To pursue or not to pursue...

J0sH

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I'll just get straight to the point....

There is this girl, and from all that I have heard and seen she tells her friends that she "wants to get to know me more" and she thinks i look good and whatnot.

But whenever I see her at school (or anywhere for that matter) or even talk to her online, it seems like I am the only one trying to converse. I have already established that she is shy, and she has even told me herself, but I feel like I am trying and she is giving nothing back.

So in this case, should I continue to relentlessely pursue her and "go until the ho says no" or play it back some and just cool down on trying to talk to her?

Keep in mind that I don't flock to talk to her everytime I pass by her, she just gives me a nice smile (which I usually return) and keep walking. I just need to know if I should start to pursue her much more or just play it off like I don't really care.
 

oakraiderz2

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Go a day or two w/o talkin to her maybe longer. See if that works a little.
 

punkrockpylot

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the girl i am currently "talking to" did the same thing when we first met, you have to try kinda hard bro...and it may get frustrating, but shell talk...
 

Jerky Boi

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Yeah, go a few days without talking to her. If she's interested in you, the next time she talks to you, you wont be the only one talking. It's tough sometimes, but she'll open up eventually.
 
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