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Don Juan
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I've found that using specific types of truisms enhances my credibility and value when building rapport women. Typically these work best with less sophisticated women, but also work with more sophisticated women, and people in general (men included).
Obviously very vague truisms can be seen through easily and aren't effective, but by adding a bit of depth and personalization, can be extremely beneficial.
Usually it starts with me saying something along the lines of "you know I think I have a pretty good read on your vibe" and then I go into it, and the rest will vary based on the situation.
One of my go-to truisms is along the lines of "You try very hard to be an optimist, and carry a positive outlook on life, but it's very difficult for you because of how you've been hurt before, often making you skeptical and harder for you to trust others"
- Or a variation thereof based on who it is.
I have quite a few others etched into my mind and can even make them up on the spot sometimes. Some about women's true desires vs. how they portray themselves (be careful using these).
Usually get a surprised or impressed reaction, and very rarely (maybe 1-2 times out of 10) am told I'm flat out wrong, but even then you can back yourself out of it with a joke or use it as an excuse to get to know them more deeply.
I've even spooked a couple of girls who were confused how I could've known that about them. I think it really adds a level of credibility to my presence, a good way to differentiate yourself.
Curious on anyone else's experience with these/if there are any in particular you've found to be effective?
Obviously very vague truisms can be seen through easily and aren't effective, but by adding a bit of depth and personalization, can be extremely beneficial.
Usually it starts with me saying something along the lines of "you know I think I have a pretty good read on your vibe" and then I go into it, and the rest will vary based on the situation.
One of my go-to truisms is along the lines of "You try very hard to be an optimist, and carry a positive outlook on life, but it's very difficult for you because of how you've been hurt before, often making you skeptical and harder for you to trust others"
- Or a variation thereof based on who it is.
I have quite a few others etched into my mind and can even make them up on the spot sometimes. Some about women's true desires vs. how they portray themselves (be careful using these).
Usually get a surprised or impressed reaction, and very rarely (maybe 1-2 times out of 10) am told I'm flat out wrong, but even then you can back yourself out of it with a joke or use it as an excuse to get to know them more deeply.
I've even spooked a couple of girls who were confused how I could've known that about them. I think it really adds a level of credibility to my presence, a good way to differentiate yourself.
Curious on anyone else's experience with these/if there are any in particular you've found to be effective?