The Bartender
Senior Don Juan
As some of you may know, the triangle is the strongest geometric shape. This holds true in nature, architecture, and even the art of dj'ing. I consider this to be a "Novice" method and beginners should simplify this by cutting out and one of the three elements. Let me explain my thoughts as I have been practicing this method for about a year now.
The Triangle obviously consists of 3 elements - in DJ'ing all three are different girls and all three girls are to be at a different level of relation. For all intents and purposes I will name these girls with a letter (C, B, and P):
C = Consistent. This is the girl that you consider yourself "dating" or "together" or maybe even your "girl friend". It doesnt matter so much what the title is, but make certain that you understand her purpose. She is the one that you go out with on a regular basis, spend time with, and perhaps even have feelings for. She is the consistent girl in that she's with you most of the time (when you want her to be), and she's also a consistent source of sex.
B = Booty-Call. This is the girl that you basically degrade, call whenever you need some ass, kick out in the morning w/o a kiss, and call again when you are too drunk to do much of anything else. Her main purpose is to replace your "C" when she's not fulfilling her sex consistency obligation. The B's should never be led on to believing they are in any way, shape, or form a C or P (which will be discussed next). You can accomplish this by not showing or even really having any relationship feelings for her. These girls will not chase being a C if you follow the previous sentence. If the B is not available for her main reason (sex) or gets emotional, then consider getting a new B.
P = Potential. This girl is the hot friend or friends friend that you could see replacing your current C someday. You flirt with P's and not much else. You should already have a way to get in contact with her otherwise how will she replace anything? Most likely you have never made a move on this girl and to which you have shown enough interest in to see that she is interested back. A girl can stay a P for a very long time depending on your situation. This is the side of the triangle where it is easiest to have multiples of. We can all relate, or at least invision, the potential problems that come with multiple C's and B's. Avoid these problems by not moving any P's up early.
Rules: (These will be amended as seen fit. Open to recommendations)
Introductory Note - You should prioritize your ladies. Call C first, B next, P last. If they are ALL busy...replace at least one of them.
Rule 1 - Ex-C's can become Booty Calls: Problems might arise when she wants to be a Consistent again. Drop her if this happens, you already did once so it shouldnt be that hard. If you ever feel the need to break this rule, read rule 2.
Rule 2 - Booty Calls never become Consitents. This holds true even if they were a C before. There's just no reason to date or re-date a chick that you can fvck anytime of the day, any day of the week.
Rule 3 - Potentials are usually never to become a B without first being a Consistent. (There instances where this can be broken. But may I remind you that randomly calling up a girl that you are barely pursuing to come over and and have sex when you are 12 shots of Jager deep is ill-advised. She will quickly remover herself from your P list even if you dont want her to.)
Rule 4 - You may at any time decide to eliminate any one of the three elements. If you want to be committed, eliminated B and maybe even the Potentials.
Rule 5 - Don't get all upset if your fvcking a couple chicks and those couple chicks are also sleeping with other guys. If you arent totally committed to anyone then dont expect it back. Chicks have dudes lined up at the push of a couple telephone buttons to come over and fvck.
The Triangle obviously consists of 3 elements - in DJ'ing all three are different girls and all three girls are to be at a different level of relation. For all intents and purposes I will name these girls with a letter (C, B, and P):
C = Consistent. This is the girl that you consider yourself "dating" or "together" or maybe even your "girl friend". It doesnt matter so much what the title is, but make certain that you understand her purpose. She is the one that you go out with on a regular basis, spend time with, and perhaps even have feelings for. She is the consistent girl in that she's with you most of the time (when you want her to be), and she's also a consistent source of sex.
B = Booty-Call. This is the girl that you basically degrade, call whenever you need some ass, kick out in the morning w/o a kiss, and call again when you are too drunk to do much of anything else. Her main purpose is to replace your "C" when she's not fulfilling her sex consistency obligation. The B's should never be led on to believing they are in any way, shape, or form a C or P (which will be discussed next). You can accomplish this by not showing or even really having any relationship feelings for her. These girls will not chase being a C if you follow the previous sentence. If the B is not available for her main reason (sex) or gets emotional, then consider getting a new B.
P = Potential. This girl is the hot friend or friends friend that you could see replacing your current C someday. You flirt with P's and not much else. You should already have a way to get in contact with her otherwise how will she replace anything? Most likely you have never made a move on this girl and to which you have shown enough interest in to see that she is interested back. A girl can stay a P for a very long time depending on your situation. This is the side of the triangle where it is easiest to have multiples of. We can all relate, or at least invision, the potential problems that come with multiple C's and B's. Avoid these problems by not moving any P's up early.
Rules: (These will be amended as seen fit. Open to recommendations)
Introductory Note - You should prioritize your ladies. Call C first, B next, P last. If they are ALL busy...replace at least one of them.
Rule 1 - Ex-C's can become Booty Calls: Problems might arise when she wants to be a Consistent again. Drop her if this happens, you already did once so it shouldnt be that hard. If you ever feel the need to break this rule, read rule 2.
Rule 2 - Booty Calls never become Consitents. This holds true even if they were a C before. There's just no reason to date or re-date a chick that you can fvck anytime of the day, any day of the week.
Rule 3 - Potentials are usually never to become a B without first being a Consistent. (There instances where this can be broken. But may I remind you that randomly calling up a girl that you are barely pursuing to come over and and have sex when you are 12 shots of Jager deep is ill-advised. She will quickly remover herself from your P list even if you dont want her to.)
Rule 4 - You may at any time decide to eliminate any one of the three elements. If you want to be committed, eliminated B and maybe even the Potentials.
Rule 5 - Don't get all upset if your fvcking a couple chicks and those couple chicks are also sleeping with other guys. If you arent totally committed to anyone then dont expect it back. Chicks have dudes lined up at the push of a couple telephone buttons to come over and fvck.
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