IBrakeforShortSkirts
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I don't know what to think of this situation for the last two months. Im just going to lay this mess out there for all of you and let you comment on it.
.... Here goes... This story starts out right when I started my new job working customer service for a bank. I know... work relationships are a big bad no-no.. believe me, before this mess I subscribed to the So Suave philosophy that I have been reading on this site for close to a year now... This was either desperation rearing its ugly head or maybe temporary insanity. Anyways.. about 2 days into this new job I got plopped next to a very cute girl... kinda big, but cute in the face, I didn't acknowledge her for close to a week until she started in on me. Passing me notes, giving me those looks only girls can make, and playing with her hair everytime I was around. She had a boyfriend at the time so I kinda shrugged it off. Well.. needless to say, she came into work one day telling a story about her Boyfriend, who is another long Jerry Springer type story....
.... Ok, he is an ex-military, egineer... Hes 31 years old, 8 years older than the girl in question. He is married with two kids, and has been cheating on his wife for the last 7 months with this girl. They have broke up several times, the most recent one was when I got involved in this mess. Appearantly the Girl in question, we will call her Dawn, got a call by her next store neighbor who left a message. Well, this message must have been bad as it incited her BF to throw his motorcycle helmet into her kitchen and took off drunken down the road at 180 miles an hour. He showed up later with his arms cut up because he tried to kill himself. I know this should have been a red flag aswell. Anyways... I asked her out for that weekend. Needless to say she dissapeared on the day of our date, something about going to her mom's and her cell phone not working. Well.. she spent the weekend with her "ex" BF calling over people she met on Yahoo for bootycalls, and giving them her neighbors room numbers. Yah.. I know. Dont say it. Things went pretty well for awhile I guess. We did the whole go out after work thing, but I noticed he would call her about 10-15 times everynight. She would never say that she was ever with me. She was always with a girlfriend. That bothered me.. especially when I wouldn't tell people that I was with her if I got a call... weird stuff like that. Besides this, her ex still had a key to her place and always would show up when he wanted, and would park his motorcycle behind her car so that she couldnt leave. He started to take numbers out of her cell phone and call them, asking if they had sex with her, he would put passwords on her PC so she couldnt talk in chatrooms.. this got worse. Well.. She had to goto the hosiptal for surgery, and later she recovered at his place and told me never to call... Well.. apparently they were back together for the last two weeks and she wouldnt tell me. Well.. after that week in the hosiptal, she asked him to leave his wife, he of course said no and they broke up, so after all this time I finally got to go over to her place, and was welcomed to messages that he was downing a bottle of tylonol with Whiskey. Well... things happened and we had sex. Things went that way for another few weeks, where everything was hush hush, until her birthday, which I was going to take her out on, she never showed up, or the night after that, or the night after that... and the night after that I was greeted to 20 calls from her BF and several threatening Voicemails.. turns out he was hiding in her house all night calling her and then hanging up. Night after that she dumped me because he left his wife for her. And just last week she filed a sexual harrasement complaint agaisnt me at work so now I am doubly screwed. LOL Well.. I guess its not so bad.. she was an older woman, had 4 kids, and more than 50 sexual partners I didnt know about till after we had.. you know.. and to add onto that she was still legally married.... another story for another time... So... after I call Maury and Sally, what else should I do to recttify this sitauation, just move on and let it go? Any comments about this would be appreciated..
.... Here goes... This story starts out right when I started my new job working customer service for a bank. I know... work relationships are a big bad no-no.. believe me, before this mess I subscribed to the So Suave philosophy that I have been reading on this site for close to a year now... This was either desperation rearing its ugly head or maybe temporary insanity. Anyways.. about 2 days into this new job I got plopped next to a very cute girl... kinda big, but cute in the face, I didn't acknowledge her for close to a week until she started in on me. Passing me notes, giving me those looks only girls can make, and playing with her hair everytime I was around. She had a boyfriend at the time so I kinda shrugged it off. Well.. needless to say, she came into work one day telling a story about her Boyfriend, who is another long Jerry Springer type story....
.... Ok, he is an ex-military, egineer... Hes 31 years old, 8 years older than the girl in question. He is married with two kids, and has been cheating on his wife for the last 7 months with this girl. They have broke up several times, the most recent one was when I got involved in this mess. Appearantly the Girl in question, we will call her Dawn, got a call by her next store neighbor who left a message. Well, this message must have been bad as it incited her BF to throw his motorcycle helmet into her kitchen and took off drunken down the road at 180 miles an hour. He showed up later with his arms cut up because he tried to kill himself. I know this should have been a red flag aswell. Anyways... I asked her out for that weekend. Needless to say she dissapeared on the day of our date, something about going to her mom's and her cell phone not working. Well.. she spent the weekend with her "ex" BF calling over people she met on Yahoo for bootycalls, and giving them her neighbors room numbers. Yah.. I know. Dont say it. Things went pretty well for awhile I guess. We did the whole go out after work thing, but I noticed he would call her about 10-15 times everynight. She would never say that she was ever with me. She was always with a girlfriend. That bothered me.. especially when I wouldn't tell people that I was with her if I got a call... weird stuff like that. Besides this, her ex still had a key to her place and always would show up when he wanted, and would park his motorcycle behind her car so that she couldnt leave. He started to take numbers out of her cell phone and call them, asking if they had sex with her, he would put passwords on her PC so she couldnt talk in chatrooms.. this got worse. Well.. She had to goto the hosiptal for surgery, and later she recovered at his place and told me never to call... Well.. apparently they were back together for the last two weeks and she wouldnt tell me. Well.. after that week in the hosiptal, she asked him to leave his wife, he of course said no and they broke up, so after all this time I finally got to go over to her place, and was welcomed to messages that he was downing a bottle of tylonol with Whiskey. Well... things happened and we had sex. Things went that way for another few weeks, where everything was hush hush, until her birthday, which I was going to take her out on, she never showed up, or the night after that, or the night after that... and the night after that I was greeted to 20 calls from her BF and several threatening Voicemails.. turns out he was hiding in her house all night calling her and then hanging up. Night after that she dumped me because he left his wife for her. And just last week she filed a sexual harrasement complaint agaisnt me at work so now I am doubly screwed. LOL Well.. I guess its not so bad.. she was an older woman, had 4 kids, and more than 50 sexual partners I didnt know about till after we had.. you know.. and to add onto that she was still legally married.... another story for another time... So... after I call Maury and Sally, what else should I do to recttify this sitauation, just move on and let it go? Any comments about this would be appreciated..
