Total AFC's should LJBF girls...

[lets_do_this]

This could be a silly idea, but by LJBFing a girl puts her in a situation whereas and AFC would have a better chance.

Look at it this way:

If you put a girl in a "friend's zone" and you are an afc you will be:

a) Less clingy = wont call her/be around her 24/7
b) Less needy = no need for flowers/gifts
c) Less nervous = You can talk to her like a normal person
d) Wont pay for coffee/dinner = Don't like her that much
e) Wont open doors for her = you dont care for her that much

In my opinion, total AFC's would stand a better chance with this mindset.

Although you should not exactly think of her as "JUST A FRIEND".

She is still a sexual being to you, and you should still initiate kino.

What do you guys think? Let's discuss.

 

[arlanda]

I think this is how total AFCs get girlfriends. AFC will think she's out of his league, act "cool" and the girl may become attracted, provided there aren't any DJs around

 

[backbreaker]

when I was a total AFC about 6 years ago, it's how I almost got the girl that drove me to this site... she was so hot and I was... well.. me, I'm not ugly, ,but you get the point, that I didn't even give it thought that she might be attracted to me.. I didn't even let myself start liking her because I knew there was no way she would ever like me.

Then one day she made it known she did like me and I lost it

 

[DonJuanMonk]

I highly doubt this tactic actually works. If the girl in the first place was never attracted to you, what makes you think she wants to be your girlfriend even after you make her into a friend?

 

[The Juan and only]

Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
I highly doubt this tactic actually works. If the girl in the first place was never attracted to you, what makes you think she wants to be your girlfriend even after you make her into a friend?

What they're saying is that if you mentally place her in the friendship zone, then you should be much more comfortable around her not come off as desperate and clingy.

 

[LuisGarcia10]

I think that if you follow the advice on this forum and in the bible then there's absolutely no need to be an AFC.

Infact, if you follow the advice on this forum and in the bible it's virtually impossible to be an AFC.

And the fact that she views you as a freind means she's probably fuking other blokes anyway.

I understand where you're coming from but logically there's no need for it.

I was a complete AFC when I came here and I turned it around within a month, lately I've let myself slip and have paid less attention to my appearence and have again drifted slightly back to the AFC way but no where near where I once was. That's the reason I'm back because I'm going past the point of no return now, just in time to go to College in September. :cheer:

 

[The Anti Dr Phil]

This is so ridiculous, so ludicrous, so insane, so aburd, and so off the wall, the sh!t might just be brilliant. This is George Castanza move. This is the funniest thing I've read on here.


It could take some time, but you know what, that might just work. But a guy would have to be absurdly disciplined to pull it off, I'll tell you that much. And you'll definitely still have to be approaching other women - all the time. You couldn't just kick your feet up, and wait on the reverse mojo to kick in.

 

[strong like bull]

instead of hiding behind the problem, a man needs to overcome it. confidence being the problem, even if you go and "trick" her into thinking you just want her as a friend, at the end of the day youve still got low confidence. and if the time actually comes that she magically falls head over heals for you, guess what? you've still got low confidence and wont know what to do with her.

as MEN, we have to grow some balls. get our lives together. have goals and PURSUE THEM! make our life grand!

after you do all of that and have success on your own, youll get a natural confidence. no more faking. once you see the big picture, youll realize how relatively little women are. youll understand why your money, health and hobbies are so much of a higher priority. and once youre getting better with YOUR ****, women will fall by the wayside. you'll relax and forget about 'em.

and THAT is exactly when they all come knocking on your door. unless youre ugly or a complete putz, theyll be such easy catches that you'll wonder why anybody relies on this board for success.

thats the circle of afc - dj and if youve been reading certain users posts here long enough, you can see their transitions and growth.

