The Master Disaster
Master Don Juan
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So I recently went through a long and drawn out thing and it eventually ended up that I had given up on her and she had friendzoned me.
She invited me to her party on Saturday, and I haven't said if I'd go or not (I probably won't).
So anyways, now I got another problem. I've known this other girl in my french class for over a year.
Here is the back story: This will be our third French together. She and I have always gotten along well. I've transitioned leaps and bounds from where I was a year ago physically and mentally, and she's noticed. However, in the last 2 French classes we have sat on opposing sides of the room, and rarely she and I worked together. When we did, we got a long really well. However, that was that. I never had the balls to ask her out, and we never talked outside of class.
Now, this semester. She sat next to me first day passing up all her friends in class, and everyday we've heavily, heavily flirted for the last 2 weeks during class. I flirt with all the women in that class since I'm the only straight male. I usually get bombarded with flirtation, and it's all in good fun. The first day she and I sat at a table by ourselves, and now the table is full of women sitting around me. She didn't sit next to me one time because women filled up all the seats, and she did this "Oh, I guess there isn't enough room for me at the 'cool' table." So Today, I walked with her after class, and we're getting fairly close.
Last week or so I was pointed out by the professor for going on the study abroad thing with my French class. So after class, I see her looking at the brochures for studying abroad, so I'm "Oh cool, maybe she'll go." Today, she told me she was going to go on the study abroad thing with my French class, which means she and I along with 7 or so other students will travel in France for two weeks.
While we were walking I really want to ask her out, BUT here is the problem. The every so cliche, "She's got a boyfriend thing."
I know that I should write her off, but she sits right next to me for 3 hours a week, and in this language course we spend 50-75% of the class working with partners, so writing her off would be difficult, and I mean how big of an ass**** would I look if she sits next to me, and I minimally talk to her. I couldn't move to another seat because she purposely sits next to me. She'll do stuff to get my attention while the professors lectures. She'll point at my watch if she likes it. She tries on my sunglasses or hat. Once or twice a class, I'll play with her. If I get something right in class, I'll be like "Count it!" and pretend like I'm making a jumper. Then she'll get something right and nudge me and say with a smile "I got that right! not him! Me!" I mean it would be difficult to avoid her...
She's got 3 or 4 friends in that class, but every class she looks for me and sits next to me.
I don't know what to do. I don't want to be friendzoned. The first day of class she sat next to me and mentioned her bf a couple times, but ever since then she hasn't even mentioned him once..
I'm trying to think if I should run the jealousy game with other women or what... I'll get her jealous by just merely talking to other women, and they will flirt with me; then she'll be like "MD! We have to finish this!" in a fun kind of tone. I think I could get her fairly jealous if I tried a little.
I hate this. I have perfect opportunities that I didn't have a year ago, but I can't do it because she's got a boyfriend! The previous girl experience made me lose the fear of getting turned down, but it's like ... ugh.
I was kind of thinking there is test coming up in a week or so, and I might ask her to study with me because it's a non-threatening thing, and that might spring board, or it might be a sentencing for the friendzone... who knows.
At the same time, I'm thinking women will never break up with their boyfriends for you. I see it all the time. Men chase women with boyfriends, and it never works.
What should I do to avoid the friendzone with her?
She invited me to her party on Saturday, and I haven't said if I'd go or not (I probably won't).
So anyways, now I got another problem. I've known this other girl in my french class for over a year.
Here is the back story: This will be our third French together. She and I have always gotten along well. I've transitioned leaps and bounds from where I was a year ago physically and mentally, and she's noticed. However, in the last 2 French classes we have sat on opposing sides of the room, and rarely she and I worked together. When we did, we got a long really well. However, that was that. I never had the balls to ask her out, and we never talked outside of class.
Now, this semester. She sat next to me first day passing up all her friends in class, and everyday we've heavily, heavily flirted for the last 2 weeks during class. I flirt with all the women in that class since I'm the only straight male. I usually get bombarded with flirtation, and it's all in good fun. The first day she and I sat at a table by ourselves, and now the table is full of women sitting around me. She didn't sit next to me one time because women filled up all the seats, and she did this "Oh, I guess there isn't enough room for me at the 'cool' table." So Today, I walked with her after class, and we're getting fairly close.
Last week or so I was pointed out by the professor for going on the study abroad thing with my French class. So after class, I see her looking at the brochures for studying abroad, so I'm "Oh cool, maybe she'll go." Today, she told me she was going to go on the study abroad thing with my French class, which means she and I along with 7 or so other students will travel in France for two weeks.
While we were walking I really want to ask her out, BUT here is the problem. The every so cliche, "She's got a boyfriend thing."
I know that I should write her off, but she sits right next to me for 3 hours a week, and in this language course we spend 50-75% of the class working with partners, so writing her off would be difficult, and I mean how big of an ass**** would I look if she sits next to me, and I minimally talk to her. I couldn't move to another seat because she purposely sits next to me. She'll do stuff to get my attention while the professors lectures. She'll point at my watch if she likes it. She tries on my sunglasses or hat. Once or twice a class, I'll play with her. If I get something right in class, I'll be like "Count it!" and pretend like I'm making a jumper. Then she'll get something right and nudge me and say with a smile "I got that right! not him! Me!" I mean it would be difficult to avoid her...
She's got 3 or 4 friends in that class, but every class she looks for me and sits next to me.
I don't know what to do. I don't want to be friendzoned. The first day of class she sat next to me and mentioned her bf a couple times, but ever since then she hasn't even mentioned him once..
I'm trying to think if I should run the jealousy game with other women or what... I'll get her jealous by just merely talking to other women, and they will flirt with me; then she'll be like "MD! We have to finish this!" in a fun kind of tone. I think I could get her fairly jealous if I tried a little.
I hate this. I have perfect opportunities that I didn't have a year ago, but I can't do it because she's got a boyfriend! The previous girl experience made me lose the fear of getting turned down, but it's like ... ugh.
I was kind of thinking there is test coming up in a week or so, and I might ask her to study with me because it's a non-threatening thing, and that might spring board, or it might be a sentencing for the friendzone... who knows.
At the same time, I'm thinking women will never break up with their boyfriends for you. I see it all the time. Men chase women with boyfriends, and it never works.
What should I do to avoid the friendzone with her?
