Uh.....since you didn't quote the whole paragraph that probably sounds mighty arrogant of me....lol
That said.....I have gotten a lot of positive feedback in that department over the past several years.
I have thought about it and the biggest thing I can attribute it to is getting over my hangups that "slowed me down" when I was getting to know a woman sexually.
Translation- I got rid of a lot of the fears I had of her perception of my performance, and was able to concentrate on having the kind of wild, monkey sex I WANTED to have all along. In other words, me doing what I wanted to do (bang her silly six ways to sunday) REALLY turns women on.
It still takes a few sessions with a particular woman to hit my stride, but I have learned to not be so worried about what she might think if I put my c0ck in her face and tell her to suck it, I JUST DO IT.
Aside from that, a couple of things I have learned are:
1) Not all women love to GIVE head, but all women love to RECEIVE head.
Learn how to eat pu$$y. Practice makes perfect. Some guys don't like it, but if you do it right it can enhance the experience for both of you.
Oh yea, and don't be afraid to use lots of fingers when you're down there.
2) Find her "spot".
Every woman has one or more erogenous zones that make her hit the ceiling when you hit them just right.
This is why it's important to EXPLORE. Spend some time licking, kissing, touching, blowing, biting, etc., and pay attention to her reaction at all times. You should be able to find the place(s) that push her buttons rather quickly this way. And if you do find it and spend some time there you will know it, cause she will usually tell you "I see you're found 'the spot'!"
3) Find the g-spot.
When you're going down on her, work a couple of fingers in and stroke the top of her vaginal wall. Her actual g-spot is a couple of inches in, but I have gotten great response during oral sex by rubbing the upper area just inside her pu$$y while licking her cl!t.
But the best way to make her hit the ceiling is by just using your fingers to stimulate the g-spot.
This works best when you've already gotten her worked up, just before you are ready to fukk her.
You have to get on your knees to get enough leverage. work at least two finger in her pu$$y. start to rub the upper wall a few inches in. You can feel a patch that is a little "bumpy" or "ridged". While you are rubbing that area, pull UP.
You want to do this in a rhythmic action, but not repetitive. You might go "rub, rub, pull up, ease off, rub, rub". you want to put enough pressure on this area by nearly lifting her off the bed. You should feel her pu$$y start to dilate. Pretty soon she will be practically BEGGING for your c0ck.
Like I said, this works best when she's already worked up, possibly right after you have gone down on her and she's already pulling you up cause she wants your d!ck in her.
Another thing that adds to the effect is to get on your knees and put your c0ck in her face. She should get the hint and start sucking.
There's something about dominating like this and then giving her an amazing orgasm that really works.....
4) Don't be afraid to TALK DIRRRRTY.
I can't stress this enough. That was one of the things that was a "hangup" of mine.
I knew that the chicks loved it, but it took me WAAAY too long to get comfortable with a chick to initiate it. It's almost never too soon. Start out light the first couple of times you have sex if you like, but I have found that if you do it even BEFORE you have fukked it just works them up that much more.
Don't be afraid to tell her to suck your c0ck REAL good. When you are kissing and fingering her, tell her how much you want to taste her pu$$y. Tell her that you can't wait to fukk her HARD. Use graphic words! Women are turned on by thoughts and fantasy moreso than action and reality! Use her MIND to your advantage!
That's about it. If I think of anything else I'll add it.
Curious to learn some tips from the other posters tho.....
