To the experts... can you always guarantee sex ?

[ChillDude01]

I realize that nothing in life is perfect and you are bound to lose some opportunities ... with that being said a lot of guys be it here or anywhere else claim that once she shows interest and you go out with her sex should happen and if it doesnt its your fault .

I never understood how can these men who claim that be so sure ... i mean i went out with virgins who were clear as the sun with me that they were not willing to do anything beyond kissing and wanna wait till marriage , and where i live i estimate that around 60-70% of the girls have not done anything sexual ever , plus i recently read an indian guys post and from what he explained in india casual sex is not common like in america , even my friend who lives in france told me that french girls wont sleep with you only cause you are hot and charming and many either wait til marriage or only have sex within a relationship , and a small percent is left that engages in casual sex , fwb .... ect

So it got me wondering , american men seem so sure that sex is super easy to get and if you dont have it within a date or two youre basically ruining your chances , but it seems ( to me at least) that this mentality is far more suited for men living in english speaking countries (not even all of them) than say a german, indian or french dude.... of course i know women who put out on the first date but not as many as a lot claim there are ...

So its one of two , either advice regarding sex should be modified to fit different individuals needs or .... iam missing somethimg and sex is guaranteed 100% of the time ( if thats the case i guess j wanna know whats the secret ) .

 

[marmel75]

Hell no.

 

[jacketrunner]

I realize that nothing in life is perfect and you are bound to lose some opportunities ... with that being said a lot of guys be it here or anywhere else claim that once she shows interest and you go out with her sex should happen and if it doesnt its your fault .

I never understood how can these men who claim that be so sure ... i mean i went out with virgins who were clear as the sun with me that they were not willing to do anything beyond kissing and wanna wait till marriage , and where i live i estimate that around 60-70% of the girls have not done anything sexual ever , plus i recently read an indian guys post and from what he explained in india casual sex is not common like in america , even my friend who lives in france told me that french girls wont sleep with you only cause you are hot and charming and many either wait til marriage or only have sex within a relationship , and a small percent is left that engages in casual sex , fwb .... ect

So it got me wondering , american men seem so sure that sex is super easy to get and if you dont have it within a date or two youre basically ruining your chances , but it seems ( to me at least) that this mentality is far more suited for men living in english speaking countries (not even all of them) than say a german, indian or french dude.... of course i know women who put out on the first date but not as many as a lot claim there are ...

So its one of two , either advice regarding sex should be modified to fit different individuals needs or .... iam missing somethimg and sex is guaranteed 100% of the time ( if thats the case i guess j wanna know whats the secret ) .

You can only maximize your chances. The environment in which you live can definitely make it hard, especially if you’re not amazing looking or high status.

In America, girls who are interested tend to put out on dates 1-2, bc they’re not really judged for it as it is the norm.

 

[ChillDude01]

You can only maximize your chances. The environment in which you live can definitely make it hard, especially if you’re not amazing looking or high status.

In America, girls who are interested tend to put out on dates 1-2, bc they’re not really judged for it as it is the norm.

makes since, cause if someone who's not american tries doing exactly like some guys suggest will probably end up ruining his chances ... as i said where i live around 60% of the girls if not more have never done anything sexual and the ones that actually did were either so in love with the guy they slept with him or never got much attention and now they do .... the truly slvtty women who put out on first date are barely 5% so for a while it kinda confused me ...

 

[RangerMIke]

The only way to guarantee sex is to pay a prostitute... 100% of success. But this will have high risk and really isn't that much fun... no challenge. But if all you want is sex.. well, that is the only guarantee.

If a woman really likes you and thinks you are worth it, she'll want to have sex with you. At that point it isn't so much about anything you do, but you can fvck it up by ruining her attraction. The three most common things if you fail to do:

(1) Fail to make a date and get her alone. Nothing is going to happen if you can not get one on one.

(2) Act like a man, and talk too much about serious sh!t. Dates should be fun, avoid talking about anything that isn't fun... politics... religion... kids... work... problems. She should save that stuff for her girl friends. If she starts talking about serious sh!t, change the subject, be the fun guy make her forget about her problems. You want to talk about serious stuff... save that for you guy friends.

(3) Not trying to seduce her... she has to know you want to fvck her, she is not going to make the first move... you have to do that... then if she pushes back, which happens, then you MUST take a step back, wait a bit and try again. If she makes it clear nothing is going to happen, well.... you have a woman that is going to take time... be patient, end the date and call he again in a few days and try to make another date... then try again. You push, she decides if anything happens.