Trouble Performing for Strippers and Escorts?

[BlueAlpha1]

Went to a strip club for the 3rd time in my life last night to celebrate my birthday. The girls were slightly above average. HB 7-8 mostly.

I can't get off for any of them. When I was in Amsterdam I couldn't get off for an HB10 escort. Recently went to a Korean massage parlor and was able to perform for an HB9, but not without 15 minutes of foreplay at my instruction. If there is that element of foreplay it is no issue, but going straight onto intercourse or a "lap dance" does nothing for me especially if it's so obviously contrived. A good stripper might be able to sell you with good vibes.

I even got invited onto a swing above the bar at a local pub and the HB8 bartender got on top of me doing acrobatics, and I still didn't get an erection.

There is something about the conquest that is a game changer where I can perform for an HB6 that is genuinely into me, but can't fake it for an HB10 that's faking it for me.

 

[Once Bitten]

Just shows you're human...Perhaps it would be better when you find one that's into you. They might have to deal with that issue too.

It may get old for them just going through the motions.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Agreed, I think you're perfectly normal. I can't get turned on in strip clubs either. Hell, I almost puked on a stripper once when she put her ***** right in front of my face.

 

[BlueAlpha1]

Don't get me wrong, some of these girls are smoking hot. If this same girl hits on you at a party your adrenaline is flowing like it's overtime in game 7. But especially the ones that barely let you penetrate - that's about as personal as a damn blow up doll.

They tried to upsell me for a full service to the tune of $463 for 30 minutes. Told them screw that. I always prefer seducing women naturally but during a dry spell or if I seriously just have to get laid with no bull****, I'm not above paying for an escort. At that Asian massage parlor $160 got me a 40 minute erotic massage before the final cut. In Amsterdam that HB10 was $50 for 20 minutes. I would have been better off offering her $250 for 40 minutes and I could have done anything I damn well pleased to her. 15 minutes of my kind of foreplay gets rid of this performance problem in a hurry. After these two experiences I'm not gonna pay $920 an hour for some D-rate sex with some cokehead and a wannabe mafia kahuna listening outside the door.

She ended up getting me for $160 to spend a half hour in lap dances. Strip clubs could be great if you've cash $2000 to burn for the night. You can leave the club with a girl and make her your personal girlfriend for the night. But until then I think this is my last time at a strip club for a long, long time.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Went to a strip club for the 3rd time in my life last night to celebrate my birthday. The girls were slightly above average. HB 7-8 mostly.

I can't get off for any of them. When I was in Amsterdam I couldn't get off for an HB10 escort. Recently went to a Korean massage parlor and was able to perform for an HB9, but not without 15 minutes of foreplay at my instruction. If there is that element of foreplay it is no issue, but going straight onto intercourse or a "lap dance" does nothing for me especially if it's so obviously contrived. A good stripper might be able to sell you with good vibes.

I even got invited onto a swing above the bar at a local pub and the HB8 bartender got on top of me doing acrobatics, and I still didn't get an erection.

There is something about the conquest that is a game changer where I can perform for an HB6 that is genuinely into me, but can't fake it for an HB10 that's faking it for me.

You pick up on their vibe. And it's a boner killer. Some will "like" you though, others will be just getting their money.

 

[Alvafe]

think more like, you are reading then right, you know all that **** and crap they pull is to make you feel good and to open your wallet, you can see this and that is a bone killer, i'm like that too, I can see a damn hot woman naked and don't happen anything if I think she is not really into me, what really makes me going is you knowing she wants you to **** her.

 

[speed dawg]

Went to a strip club for the 3rd time in my life last night to celebrate my birthday. The girls were slightly above average. HB 7-8 mostly.

I can't get off for any of them. When I was in Amsterdam I couldn't get off for an HB10 escort. Recently went to a Korean massage parlor and was able to perform for an HB9, but not without 15 minutes of foreplay at my instruction. If there is that element of foreplay it is no issue, but going straight onto intercourse or a "lap dance" does nothing for me especially if it's so obviously contrived. A good stripper might be able to sell you with good vibes.

I even got invited onto a swing above the bar at a local pub and the HB8 bartender got on top of me doing acrobatics, and I still didn't get an erection.

There is something about the conquest that is a game changer where I can perform for an HB6 that is genuinely into me, but can't fake it for an HB10 that's faking it for me.

One big piece of advice I am sure to pass on to my son, is to NEVER even contemplate having sex with somebody that doesn't want it just as much as you do. This keeps you clear of any rape for one, and two, it's just dignity and basic self-respect.

On to the point, I'm with it, when it's fake, I can't get into it. In those situations I just have fun with it. At a strip club, be ready to spend some money or don't go. If you're buying a hooker, tell her what to do. You are paying for it after all.

I've never done the hooker thing. I've always been worried they slit my throat for my cash or something, when I wasn't looking. And when your mind is on p*ssy, you are EXTREMELY vulnerable - I don't care how tough you are.

 

[BlueAlpha1]

I've never done the hooker thing. I've always been worried they slit my throat for my cash or something, when I wasn't looking. And when your mind is on p*ssy, you are EXTREMELY vulnerable - I don't care how tough you are.

That's all true. But the two times I've been with an escort it was discreet and safe. I was at a reputable Asian massage parlor with a 90 pound thing who gave a very good deep tissue massage beforehand. The other time was at the uber professional Red Light District in Amsterdam. Those girls are cleaner than your average bar slut because if they weren't, they'd be out of the job immediately. Legalized brothels are not risking bad word of mouth as they are tourist hotspots.

There is a stigma around prostitution that it's always done with some toothless meth head at a hotel, but not so. It's actually the most honest interaction between a man in woman that exists and that's why it's persisted as the world's oldest profession. However the experience can be incredibly empty. You have to find one that has a good personality, who can laugh and smile and is patient. Come prepared to pay her a bit more than she asks and have her go through your own customized foreplay routine. Take care of her and she'll take care of you. In these cases it can be great to get out of a dry spell or just skip the BS. Absent this scenario you won't even get hard, will be out a bunch of money and will be incredibly embarrassed.

Obviously strippers are not optimal for this (don't think I'm going back to one for a while) but in Amsterdam it's easy. Those girls are independent contractors, are clean, and many are ultra professional about it.

 

[MrWood]

I also get 0 sexual feeling from tittybars, strippers or the accidental prostitute
the women are getting paid for a "show". 10000 guys a month see them, go gagga
instant pedestalization.
Reminds me of those videos of lame dudes in some random asian country walking around with 5$ bills for a kiss and "scoring a gf" from a "club"

I went to a Hooters once, and laughed my ass off at all the AFC go nuts over the girls... wow... wooo... pretty lights...
most were a 7 or 8 at best with cakes of makeup, thick nylons (are they tights?), lame shorts.

this is Disney C ticket amusement at best.
instant turn off is a woman TRYING to be sexy or getting PAID to TRY to be sexy

sorry, but a packaged costume amusement ride is not my idea of "scoring"

a woman must be sexy for YOU because she WANTS YOU