-SLB

 

[DJDamage]

Well see the problem with this is that.... how should I put this.....

a) when an AFC guy rejected and get the LJBF's he will feel like a loser because his confidence take a dive and thus he is in a worse position to attract other women. When his confidence takes a hit so does the chances of hooking up with other women.

b) When a HB you want to fvck gets LJBF by an AFC, nothing has changed for her. She might be intrigued by the fact that you don't want her but she might also think you are gay or something lol

I mean if she is that hot she will have other guys coming on to her regardless if she will be suffering from low confidence as a result of the rejection and snatch her away. Most guys only care if she is hot and since guys do all the work during the first weeks of dating she doesn't even have to try and impress him (thus her confidence will go back up because when a woman doesn't lose her attractiveness when she gets rejected - her attraction is mainly based on her looks. When an AFC guy gets rejected he
does lose his attractiveness because half of his attraction is centred on his confidence).

she is not going to be clinging to you just because you LBJF her. She is in the submissive position, she won't do any chasing if she is hot enough to play the field and thus allow other guys to pick her up. Maybe it will work on average looking or crazy girls but not hot ones.

Interesting theory but Its better off learning the rules of the game. An AFC has no concept of being a challange that is why he is an AFC so the fact that you mentioned a tactic an AFC should do is actually teaching him about the game and thus making him less AFC.

DjDamage

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by strong like bull
instead of hiding behind the problem, a man needs to overcome it. confidence being the problem, even if you go and "trick" her into thinking you just want her as a friend, at the end of the day youve still got low confidence. and if the time actually comes that she magically falls head over heals for you, guess what? you've still got low confidence and wont know what to do with her.

as MEN, we have to grow some balls. get our lives together. have goals and PURSUE THEM! make our life grand!

after you do all of that and have success on your own, youll get a natural confidence. no more faking. once you see the big picture, youll realize how relatively little women are. youll understand why your money, health and hobbies are so much of a higher priority. and once youre getting better with YOUR ****, women will fall by the wayside. you'll relax and forget about 'em.

and THAT is exactly when they all come knocking on your door. unless youre ugly or a complete putz, theyll be such easy catches that you'll wonder why anybody relies on this board for success.

thats the circle of afc - dj and if youve been reading certain users posts here long enough, you can see their transitions and growth.

-SLB

This is wisdom that the AFC has not.

with women it is a conquest not a diplomacy .

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Originally posted by The Juan and only
What they're saying is that if you mentally place her in the friendship zone, then you should be much more comfortable around her not come off as desperate and clingy.

NO, your method and the author's method is the SAME TACTIC that AFC use.

Do you know what it is?

You pretend to be friend, and you wait for the "signs" to see if she's attracted to you

I don't care how AFCs rename or make the tactic sound different. It's the SAME DEAL. This may work for people who go to high school/inexperienced in dating - but to tell you the truth - A girl really appreciates a guy making the moves RIGHT away. So what about the AFC? Sure he can pull the "pretend to be friend" tactic - only if the girl was already attracted to him.

I feel like I'm repeating myself, damnit.

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
NO, your method and the author's method is the SAME TACTIC that AFC use.

Do you know what it is?

You pretend to be friend, and you wait for the "signs" to see if she's attracted to you

I don't care how AFCs rename or make the tactic sound different. It's the SAME DEAL. This may work for people who go to high school/inexperienced in dating - but to tell you the truth - A girl really appreciates a guy making the moves RIGHT away. So what about the AFC? Sure he can pull the "pretend to be friend" tactic - only if the girl was already attracted to him.

I feel like I'm repeating myself, damnit.

exactly.

You can't let up or back away from doing things that develope sexual attraction

 

[Juan_Man]

I always thought that this tactic was the only way the Average Joe could beat the DJ or the Extremely Goodlooking Guy. The less interested you appear, the more attractive you become to the girl. This was the only way I was able to attract the hotties. I was either naturally uninterested in the hottie or I was feigning disinterest. This tactics works but only for so long. At one point, you have to have the balls and confidence to put yourself out there and let her know that you want to be with her. If not, another guy will land her. Unfortunately, no tactics are going to work in your favor here.

 

[WORKEROUTER]

Wow, I couldn't think of a better way to prove yourself as a real p*ssy.