Trusting girls.

[MightyMate]

Thing is. Recenly i dropped my girl. But thats niot the point. Point is, because i dropped her now i wanna do some fun. Most of phones of girl in my list are to the ones that got boyfriends. But as i had no time yet, i started dating girls who got boyfriends or which i even havent seen from like 2 years.
I date em and have sex/get kiss etc at first date. Just because i know how to do it. I know im an ass a little to this guys, but i dont even know em. I dont know those girls either - i seen em like 2-3 times in life, way back.
This made me thinking. You cant let girl go alone anywhere, coz its so easy to make her cheat. Its unbelivelable. And what does it mean?
Thats 3/4 guys were also cheaten by their girls, and they dont even expect that.
Discuss.

 

[flexion_]

I don't think trust is really a gender issue.

Most people in life you can't trust - usually the only ones you can trust throughout your life are your family, close friends and your spouse. And of course there are exceptions.

 

[( . )( . )]

This made me thinking. You cant let girl go alone anywhere, coz its so easy to make her cheat. Its unbelivelable. And what does it mean?

Yeah sure your privy to the "secret society" Tyler Durden talks about, but why let it affect you?

Sounds like your clued in to whats happening but your still stuck on the 2nd level and thats accepting and letting go.

Like everything the key is to seriously internalise not giving a fvck.

 

[ADifferentKindofDJ]

You know what? Maybe you're fukken up a good thing she's got or maybe you're not. I think the real point is that if you can get a girl to cheat on her BF then you're saving him the trouble of being with the wrong girl. When you find the 'one' I don't think it would be as easy to cheat on them.

Although this does bring up the same moral issues that have been discussed here before. Once you find the right one to be with I don't think all this will matter anymore. If the connection is strong enough you/they won't cheat. The problem with this is most of us are too insecure to let go of something that isn't working to find something that will.

I do see that you have written about this before.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=91974
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=93421
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=91974

 

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I have to disagree here.

I think the real point is that if you can get a girl to cheat on her BF then you're saving him the trouble of being with the wrong girl.

How does being a creature driven by emotion and feelings make the b!tch "wrong" for any man? No matter what preconcieved ideas of a "morally" strong chick you have they dont all of a sudden switch that part of their nature off no matter how much you want them too.

 

[DJDamage]

Everything in life comes to an end.

Instead of thinking of the negatives, you got to think of the positives.

If your girl cheats then be glad you didn't marry her and be happy that you are now free to go and fvck other hot women.

DJD

 

[ADifferentKindofDJ]

I have to disagree here.

How does being a creature driven by emotion and feelings make the b!tch "wrong" for any man? No matter what preconcieved ideas of a "morally" strong chick you have they dont all of a sudden switch that part of their nature off no matter how much you want them too.

Point taken, but you cannot leave out the fact that society does have an impact on our thinking. So reducing what you call a 'b!tch' to purely feelings and emotions is too simplistic. Even if the rate of women cheating was 90% it still doesn't help us to support your view about them, because there is 10% you haven't an explination for. In essence I am implying that their is a chance that the woman you're trying to screw will say no, mostly impart to the fact that she already has something better or what is sometimes called 'the one'.

BTW... there's a discussion that hasn't happenned on this forum. What is the one? I think once the MDJ's find her they don't need this place anymore and leave us to figure it out on our own.

well anyway...

 

[MightyMate]

Well You are saying You can trust family only. But someday You are going make family with the girl. And what then, if all of them cheat and are so easy to convince to cheat. Also by hittign a girl that has bf You dont do him a favour, coz prolly he will never know about it.
I think this poin is one of most important things in relatios. Maybe there are no relations without cheat? And if so, should we get itn oLTR and ignore it, or try to stop it?

 

[ADifferentKindofDJ]

I'm not saying you can only trust family. You're stuck on the word 'all' and the what if's of this thread. There is significatant evidence that most species do not mate for life, but on the other hand that doesn't include all of them becuase there's also evidence that they do mate for life. So my assertion is that you may be able to get most (if you will) to cheat, but not all women.

Quote from MightyMate:

Also by hittign a girl that has bf You dont do him a favour, coz prolly he will never know about it.

Point taken. Maybe what you've done is helped her to realize that he is the on for her. Perhaps you still helped him out then? Interesting.

Quote from DJDamage:

If your girl cheats then be glad you didn't marry her and be happy that you are now free to go and fvck other hot women.

My thoughts exactly!! I tell all my GF's that if they cheat on me it's the end, because I personally don't except that. (Plus I don't what to get any std's.)

 

[Big Eee Zee]

Honestly, not all women cheat. There are many different personality types out there, and a few are predisposed to cheating. Rich catholic school girls,"thug" lovers, valley girls etc. And girls that cheat tend to all have things in common, and hang out with each other. so its no surprise that all your women you call cheat. they are all prolly of similar personality.

Girls cheat, WOMEN dont. And when you find a real women, you usually keep her.