To All you newbies: Stop reading these threads,They are useless

[Microphone Fiend]

...that is until you GO OUT and get some experience. I have read too many "confidence building" threads in my stay here. It seems that newbies don't need tips on things to say but how to get the balls to say them!Stop b!tching about rejection and face the facts. IT HAPPENS. There is no getting around it. If it didn't, getting laid wouldn't be "oh so sweet."

If everyone would just go out in the field, get rejected THEN comeback here and ask question, all newbies would be getting laid a lot more. Before you ask another question JUST to up your post count, go out and try it. If it doesn't work out you can entertain and enlighten us with you experience. You learn better in trying than you do in text. If you think you know the answer but just want someone to agree with you to be sure... YOU ARE WASTING OUR TIME. Go with your gut feeling.

I admit I do not practice what I preach all the time but after reading numerous seduction boards and gaining almost as much knowledge as I can I feel much more confident with my game. I was talking to Hb 6-7 all the time in school. But then today I saw my previous one-itis and the feelings of powerlessness, weakness and despair come flooding back to me. This is when I realized all my knowledge DOESN'T MEAN SH!T until I GO OUT IN THE FIELD and try.

This is my inspiration and it should be yours too. Every time I start to chicken out or don't feel my best, I will think about my inability to perform with my one-itis(and past rejections) as motivation and how I will get better, NOT to win over my one-itis as much as to show myself I have the talent and don't need to settle for the first chick thats shows interest. Starting now: no more chickening out or putting off approaches to next time.

There are tons of people our age getting laid all the time, and it isn't because they got lucky but because they overcame their fear of the opposite sex earlier on and they have the GUTS to go after what they want. Don't be another loser who idles that guy who gets laid 24/7, be that guy.

 

[Ronny_Neumonic II]

I dunno...when I was a n00bie here I was 16, and I had lots of experience with girls, just when I read this stuff I was like "aha!" and I saw where I could apply this stuff and stop being such a chump with women.

Anyways I suppose its a good tip for those peeps who sit alone at home hoping for something to happen with women.

 

[RazzleDazzle]

He is talking about the experience of women. You said you had experience to build on when you came to this site. You could look back and go "your kidding, m0ther F0cker, that wench!!" Without experience you can't disect what happend and why she did what she did.

Those of you who don't have much experience who come to this site are just basically reading a book. You can read all you want about horses but you don't know a damn thing until you hang around them.

Take a little from this site, go out and practice. Come back with your results and post. That's the meaning of this site. FEEDBACK. Live it learn it.

 

[RawkinKaoticStyle]

THATS THE MAIN PROBLEM, PEOPLE HAVE TO GO OUT THERE

i mean i shouldent be talking because im not in the feild much, but thats because of transportation problems.

you ever heardabout learning from others mistakes, well people are taking this way to far, to the point where they just want to know about everything do they wont get rejected, then your just hurting your self man.

 

[jmm854]

You're right man, experience is the key. But the idea behind writing and reading posts is to give guys the confidence and tools needed to go out and do it.

 

[Sax God]

Excellent post. I may appear to be a newbie, but at one point in time, I had other member names on here. I'm only recently returning, though. The threads make more sense with some experience under you belt.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Originally posted by jmm854
You're right man, experience is the key. But the idea behind writing and reading posts is to give guys the confidence and tools needed to go out and do it.

But isn't there sections in both the hall of fame archives, and the dj bible JUST for confidence? To go with the great posts by DJFingers, and all the other confidence tips in the Tips section, adn the ones you can find by searching the site? If you have read ONE confidence post, you have READ THEM ALL. There is nothing varying to a great extent. Stop reading the new ones expecting some break-through tip, that simplifies the game so ugly mofos get laid 24/7. Like Einsten said "You should make things as easy as possible, but not easier" Read an old thread again and try it. NOT at your house but instead when you are about to approach a chick. When it ACTUALLY makes sense. Too many people write off confidence tips because when they are sitting near their computer, they feel the same after doing the tip.

True, you will get rejected but it will be all worth it when you wake up one morning with that HB9 who everyone worships and you can honestly tell your friends NOT how you want to screw her, but how you DID screw her. No matter how many rejections you encounter, when you get that one great catch you will wonder "WHY did I everydoubt the game and take soo long to get into the field?"