it and/or contribute to the party.
Possible contributions
*~ Bring booze
*~ Bring girls
*~ Be the HOST for him. Tell him you'll organize EVERYTHING (except for the guestlist).
Obviously, you will get a free pass to enter the party if you do this.
If you expect to get into GOOD parties for the popular kids, you are expected to somehow contribute to the event. Remember, this is the final step of the process.
In my opinion, bringing the girls (and possibly the booze) is the BEST way to get invited to any party. There is no party without women in it. That's just... a sausage fest.
So look through this post over and over until you GET IT. Write down the keywords and start memorizing - because this will be your biggest mission throughout your time in college.
You got the key components now. Keep them in your head and, most importantly, make sure you DO THEM.
Now, to the final note of this all...
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Maintaining It
Don't look at this as "work". It's not work. It's completely natural to talk to people in college without it seeming weird (unless you start doing some creepy ****).
Now here are some quick key points of how to NOT screw up:
1.Don't say the same things to different girls. In other words, don't use ROUTINES. Like I mentioned in the example above: People TALK. The girls WILL find out that you've said the EXACT same things to all of them. We all know the consequences of that.
2. Don't go around telling people you are studying "game". You will be ****ed if that gets out. If you're not sure by what I mean with this - ask me and I'll explain in detail.
3.Don't "sarge" in campus. Meaning, don't go around hitting on girls and trying to **** them. Only do this at parties.
If you can manage to stick to all the key points in this post - that would be perfect.
There's a chance that people may get jealous and try and sabotage this for you. Don't talk to those people.
There's a chance that your friends won't accept the new you. Make it clear to them that they will either accept it, or get lost. The worst thing you can do is to DROP all of this, because you want to keep your friends and you're scared of losing them. Remember, friends come and go.
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FINAL NOTE: I wrote this guide in half an hour. It was kind of quick, but I THINK that I got all the main points written down.
That being said, if you see anything that I should add, please tell me so and if I find it appropriate, I will do so.
Peace,
Little Panda.
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