Too Much Feelings For GF, Problem?

[Wont Stop Mackin]

Seems as tho lately i've Gotten too attached to my girlfriend we've been dating for about a month and a half, i posted earlier because i thought i was losing interest in her or her in me, but i fixed this problem.

Now it seems i hang out with her more than anyone else we're always together and im getting too attached and it seems like she isnt, or hiding it well, turning the tables on ME, which is never good, but are feelings a problem?

If so, the solution?

 

[Pheonix:ScndrlReborn]

Have you had sex? If not, do so now, because if you can get her to have sex with you she'll start thinking of reasons to stay with you, rather than to dump you or whatever. I can't remember why, but It had something to do with a very logical thought out post on having sex asap. I'm pretty sure that it's in the DJ bible if you need to check it out.

 

[Da Game]

I haven't read the post you're thinking of, but I think it has something to do with emotional commitment... For girls, sex is extremely emotional (as compared to guys, when it's just a nut). They don't want to lose that emotional commitment.

Reputation comes into it too: girls can have their reputation permanently damaged for sleeping with too many guys, so it's in their best interests to stick with guys they have had sex with.

Third, it's evolutionary: after a woman has sex, she might get stuck with a baby, and needs a man to help raise it. It doesn't make sense to get rid of him in that context.

Those are some reasons. But yeah, that'll help.

Also, sounds like you need to be slightly more of a challenge: don't hang out with her ALL the time, or she'll feel suffocated. Try to cut back slightly - do more stuff with other friends, etc.

 

[tracy Jaks]

yea do some **** with other friends, you cut back on the time you sspend with her, make time for yourself, youd ****ing hate it if you couldnt get away from her, may eventually kill you. lol

anyway, she stil likes you she wants a break, like grls say "i think we should take a break"

so give her it, unnoficialy,make sure you **** her soon though, o the longer youll take to getting around to it,but the longer it takes the better it will be,yea i know it sucks cant really win.