To me, asking for Tips is like asking for a Stock Play. It's bad!

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Has anyone REALLY dug into stock trading? If you have, perhaps the names Van Tharp, Bill Dunn, Richard Dennis, John Henry and many other elite traders highlight some glaring points that draw comparison between dating and trading/investing.

I have a slew of uncles, engineers, the do-it-yourselfer type who's so hung up on raising his kids, yet being smart that his finances suffer as a result of well, pride. Which is understandable, smart people feel they can do everything, when it makes sense to find someon you can trust and subcontract it out. Back to the point...

Taking a stock tip is BAD news. Why?

First off, I have to have a stock to provide.
Second, You have to follow me the WHOLE way.
-Entry
-Exit
-Position Size

The whole nine yards. I might as well manage it for you, because you see, to offer MY advice on a topic, entails responsibility contingent ON that reco. In other words, if I advocate MSFT is a buy now because it hit signal, several things have to click.

1. Price moves in the right direction
2. Determine position size based on goals and capital
3. Execute trade
4. Monitor trade and adjust, decrease/increase position size
5. Exit

All this requires constant contact and experience, hence why I advocate anybody who trades stocks or desires to, do it full time, with little cash, pick a system that allows for LONG investing horizons, or offload the responsibility. Jesse Livermore would say this, as would Warren Buffet.

The same applies to women and dating.

If I give a tip, it's what I would do, but not necessarily what works for your style. Heck, she might as well date me if it comes down to that much. Yes, I offer insight on problems, but in order to succeed, you must create your own system, your own confidence, your own method of dealing with things, of creativity, etc.

Because the time will come, like trading, when someone can't be reached, emotions play too large a role, etc, and you left high and dry.

This in fact should free many people from asking the specific things that bog us down, from approach to close to dating to sex to relationship. In trading, there's no one perfect way to make money, there's MANY!!!!

You have swing trading, short-term trading, day trading, value investing, technical, fundamental, chinese candlestick trading, moving averages, etc, and all these play a huge role, because they're tailored to YOUR personality. They're tailored to your goals.

Like trading and trying to earn money, we all desire success with women, but I firmly believe we all have different goals in each situation, and some situations just present something and you have to know what to make of it. If you go to a club, especially on the occasions I've gone to Boston, and try to pin down an LTR when some girl only wants a quick lay, you're foregoing sex for the wrong reasons. If you're ok with an ONS, go for it. If not, at least be aware that's what's available so you can plan ahead. A few times I let women go, talked to them after the club via phone, and found that they were ready for sex, which would have been better NOW, but didn't finish. Oh well, next!

Develop your skils around yourself, your goals and your life. It's much easier to lay down who you want to become and what desire of life and women, AND work backwards, than fumble around without knowing and wasting time. Heck, with the right system you can get laid today! There's women horny all the time, it just takes approaching them to meet them!

And what I was driving at with my previous post was this...

"While any one of us is online LEARNING what seduction, tips, negs, C & F, is, someone else is DOING. While they're growing, you're dying. You can't remain stagnant, because someone else is DRIVEN to succeed, and their success saps your potential success. There might be an infinite number of women in your locale, but does it settle well that someone less experienced, less afraid, less attractive, and perhaps lesser of character is tagging a girl who would ultimately Love you? That would certainly irk me."

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Some people need to start out taking baby steps with this stuff before they can employ it to their advantage. Reconditioning oneself takes time and patience - it doesn't happen overnight. We've all been so brainwashed for so long.
 

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I concur

My friend, I couldn't agree more.

It was mistakes that led me on my journey to a new found paradise and continues to push me. And only those mistakes, and pure dislike of PAIN and MISERY pushed me to improve. Disliking that feeling, I was motivated.

But in turn, I also felt OTHERS had answers, when they were just as clueless as me. It was merely a facade. So to reconstruct the tattered egos that feel as if 'They're not good enough,' toss that aside. You are!

I'm a very big advocate of how fragile the human mind is when we're first growing up, as well as education. I believe our minds are like empty computers, and the viability and success of them depends on what programs we install when we're young.

If you plug in A VIRUS CATCHER program, then you'll survive. But if you forego that, hit up Napster, download porn, send too many files, and install excessive games without caring for the system, it will flatline QUICK. The brain is the same way. Ever sit back and wonder how a mass of protein, cells, and charges can create ALL THIS?

We're talking about something so normal as gases, elements, molecules, cells, synapses, mitochondria, generating ALL OUR THOUGHTS, FEELINGS, IDEAS, MOODS, and BASICALLY LIFE. To have the best life, you have to provide the best nutrients which are:

* good friends
* good mentors
* good books
* good movies
* good health
* good programs

I basically dug my heals in deep enough to get a good feel for what's out there, and then jumped back and said:

"Wait a second, that doesn't feel right, I don't want that, and I can get better results in other ways."

That's just what I did. I say, keep this all simple. Focus on what's natural and what's right...Testosterone, Attraction, Pook, Jvesti, Fingers, Anti-Dump, etc (sorry if I missed anyone).

