Two dates, still no fvking kiss! Where do I stand!?

TheCrimson2k1

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Crap. I'm in SERIOUS trouble. It's not that I'm prude, I've been engaging in sexual activities for a while now, but for some reason the level of nervosity with this girl is rediculous.

Anyway, two dates, still no kiss. Where do I stand with this girl? Am I a prude to her, or what? And the thing is, I can't just walk away from it because she's my prom date in three weeks. I need to know a way to patch things up and for some reason I am afraid to ask her on a third date because she might flat out say no. Need advice!

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Did you make a move? The last girl that I dated was ready on the first date but I didn't make a move and so I didn't get a kiss. Then on the second date, I made the move and we kissed on the lips. I wanted that french kiss so badly though.
 

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Tried

Well, when I dropped her off we sat in the car and I said "Hope you enjoyed, it blah blah blah." i was gonna make my move then once our eyes locked but she began to open the door so I decided I was gonna make my move at the front door. Well, we talked for about a minute and man I was going to make a move, I was on the verge but I just felt too nervous. We both knew the moment was there, I can tell. I just hope she doesn't think I'm some loser because that's not a good thing if I'm going to prom with her.
 

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Well what worked for me was, when my date opened the door, I smiled and said "Don't leave!" and then that was her cue, so she goes "You want a kiss?" and I'm like... BAM on the lips. I wanted more though. I shoulda said, "That wasn't good enough, I want another!"
 

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Use ALOT OF kino, she might be one of those slow reacting girls. Don't give up yet and put her in the mood.
 

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Just put your arms around her and pull her close to you, the rest is just instinct.
 

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i used to be nervous when i ahd a date and you had the kiss at the end of the date, but i figured out if you just use a lot of kino on the date, if you already arent making out by the end of the date , its a lot eassier for the bopth of yall to jus tget into it without all the bull shyt hapening.
 

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Ok dude, next time u go out, get her in the mood sometime in the middle of the date...then make ur move...
that way u dont get all nervous right at the very end.
if u try and she rejects u, dont worry just try again. if no on the 2nd time, give it up...
 

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BAD..
depends on the mood of the date though, and if you were surrounded by friends the whole time? if you two were alone, and you didnt go for the kiss, this isnt a good situation, its your fault for being a pvssy

go on a third, and DONT BE A PVSSY, get a kiss, if she stops you, shes no good, find another girl...
 

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Hey man, dont EVER hesitate once you lock the eyes, then you have to go for it. If you pvssy out..eh trust me...dont pvssy out. you want to look confident. She obviously is interested in something if its your second date. good luck! there is actully a great article on the sosuave.com site...basically stating.

"Do you like suprises?" and before she has time to say yes or no just go for it.
or just go for the usual one i do...

So...nice shoes wanna ****?

good luck!

slick
 

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oh yeah and i forgot to add...if she says no to your thrid date ( which she most likely wont ) just forget about it. there are so many ladies out there that would kill to be with you man. think of it like that. i hope that helps.
 
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