to the elders

[Bobsmith]

Ok i recently have been talking to an 7.5 and i wasn't really looking for a relationship. Not that i don't want one just didn't care either way. Well i have had lunch with her and her friends sevral days in a row and to day we are just sitting there talking and out of the blue in front of her, her friends ask me to go out with her tommorw. I said that i couldn't this friday that i already had plans that next friday was avialable.

My problem is in the fact that she has dated a good many people and has slept with about 5 of them.

What i want to know is how do you all feel about girls that have slept with a few other people.

 

[Grey Fox]

Well if she is dirty then don't sleep with her. If she is considered a slut and will damage what you think of yourself and your standards then don't do it.

BUT

If your comfortable with her, and just looking for a good time, and she can up your social proof then go out with her. Just remember that no one said you had to sleep with her. If she has hot friends treat her decent so you can up your image with them and possibly trade her up for a better looking girl.

Grey Fox

 

[Eternal]

If you aren't looking for a relationship, then there isn't a problem with just sleeping with her. So she has had sex with 5 guys? If that said 50, THEN I would put up a red flag. Just go out and enjoy yourself and bring a box of raincoats.

 

[drixsa]

dawg u got to set your own standards

some guys like chicks that get around some dont

but know by the time she goes to college most girls have had more sexual partners than that

chances are she just wants to fauck and nothin more

so decide if thats what u want