TRUTH:Fat Guys (charming) With "Hot, Cute Chicks"

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So, lets be clear. Alot of you guys here say you see these "FAT" guys with beautiful women.

TRUTH: You don't know their past. ITS 99.999% ASSUMPTION You, me, and everyone here makes.

Probability 1:
These fat guys (not ugly looking face wise) are just friends with them.maybe their gay friend.

Probability 2:
These fat guys have been in a relationship with these women for many many years now.
In the early days, they were probably fit and had a chad like face. And when you see them TODAY with these beautiful girls, the girls got attached to them early early during his prime days when he was in much better shape. Here's a tell: do you see any of these fat dudes dating hot women with zits and yellow crooked teeth and dress all scrubby?

Probability 3:
These fat charming guys you see today probably were good with women in their early days. They were confident, chad like face, nice body, etc.
They still carry on their inner confidence from the past even if on the external it doesn't show.


Truth is IMO, you got fat guys who have the facial structure. And if they loose fat, they'll be super attractive
Then you got guys who just don't have the facial structure PERIOD... Fat or thin...they just look whack.


BONUS
And if and when you do see these FAT UGLY DUDES pull hot chicks "IN" did they actually fvck em? DID YOU SEE THEM HAVE SEX WITH THEM? HECKK NO. The chicks were just being nice at the moment. So, you don't know the story of that either. These fat ugly dude with a mouthpiece are just dancing monkeys to these women who were probably bored.



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Disagree to an extent because I see ones in their 20s and even 30s with decent looking women and are fat, and even if they were skinny they still wouldn't be that good looking. Of course with the older guys I can see that possibly they were trim in their younger days like many are, but I see these younger ones who are slobs with them still.

So what the hell is their secret?
 

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I've seen short stocky brown men with bombshell babes. You can do something about being fat, having bad teeth or lots of zits, you can't do anything about your height or your looks, and yet the evidence is there that you can succeed. They might be with them for their money, sure, but they're still banging the bombshell.

Making excuses is lame
 

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how do you know they fvcked them?

Theres a difference between guys who fvcked them or just hang out friend.

BUT IF ALL YOU REALLY CARE ABOUT is hanging out with "hot girls" without "banging them" then you would have to be charming, interesting, funny, IMO... you would need to have some sort of VALUE.
 

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So what the hell is their secret?
They have value to these hot women. That we will not know unless you talk to the dude and dig for information which you should do. And clear yourself of this mystery. SEEK AND FIND THE ANSWER ONCE AND FOR ALL. So that you can finally break yourself free from your current mindset.

This would be a nice project for anyone here who wants to know the "secret"
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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You forgot number 4) they have nothing to lose. You see this in the clubs a lot. Especially dance clubs. Pudgy looking Mexican auto mechanics and drug dealers approaching everything in sight and somehow they end up with a hot chick after 25 rejections.

When you have nothing to lose, you have everything to gain. Chubby guys make the perfect puas because they will approach non stop until something hits. And even if they don’t pull, they are able to go home and sleep at night and brush off all the rejection because they didn’t really expect anything anyway.

What you see is the girl, but what you don’t see are the 100 unreactive and outcome Independent approaches that comes from not having any
Expectations.

Its not just about looks. The handsome guy might not want to do 25 approaches. And the hot chick might not want to chase the handsome guys. Cue the the 5’5’ medican mechanic who doesn’t give a fvck. He’ll make up for the lack of initiative.
EVERYONE HAS A RATIO ABOVE THEIR HEADS THEY CAN'T SEE. 1 out of XXX

example
Fat guy who don't approach women who just wait for women to make the move 1:10,000
Fat guy with no social skills but approaches women: 1:1000 women
Fat guy with social skills: 1:250
Fat guy with nice face: 1:50 women
Fat guy with money, etc etc 1:25

theres many combinations.. those are just a few

some more

Ugly faced guy with nice jacked body 1:30
Ugly faced guy with with skinny body: 1:70
Ugly faced guy with skinny body with hella money: 1:40


anyways.... im just trying to give light and ideas to add to your thinking. Purpose of this thread is not to hate.

