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es_mer8

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In a thread that has fallen the abyss of the back pages, there was a thread about DJing in college. Now most people are like "OMG, easy poon!" However I almost have the opposite mindset.

No, I'm not regressing back to my AFC days.

What I was thinking was taking a year to make sure I have a very solid foundation for college. Yes, this is the true DJ way as remember, women aren't first priority :) I've also decided that I really want to step up to the game and be all I can be.

I want to spend my time improving myself.My plan is to make sure I have 8-10% bodyfat on me. I also want to get cut and at least have some big muscles. Next I want to make sure that I have a 4.0 GPA and do really well so I can pass onto the next level (my major is very difficult at this college because its well respected) Next, I want to fix myself up. Due to me shaving my head for a couple months, it seems like its growing in extremely slow. Its grown maybe an inch in about 1 1/2 months' time. I want to get it to how I want.

I also want to get some really nice clothes. I'm ordering some and while they are good and all, I want more and more of them. Due to lack of funds, I'm only able to get maybe 5 shirts, three pairs of shorts, a belt, and a watch. I already have three pairs of pants. A nice start but I want double that at least.

Next I'm hitting the DJ Bible like no tomorrow. I will dissect every word that the DJ greats have said and apply it to myself. I want to be the definition of a DJ.

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Motivational but basically what I want to achieve is to take about a year to just prepare for the big time. I had a very sexually active summer (never happened before this site) and while its fun, I just realized that I'm still not satisfied and I know I can improve myself.

Has anyone else taken sabbaticals from DJing like what I'm going to do?
 

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That's a good plan. I am in the same boat, but I'm not taking a full year off. This summer was a break out summer for me. First time I actually started dating, getting numbers, and talking to women. It's been a long and arduous journey, but damn I have had some fun.

I still remember the name of the first girl I approached in a club and got her number. I was so AFC; called that number about 5 times. LOL. Then I managed to get my first date with a girl I didn't think was hot. I just wanted the experience. She was the first girl I kissed and I thought I was in heaven. Went out with a couple more girls, each time I was correcting the mistakes I had made with the previous girls. Not surprisingly, I kept getting more and more dates with the same girl. Now I just ended my longest relationship(1 month) and it was well worth it. Even though it ended poorly, I've learned to not get caught up with emotions of this stuff. I'll just move on and find another girl.

I'm not going to jump right back in though. I want to take maybe 3-4 weeks off just reading this site and improving myself physically and mentally. I want to enjoy school, my hobbies, and my friends before I start playing the field again.
 

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Man what a wuzzy .. I understand that you want to be a overachiever A good student and more leaner guy..

Have a 4.0 gpa. But Doesnt mean you have to stop trying to get girls.!!

oNLY Because you want all of that do you have to stop poping or peeing?

No .. getting girls doesnt take that much time when you relize all the time you will spend jacking ofFF or buying pornos .. Or downloading it from *****..


How did caveman juggle everything and still get laid..

You will always have time for girls just be good in admining your time..

and about getting your self ready or getting a "Foundation"

your just justifying not doing any action ..

can a NFL wannabe player not play football b4 he has fitness?B4 he plays in the NFL..


yes he can still play but not in the NFL..


You might be bald chubby and have ugly clothes but doesnt mean you cant practice with the nerdy girls with the bods.. Or just practice getting rejected..

And then once you get your "foundation".. Really go for the hot blonde cheerleader that has the biggest b/f ever!!

but djing should be part of your life there is no ON and OFF switch if you think there is.. Your going to blow up..
 

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That's a good plan. I am in the same boat, but I'm not taking a full year off. This summer was a break out summer for me. First time I actually started dating, getting numbers, and talking to women. It's been a long and arduous journey, but damn I have had some fun.
The same happened to me this summer. Last summer I remember how all I did was work and lift weights. I went to a couple of parties and of course even when wasted, I had no courage to talk to girls. I thought that this was the best summer I've had since I was a little kid (back then I had fun every day)

Man what a wuzzy .. I understand that you want to be a overachiever A good student and more leaner guy..
True but like I said, my goal is to make sure that I get into the program. Someone suggested I show up late to classes. Hell no. It can happen but I just want improve on myself first and foremost. I would like to take a year off just to make sure I get down to what I want.

In terms of fitness, I felt like I failed. I made progress, yes. I imagine I could have lost all the 50 lbs I needed to get to my 10% bf level but I slacked off a month or so after that. Now I lost 20 lbs and I now just realized that I slacked off. Now I'm starting to lose weight again but this time I don't expect to get to my goal until the end of the year. Then I am beginning to get buff starting in 2004.

Have a 4.0 gpa. But Doesnt mean you have to stop trying to get girls.!!
I will get girls but if and only if I'm on track to getting what I want from the academics. I didn't say I was giving up on women in general. What I said is that they are not even a real priority in college. If it came down to finding the right seat so I can see all the notes and sitting next to the perfect dream girl, I'm going to sit to see the notes. She will have to wait.
 
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1. working on yourself is the best thing you can do.
2. Taking a break from ho's is the worst thing you can do.

You don't want to lose the skills you've been developing so far. You will end up looking good but with no game. This shyt needs practice not politicking and over studying.

Real game is developed in the fires of the moment. It is when your in the heat of the chase that you develop your skillz. It is here that you learn what to say and what not to say...where you make your mistakes and learn from them.

By taking a break you never get past the mistake process that must happen. Yeah we all have made mistakes and learned what not to say or do in coming up in this izm.

If your going to take a break, make sure you have a team (a few women) on your side lines or on the bench to play while your getting your education on.

Plus no sex will make you cranky as F.... in a very quick minute.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Taking a break from hoes is an horrible idea...you allways need a **** buddy even if your not wanting to date or wanting girlfreind.
 
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