In a LTR and my GF keeps wanting me to buy her gifts. She says she does not feel special because I don't.
I don't buy her gifts other then special occasions and tend to try and not spend too much money on her because i believe that it makes girls spoilt and they usually end up wanting more and more. From experience you normally end up a bit of a mug, with a spolt girl who wants more and more and you end up without the girl and an empty wallet.
However to the girl you look mean and look as though you are tight with your cash, which cant be a quality feature, can it?
I have also broken my ankle and kinda agreed to buying her a gift if she looked after me when my parents went away. However i av now said i won't cus she did not do a very good job. she was more of a burden, though she was company, she made a mess, used all my blank dvds and i ended up cleaning and she did not do any washing up.
I also said that i had wasted enough money on her at the weekend, and that should be her present. I went with her to her mates party and on a rare occasion bought the drinks and taxis etc. she wasted my money by saying she wanted to go to a club when we got home, which i agreed to pay for cus she had no money. i had to pay for a taxi there, entrance and a taxi back. N when we got there she wanted to leave almost instantly. we stayed for about 15 mins ad one drink and tuned back. i did not make much of a scene out of this n think i av now snapped and am now bein recentful with not buying her a gift.
So by using my theory i look tight, should i give in and buy the gift, i usually don't go back on wot i av said but this time i feel by buying her a gift i will be spoiling her when i don't feel like she deseves it.
She also knows that in previous relationships i have spoilt other girls. wot should i do or say so i dont fall back into my afc ways and end up with a girl who is spoilt and unapreciative? At the same time i want her to feal special (or do i)
cheers
I don't buy her gifts other then special occasions and tend to try and not spend too much money on her because i believe that it makes girls spoilt and they usually end up wanting more and more. From experience you normally end up a bit of a mug, with a spolt girl who wants more and more and you end up without the girl and an empty wallet.
However to the girl you look mean and look as though you are tight with your cash, which cant be a quality feature, can it?
I have also broken my ankle and kinda agreed to buying her a gift if she looked after me when my parents went away. However i av now said i won't cus she did not do a very good job. she was more of a burden, though she was company, she made a mess, used all my blank dvds and i ended up cleaning and she did not do any washing up.
I also said that i had wasted enough money on her at the weekend, and that should be her present. I went with her to her mates party and on a rare occasion bought the drinks and taxis etc. she wasted my money by saying she wanted to go to a club when we got home, which i agreed to pay for cus she had no money. i had to pay for a taxi there, entrance and a taxi back. N when we got there she wanted to leave almost instantly. we stayed for about 15 mins ad one drink and tuned back. i did not make much of a scene out of this n think i av now snapped and am now bein recentful with not buying her a gift.
So by using my theory i look tight, should i give in and buy the gift, i usually don't go back on wot i av said but this time i feel by buying her a gift i will be spoiling her when i don't feel like she deseves it.
She also knows that in previous relationships i have spoilt other girls. wot should i do or say so i dont fall back into my afc ways and end up with a girl who is spoilt and unapreciative? At the same time i want her to feal special (or do i)
cheers