THE END ALL BE ALL IS asking women out is A NUMBERS GAME.
THE QUESTION IS, HOW WILL YOU LOWER YOUR RATIO?
 

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crazy what 10 years do to ya. Wow...2018, and 2019 members here..I'm glad you guys found this at an earlier age. But yes guys, its really appearance that will get your p3nis inside of her. BUT FOR RELATIONSHIP, you need to have confidence on top of looks.

The dating game i noticed now, is sex first THEN relationship.

What you guys think?
 

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But i think alot of the guys here, and i can understand where they are coming from is the basic of getting their first pvssy.
 

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I’ve heard a lot of women say they dig big guys.. not 350 lbs 5’5 balding smelly guys but like big husky guys think Kevin James type guys or a nfl player

Just because she is “hot” doesn’t mean she likes the type of guys you think she does
Looks matter but everybody is different .. I’m 6’0-6’1 240 and I do ok
When I’m with girls I often hear I feel “safe” I feel “secure” things like that because let’s face it if you are out robbing people your probably gonna bypass the 6’1 240 lb guy and run up on the 5’9 160 lb guy
 

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Fat guys usually have a great sense of humor

A guy like Chris Farley would pull women regardless of if he was a celebrity or not IMO, because he's hilarious, and women love when you can make them laugh
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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Fat guys usually have a great sense of humor

A guy like Chris Farley would pull women regardless of if he was a celebrity or not IMO, because he's hilarious, and women love when you can make them laugh
True. Same with Kevin James that was previously mentioned. If there is at least one single good thing about being a guy is that unless you're like a butt ugly fat dwarf there are other ways you can improve yourself and still have a chance like money, personality and sense of humor to attract women since women don't operate on 100 percent looks like most men do. If you're a ugly woman and a 270lb landwhale there really isn't anything you can change to get a decent guy. Money won't do it for example. Rosie Odonnel might be wealthy but I wouldn't even want my pecker within 50 feet of her.

Even a fat guy as stated if you're funny, outgoing like a Chris Farley or Kevin James you can pull in tail still.
 

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crazy what 10 years do to ya. Wow...2018, and 2019 members here..I'm glad you guys found this at an earlier age. But yes guys, its really appearance that will get your p3nis inside of her. BUT FOR RELATIONSHIP, you need to have confidence on top of looks.

The dating game i noticed now, is sex first THEN relationship.

What you guys think?
That is how it always was and is. How do you have a relationship with someone, without having sex....Test before you buy.
 

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True. Same with Kevin James that was previously mentioned. If there is at least one single good thing about being a guy is that unless you're like a butt ugly fat dwarf there are other ways you can improve yourself and still have a chance like money, personality and sense of humor to attract women since women don't operate on 100 percent looks like most men do. If you're a ugly woman and a 270lb landwhale there really isn't anything you can change to get a decent guy. Money won't do it for example. Rosie Odonnel might be wealthy but I wouldn't even want my pecker within 50 feet of her.

Even a fat guy as stated if you're funny, outgoing like a Chris Farley or Kevin James you can pull in tail still.
so chris farly was a clown to these women. Did he get laid?

1. He probably didn't in his early days before he became famous
2. His probability went higher when he became famous...

So, BIGGOAL, what is your real goal?

1. Just to be surrounded by hot women in public for show and not get laid.? If another chump see's you "being surrounded by women in public area" they'll think "omg he must be fvcking all of em"

2. Do you just want to have sex with women like fvck buddies only?

3. Do u want to have sex and have relationship?

4. Just befriends but no s3x?

WTF is it you really want?
 

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Probability 4: girls like beta orbiters
Probability 5: the girls are using them for their money.
Probability 6: the hot girl you see is actually an escort being paid to go on a “date” with the fat guy
 
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