Ugh Not in the mood for games

[PRMoon]

I was out last night with the room mate at one of our local bars. We just wanted to go out, drink, smoke a few cigs, and play some video keno. While we were there littearlly half of the girls in the bar (including the coctail waitresses) were dead staring us down from the moment we got in there. We were sooo not in the mood to do any gaming so we ended up getting kinda pissed. At one point my room mate was like " For the love og god, Don't these girls have conversations of their own to handle?" We stayed for a while cause we were winning at keno so our drinks were pretty much free (and we were dead set on getting f*cked up).
I suppose it was because we both had late night visitors the night before and we were just there to blow off some steam from work. Why does it work out like that though? When you're just looking to do your own thing, girls are all about you and make things really easy. But when you're out with the intentions of gaming, you have to jump through hoops.

 

[wjh]

this isn't directly related to your question, but seriously, men need more places where men can just be men without having to have women around heckling them.

like sporting events. they USED to be a place where men could go, drink, eat like crap, and watch two teams go at it. but now with $12 beers and a more "family" tuned environment, it isn't the same.

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by PRMoon
Why does it work out like that though? When you're just looking to do your own thing, girls are all about you and make things really easy. But when you're out with the intentions of gaming, you have to jump through hoops.

No offense, but you've been here two years now and don't know the answer to that question?

Just in case you've missed the 2938492834 threads dealing with the question, I'll fill you in. When you're out with your friends with nothing but relaxing in mind, you don't give off the "I want a girl" vibe. When you're actively pursuing a female, your intentions are transparent and you'll find that girls will react accordingly. This is why so many of the articles, threads, and tips suggest that you do your own thing because it's what you want to do...

 

[PRMoon]

But really, I mean come on.. Two guys who were definatly dressed down (Ratty t-shirts, jeans with holes in them, and not so nice looking shoes), Un shaven, drinking 28 oz draft beers, smoking cigarettes, and playing video keno.
There was a 50/50 ratio of guys to girls in there, the rest of the guys were dressed to be out, they were doing their own things as well but still we got way more attention.
So you're telling me looking like a bum gets you more attention, and having good apeal makes you less desireabe? If So I've been going about things all wrong and I should of gotten way way more numbers with seriously a lot less effort.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Hahaha, did you ever think that you were getting attention because maybe you didn't fit in?? Don't jump to conclusions!

 

[jprjrjr]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Hahaha, did you ever think that you were getting attention because maybe you didn't fit in?? Don't jump to conclusions!

lol prl

 

[BigFoot]

Yes, PRL has it. If you were hanging around with some friends with nothing much to do and a couple of female losers walked in, what would you probably do?

 

[PRMoon]

Yes, PRL has it. If you were hanging around with some friends with nothing much to do and a couple of female losers walked in, what would you probably do?

Typically I'd ignore girls who don't fit in not stare at them.

Besides we were getting "the look" as I so aptly call it these days. I know the difference between staring at some one because they're embarrassed for them and "the look".

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Originally posted by PRMoon
Typically I'd ignore girls who don't fit in not stare at them.

Besides we were getting "the look" as I so aptly call it these days. I know the difference between staring at some one because they're embarrassed for them and "the look".

Maybe they thought you were poofters?

 

[padrote]

this post sounds like you're stroking your e-peen.

 

[Slickster]

Originally posted by padrote
this post sounds like you're stroking your e-peen.

 

[PRMoon]

So last night I was at mix with the room mate again. We were dressed to go out (nice shirts, nicer jeans, nice shoes, clean shave) and we got the postive attention that we're use to when we're suited up.

So we finally picked up a pair of 7's both 27, and struck up our normal conversation with them. I asked the one I was talking what exactly attracted the two of them to us and she said that we definately have a vibe to us, aside from being easy on the eyes, we look like stable, fun, adventurous guys. She also said that we're both of different races (roomies white to my black) but have a really high level of connectedness about us, just makes us more apealing (dunno why but hey ill go with it).

So i'm thinking it's a vibe we put out because of our presence on being a team that's what gets us the looks, not so much how we look (although that's a factor as well). Two guys with their heads on their shoulders who are visibly all buisness = curiosity and attractiveness to girls around us.

Any thoughts?