Too flirty?!?

[illmatic1005]

i like talking to any girls, fat, ugly, 10s, average, and whoever. But a lot of times when it talk to groups of girls one girl always says. 'do you flirt with every girl?'

i didnt even kno i was flirting i was just having fun and being myself..but is it a good or bad quality that i flirt too much?

like lets say im going for one girl, but i flirt with all and the one girl sees,,,will the one girl try to flirt with every guy to get even, feel bad and lose interest, or try harder for me?

 

[Rex Man]

It's a great quality it keeps you sharp. I just wouldn't flirt with any guys. No that there's any thing wrong with that!

 

[tigerstyle]

When you are talking to a set, you've got to give attention to everyone at first so as to not make them feel uncomfortable, and get them beyond the "this guy is interupting us" mindset. Once you've established the approval of the group, which could take anywhere from 30 seconds to a couple of minutes, then you start focusing on that specific person and the group can justify it.

I actually had a girl in a group come at me with this same comment just today. I wasn't exactly approaching any girls in the group at the time, not interested, but I was trying to get some practice in... and the girl wanted to know why I was flirting with the whole group (except the guy), and I looked at the other people and said "Well this girl doesn't like to have a good time, does she" and I got a pretty good chuckle out of it, and she turned a little red!

As to flirting "too much," nah. As long as you are simply "flirting" and not accidently IOI'ng all the girls in the group, lol, you are fine. The point of flirting is to have fun, and people that are questioning you or not flirting back you should forget about anyway.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...like lets say im going for one girl, but i flirt with all and the one girl sees,,,will the one girl try to flirt with every guy to get even, feel bad and lose interest, or try harder for me?

You'll never know unless you try.