But also realize, it's about you, and underneath that shell you've built up, because that's all it is...the person you'd be happy to be exists, only you've layered on and piled up gunk from society that has been slung at you. Wipe off it, chisel it down, and free yourself. I'm very metaphorical, and I'm very upbeat, but so what? It's true, you can feel that good, despite what the world believes or other people believe.

I believe it's hard to communicate success, because we all have different definitions of it. To some, it's laying 2 girls/month, to some it's getting a relationship whenever they want, and to some it's losing their virginity. To me, it's approaching any girl with no fear and being able to maintain a relationship with whomever I want. Sex is merely a great bonus. I'm not into ONS very much, because when I go out, I'm highly turned off at chicks that are slopping wet in sweat, reak of booze, smell God awful from grinding so much, or present themselves as overtly slutty. I "anchor" heavily to smells, and if a girl smells off, or I catch bad booze scent, I'm done.

So when you define what you want...and David D goes into that, as well, you can start a plan of attack to getting that. Without it, how does anyone know which direction to send you in? I would say go with David D, he knows what's up. Focus on it, learn it, and use this site as well. Copy, paste, and print All the great posts you find, even those NOT in the bible. Read them religiously, even when you're bumming. At some HIGH point, you'll back into them and be amazed at how well it all works. Because you see...the moment it clicks, you won't know it until you look back and go HOLY SHYT! AND BOOOM, you're confidence jumps AGAIN.

Be fortunate you found this now. Early on. Learn it, the times you're going to be happiest with it is now. Don't just stop there, though. Adopt this attitude...

I am a societal warrior.

What is a societal warrior?

He's no different than the warriors of the ice ages and prehistoric areas, except that he adapts to the current state of life. He's proactive, not reactive. He makes plans, so he's not encountered with change he can't handle. He understands finances, business, money, dating, sex, law, economics, markets, gardening, buying a home, buying a car, cooking, cleaning, etc. These are all fundamental traits to survival in our present society we forego in favor of Vice City or Madden or even the Internet.

Schools miss this point. They train you to do THINGS. Draw. Count. Write. Read. But they don't train us to be human. To survive and thrive. They miss that point. They force kids who are mal adjusted to stay that way because they don't give them skills to react ANY OTHER WAY than the one they're born with, no wonder only 5% of Americans are financially independent, they only know ONE WAY OF DOING THINGS.

So be a societal warrior. Focus with that mentality of conquering opportunity. See what's out there. Do what you enjoy. Train. Act, don't react. The saddest ones always proclaim "I didn't see it coming." Of course not, you weren't trained to do so. No one but you CAN care for you. Sure, the GOV, friends, family, will do bits and pieces, but part of your moral rights is being autonomous. Be autonomous.


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A-Unit you are THE SH1T. Thankyou for that enlightenment.
 

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Who I am.

Me?

I'm just a man posting on the site putting forth ideas and concepts like the rest of ya'll to help the newbies and others stuck.

Does it apply to the market?

Alot of things demonstrate similarities, and for those who grasp such a concept, it can help click, just like the Video game concept posted not too long ago.

So what else applies from the market ====> pvssy?

How about supply and demand?
How about we talk about systems, and many gurus sell high priced system purporting dramatic results, just as they do in the market?

All any system is a discipline, something to follow, and it garners its marketability in that THIS discipline achieves a result that is nearly guaranteed, hence the widespread success of David D. It works, simply put.

With regard to the market, it's a personal interest of mine, both professionally and personally. Why do I firmly believe that some stuff, that tactics rarely work? Well...

That'd be like me, offering up a one-liner, a situation, a joke, or otherwise smart move that paid off ONE TIME with ONE GIRL, when I randomly did it to a friend in a TOTALLY DIFFERENT SITUATION with A DIFFERENT GIRL at a DIFFERENT TIME. I highly doubt that that would apply very well at all.

First off because we have different style.
Secondly, because circumstances are different.
Thirdly, who has time to remember THAT much shyt?

When you're brain is trying to recall something you logged away long ago, it's very near impossible to FEEL the situation and come up with something. And when you're state of emotions is not coinciding with your line, joke, or story...it all comes out messed. This, too has been spouted, that it's a feeling game, not a thinking game, and regurgitating lines, stories, etc, is like reprocessing something. Is there fun in that anyway? Isn't it more fun to come up with off the cuff stuff so people say: "Wow, he's a crazy mofo with all the shyt he comes up with?"

Thanks, Bryce.

And again, there's no right or wrong. All the posts on this site are is a compilation of experiences, opinions, and observations. They cannot be disproved or approved, only accepted or rejected. My voice is no more real than the next guys'. I gauge what I say based on my view of what's successful. So for those who seek fulfillment, balance, and the opportunity to meet, enjoy, and have sex with great girls, I present that. Maybe not the top dimes at top clubs, because I'm not at the level where I've pulled or met a girl like that, but certainly enough 8 & 9's to be happy, in my book.

Post on.

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