Boricua_33015
Master Don Juan
Some people see me as cold and distant...... why? and how can I fix these perceptions?
Also, how do I handle people that make fun of me? Yesterday in class some ass-hole (not really cool with him, hes just the azz hole loud mouth extremely masculine guy of the class), decided to start rapping (freestyling) about me. He started dissing me, almost the whole entire period he was dissing me. I just acted like a cool cat who wasnt phased by this and tried to act like the mature one saying things like "ur funny, i think u should be a comedian when u grow up, but thats only when u GROW UP". Everyone was like "ohh sh1t hes trying u dawg, say something back" I said "why waste my time, hes wack!" He really was bad at freestyle, it was his first time and he always repeats words and spits out non sensible things. I spit some one-liners every now and then, which were obviously alot better than his 10 liners. But everyone wanted me to say something back to him, because I would stay quiet most of the time. ALl the girls were telling him "ohh that was a good one", all that bull sh1t, and it got me pissed. Well the bell rung and I walked out of the class looking pissed. I aint scared of him at all, I will fight him if I have to (hes alot taller than me). In fact if he does it again tomorrow, i will warn him, then fight him, for bein such an ass-hole. I dont care if I won or lose (yea i do), but at least I wont look like an idiot with nothing to say.
I really didnt know what to say. I dont know how to make people feel stupid, especially if they are already making me feel stupid. Today he did the same thing but I showed that I was getting pissed and I told him "enough dammit, shut the fuk up already" and he would still go on. Then later on he says that I got all mad and acted like a girl and that I take it to the heart and sh1t.
If I knew how to diffuse this situation, I would do it but now I have no choice but to rely on physical aggression. People making fun of me and messing with me always ends up with physical agression, I dont know why, I just blow up. I always get offended. Not because I take it all to the heart, but because everyone else is witnessing him messing with me and it really gets me mad and I have nothing to say and it makes me look like a freakin soft pvssy. I really aint, cuz like I said I will fight him if he does it again after I warn him. I just dont know how to fight with words.
Please help me with this!! In fact I will go read this book that my mom bought me "Verbal Warfare for Idiots". (Im dead serious, my mom actually bought me this book after seeing that I got into many fights because i couldnt get along with people and people always made fuin of me. I just never read the book.)
Also, how do I handle people that make fun of me? Yesterday in class some ass-hole (not really cool with him, hes just the azz hole loud mouth extremely masculine guy of the class), decided to start rapping (freestyling) about me. He started dissing me, almost the whole entire period he was dissing me. I just acted like a cool cat who wasnt phased by this and tried to act like the mature one saying things like "ur funny, i think u should be a comedian when u grow up, but thats only when u GROW UP". Everyone was like "ohh sh1t hes trying u dawg, say something back" I said "why waste my time, hes wack!" He really was bad at freestyle, it was his first time and he always repeats words and spits out non sensible things. I spit some one-liners every now and then, which were obviously alot better than his 10 liners. But everyone wanted me to say something back to him, because I would stay quiet most of the time. ALl the girls were telling him "ohh that was a good one", all that bull sh1t, and it got me pissed. Well the bell rung and I walked out of the class looking pissed. I aint scared of him at all, I will fight him if I have to (hes alot taller than me). In fact if he does it again tomorrow, i will warn him, then fight him, for bein such an ass-hole. I dont care if I won or lose (yea i do), but at least I wont look like an idiot with nothing to say.
I really didnt know what to say. I dont know how to make people feel stupid, especially if they are already making me feel stupid. Today he did the same thing but I showed that I was getting pissed and I told him "enough dammit, shut the fuk up already" and he would still go on. Then later on he says that I got all mad and acted like a girl and that I take it to the heart and sh1t.
If I knew how to diffuse this situation, I would do it but now I have no choice but to rely on physical aggression. People making fun of me and messing with me always ends up with physical agression, I dont know why, I just blow up. I always get offended. Not because I take it all to the heart, but because everyone else is witnessing him messing with me and it really gets me mad and I have nothing to say and it makes me look like a freakin soft pvssy. I really aint, cuz like I said I will fight him if he does it again after I warn him. I just dont know how to fight with words.
Please help me with this!! In fact I will go read this book that my mom bought me "Verbal Warfare for Idiots". (Im dead serious, my mom actually bought me this book after seeing that I got into many fights because i couldnt get along with people and people always made fuin of me. I just never read the book.)
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