I really want to know when you DJs feel the time you spend online becomes less of a benefit and more of a hindrance. Do you think that at a certain point there’s something more useful that could be occupying your time? A point at which the “study and analyze” stage has reached its usefulness and the “action and experience” stage should be taking almost all precedence?
I don’t post a lot and I don’t come here very often. When I do, I find the information very helpful, or I have specific questions regarding a particular aspect of the game or something that went down in my life. The thing that I’m seeing and I hope you guys see is that most of the really successful lady’s men aren’t on the computer discussing these things on any kind of a regular basis. Maybe they are just naturals? Or maybe the action part of their equation has always been the mainstay of their lives. I’m not saying anybody that is learning should quit learning, but I think if there is true success going down it will come with experience and naturally you won’t need to waste your time on less meaningful aspects of being a DJ. The ones who are succeeding aren’t the ones trying to learn how to succeed to put it more succinctly. So in between learning and doing there must be a changing point at which we become self-reliant on what we’ve learned and rather choose to learn by trial and error.
The other thing that factors into this thinking is that I know way too many women that don’t find it attractive when men spend very much (if any) time on the computer. There is ALWAYS something more useful: working out, going out, planning your life, getting all your work done now, doing something nice for somebody else with your time, you name it.
Always be doing something that is beneficial for YOU, and not just something but THE BEST thing you could be doing at any given time to accomplish your goals. Women respect you if you’re out accomplishing goals that you set. If you have too much time on your hands maybe you need to set more goals to keep you busy.
My take. Love it or leave it.
I don’t post a lot and I don’t come here very often. When I do, I find the information very helpful, or I have specific questions regarding a particular aspect of the game or something that went down in my life. The thing that I’m seeing and I hope you guys see is that most of the really successful lady’s men aren’t on the computer discussing these things on any kind of a regular basis. Maybe they are just naturals? Or maybe the action part of their equation has always been the mainstay of their lives. I’m not saying anybody that is learning should quit learning, but I think if there is true success going down it will come with experience and naturally you won’t need to waste your time on less meaningful aspects of being a DJ. The ones who are succeeding aren’t the ones trying to learn how to succeed to put it more succinctly. So in between learning and doing there must be a changing point at which we become self-reliant on what we’ve learned and rather choose to learn by trial and error.
The other thing that factors into this thinking is that I know way too many women that don’t find it attractive when men spend very much (if any) time on the computer. There is ALWAYS something more useful: working out, going out, planning your life, getting all your work done now, doing something nice for somebody else with your time, you name it.
Always be doing something that is beneficial for YOU, and not just something but THE BEST thing you could be doing at any given time to accomplish your goals. Women respect you if you’re out accomplishing goals that you set. If you have too much time on your hands maybe you need to set more goals to keep you busy.
My take. Love it or leave it.