Turning a girl on on the dance floor?

[Kasl]

All right hey guys, this site has done a lot for me and really made me do a 180 on the direction my life was going. I'm very thankfull for that.

So i was at a club and thanks to a lot of the tips from here, i was able to muster the courage and pull some hot hb8's and higher and have a great time dancing with them.

What i want to know is do any of you guys do things that turn the GIRL on while your dancing with her. I mean the girls that i danced with had no trouble turning me on with their short skirts and hot bodys, I want to know things that i can do that will do the same for her, and hopefully in the end increasing her interest level in me for doing so.

Anyone got any stories, tricks, techniques they want to share?

What i think seemed to work a bit for me is when i go to talk to the girl, i really pull her in close and apply kino while im whispering/saying whatever it is with my lips very close to her ear.

 

[wskbb]

i find that girls respond to the energy that you're sending out.
the more u enjoy urself and dances to her rhythm, the closer they dance towards u + eye contact & smile

next thing u know it's grinding time.

im no expert but this is what i learned from experience.

 

[Le Parisien]

There's a good old member whose user name is Kineti[C]harm, he made a great thread about this exact topic some time ago that can be found here.

It's literally a gold mine that can be useful to many guys who go to dance clubs. Just be aware of the fact that it's for the rather "advanced" people who are doing already pretty good at clubs but who want to make it even better. The guys who need the drunken courage and who don't know how to dance better start with the basics first.

Just for the info, this Kineti[C]harm dude is a tall good looking scandinavian guy who has no problem with women, he knows what he's talking about. So maybe, a few things here and there might not work very well for guys who are short or fat or ugly or who are not very experienced with women.

Also bear in mind that you can never turn a girl on on the dance floor if she's not at least somewhat physically attracted to you. Your job is not to create this attraction but to amplify it when it exists.

Happy reading.

 

[nvictor]

belle de loin, mais loin d'être belle...
j'adore moi

 

[Kev07]

There's a good old member whose user name is Kineti[C]harm, he made a great thread about this exact topic some time ago that can be found here.

It's literally a gold mine that can be useful to many guys who go to dance clubs. Just be aware of the fact that it's for the rather "advanced" people who are doing already pretty good at clubs but who want to make it even better. The guys who need the drunken courage and who don't know how to dance better start with the basics first.

Just for the info, this Kineti[C]harm dude is a tall good looking scandinavian guy who has no problem with women, he knows what he's talking about. So maybe, a few things here and there might not work very well for guys who are short or fat or ugly or who are not very experienced with women.

Also bear in mind that you can never turn a girl on on the dance floor if she's not at least somewhat physically attracted to you. Your job is not to create this attraction but to amplify it when it exists.

Happy reading.

that was a GREAT read!

Question though, he says in that thread that you should be grinding with a hardon, but at my junior prom, there was this one guy that was grinding with a hardon, and apparently, the girl got disgusted and stopped dancing with him, he then proceded to dance with another girl, got another hardon, and that girl left him too.

confused

 

[CompleteShift]

belle de loin, mais loin d'être belle...
j'adore moi

Tu devrais apprendre utiliser pronoms. "Je m'adore" est plus meilleur que "J'adore moi". Me corriges si j'ai tort.

 

[supajsilver2]

no comprendo.

 

[Le Parisien]

Tu devrais apprendre utiliser pronoms. "Je m'adore" est plus meilleur que "J'adore moi". Me corriges si j'ai tort.

Sorry sir, the other guy got everything (in French) right.

"J'adore moi" doesn't mean "I like/love myself", it means "I like it", because it's actually "j'adore, moi".

Plus your reply should have been:
"Tu devrais apprendre à utiliser les pronoms. "Je m'adore" est nothing here meilleur que "J'adore moi". Corrige moi si je me trompe"

"J'ai tort" is not totally wrong, it's just not idiomatic in this context.

But props for trying.:flowers:

 

[Le Parisien]

that was a GREAT read!

Question though, he says in that thread that you should be grinding with a hardon, but at my junior prom, there was this one guy that was grinding with a hardon, and apparently, the girl got disgusted and stopped dancing with him, he then proceded to dance with another girl, got another hardon, and that girl left him too.

confused

I'd say for the grinding with hardon thing, it's more suited for the "grown up" crowd. I mean by that like the college crowd, up to maybe early 30s.

I can imagine that if you do that when you are only 14 or 15, at an age when people start to discover their sexuality, you will come off as a pervert, or a player, a sexual predator. It's a little like smoking or drinking is no big deal per se, but if you see some 10 year old kid doing it, you'd be freaked out.

 

[dot]

rhon rhon les conards de merdes vont enculer les elephants roses!:yes:

 

[dot]

I'd say for the grinding with hardon thing, it's more suited for the "grown up" crowd. I mean by that like the college crowd, up to maybe early 30s.

I can imagine that if you do that when you are only 14 or 15, at an age when people start to discover their sexuality, you will come off as a pervert, or a player, a sexual predator. It's a little like smoking or drinking is no big deal per se, but if you see some 10 year old kid doing it, you'd be freaked out.

in hs there is smoking + drinking + ****ing

 

[Le Parisien]

in hs there is smoking + drinking + ****ing

I'm not saying it doesn't exist, it's about the extent of things.

What might be considered the norm or acceptable in college or later could be seen as excessive or too "avant garde" in junior high or high school.

 

[Kasl]

There's a good old member whose user name is Kineti[C]harm, he made a great thread about this exact topic some time ago that can be found here.

Happy reading.

Awesome that is some excellent pro info that ill definatley put into practice.

 

[INXS]

This begs a related question:

Do girls like it when guys get all hard when dancing against the back of their hips?

 

[Kev07]

i don't know, really mixed responses, some girls get freaked out, others get turned on