Learn to feel comfortable in your own skin. You are projecting a lack of comfort, and unease. My guess would be that your bodylanguage also suffers from this thought pattern. Remember you are the alpha and greatest thing to happen to this girl today. You have some killer routines which you are about to NAIL, she is going to be so ecstatic and tell all her friends.
When you enjoy and have pride in your image, merley catching yourself in the mirror will cause you to feel good (and with that a sort of rush of confidence, which in some people translates to being hyper, others, to being cool). Being laid back is not an issue when you project. Project your awesomeness to these lucky girls.
Techniques to hype up.
Spend time grooming to look your best
When you are well groomed the sense of pride will cause your brain to release endorphines. You feel like the king of the universe and as if the tree's bow to your very presence. This is not arrogance, this is a connection with the world around you. The tree's are merley paying homage to the greatest living creature in earths food chain
Look your best, feel your best, BE your best and highest self. Why shouldn't you be? Society insists you should be modest, but I say thats poppycock. BE EVERYTHING you ever could be, and be it to the max (duuuuuuude)
Play your favourite energetic music
Check out the songs that pump you up thread. There will be something that gets you going, watch your favourite sports team win on dvd or something. Adopt that moment, and revel in it like you were savouring the flavour of wine. Swill it through your mind and body like it were liquid.
Sing along loudly and dance because nobody is watching
Loose all inhibitions, they are social constructs defined by others to control your place in society. You are an alpha, YOU define your position.
Project to new people, and feel their excitement
When you greet people, new people, you have a BLANK canvas. You are anyone, you are anything, you are POTENTIAL. Talk to them with the frame that you have been experiencing all day, talk to them as though YOU have the secret to happiness held in your soul. Talk to them as though your presence is like a shining sun brightening their face.
Talk and immerse yourself in your most positive friends and influences
Do not tolerate anyone who tries to limit your potential, or calls you arrogant for pride. There is NOTHING wrong with loving yourself, it is the key to true happiness. Placing yourself ABOVE and as more important than another person however, is wrong.
Observe the welcome a dog will greet you with. They are so happy to see you. How does that make you feel? They will act the same with strangers because their raw emotion for new experiences and new people is not dulled by social pressures. This is what you HAVE to be and what you WILL be once you are fully socially calibrated.
It is not difficult to speak loudly, it is not difficult to adopt new bodylanguage, and it is certainly not difficult to APPEAR alpha. Just combine all three, others will be drawn to you, good times will happen as a result and your mood will elevate. You already know this. I'm simply reminding you.
When you enjoy and have pride in your image, merley catching yourself in the mirror will cause you to feel good (and with that a sort of rush of confidence, which in some people translates to being hyper, others, to being cool). Being laid back is not an issue when you project. Project your awesomeness to these lucky girls.
Techniques to hype up.
Spend time grooming to look your best
When you are well groomed the sense of pride will cause your brain to release endorphines. You feel like the king of the universe and as if the tree's bow to your very presence. This is not arrogance, this is a connection with the world around you. The tree's are merley paying homage to the greatest living creature in earths food chain
Look your best, feel your best, BE your best and highest self. Why shouldn't you be? Society insists you should be modest, but I say thats poppycock. BE EVERYTHING you ever could be, and be it to the max (duuuuuuude)Play your favourite energetic music
Check out the songs that pump you up thread. There will be something that gets you going, watch your favourite sports team win on dvd or something. Adopt that moment, and revel in it like you were savouring the flavour of wine. Swill it through your mind and body like it were liquid.
Sing along loudly and dance because nobody is watching
Loose all inhibitions, they are social constructs defined by others to control your place in society. You are an alpha, YOU define your position.
Project to new people, and feel their excitement
When you greet people, new people, you have a BLANK canvas. You are anyone, you are anything, you are POTENTIAL. Talk to them with the frame that you have been experiencing all day, talk to them as though YOU have the secret to happiness held in your soul. Talk to them as though your presence is like a shining sun brightening their face.
Talk and immerse yourself in your most positive friends and influences
Do not tolerate anyone who tries to limit your potential, or calls you arrogant for pride. There is NOTHING wrong with loving yourself, it is the key to true happiness. Placing yourself ABOVE and as more important than another person however, is wrong.
Observe the welcome a dog will greet you with. They are so happy to see you. How does that make you feel? They will act the same with strangers because their raw emotion for new experiences and new people is not dulled by social pressures. This is what you HAVE to be and what you WILL be once you are fully socially calibrated.
It is not difficult to speak loudly, it is not difficult to adopt new bodylanguage, and it is certainly not difficult to APPEAR alpha. Just combine all three, others will be drawn to you, good times will happen as a result and your mood will elevate. You already know this. I'm simply reminding you.