Tired of hearing girls whine about "creepy" guys

[wiggamonkey]

Man, I am going to convulse the next time I hear a girl give an anecdote about how some "creepy" guy did something to her that really was not creepy at all. Sure, there are creepy guys out there. I'd say it's justified to get weirded out by random ass-grabbing or sexual come-ons like "you know what would look good on you? me" (wait... is that really THAT creepy?). But I'm not talking about that kind of guy.

I'm talking about the guy who gets labeled a "creep" for some benign action like checking a girl out in class, trying to dance with them at a club, or even making a cat-call. Sure, there are some guys who are clueless as to what will be received poorly by women, but what ticks me off are when these harmless acts are overdramatized so severely.

Half of the time I feel like girls use the "what a creep" line as a cop-out for just not being attracted to the dude. For instance:

A chick tells her friends: "OMG this creepy guy winked at me!"

My response: Would he be a creep if he had slick hair and some muscles?

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It's like, come on ladies, grow some sense and don't misconstrue the smallest response a guy makes to his testosterone as an attempt to rape you!

Just as an aside, I'm not posting this out of bitterness or inability to attract a women. I realize that this is just a fact of life that you've gotta deal with it. But sometimes it just feels good to vent!

 

[iqqi]

Your name sucks.

 

[The Forms]

Yea. It's pretty creepy.

 

[ChrizZ]

Man, I am going to convulse the next time I hear a girl give an anecdote about how some "creepy" guy did something to her that really was not creepy at all. Sure, there are creepy guys out there. I'd say it's justified to get weirded out by random ass-grabbing or sexual come-ons like "you know what would look good on you? me" (wait... is that really THAT creepy?). But I'm not talking about that kind of guy.

I'm talking about the guy who gets labeled a "creep" for some benign action like checking a girl out in class, trying to dance with them at a club, or even making a cat-call. Sure, there are some guys who are clueless as to what will be received poorly by the opposite sex, but what ticks me off are the girls who overdramatize these harmless act.

Half of the time I feel like girls use the "what a creep" line as a cop-out for just not being attracted to the dude. For instance:

A chick tells her friends: "OMG this creepy guy winked at me!"

My response: Would he be a creep if he had slick hair and some muscles?

​

It's like, come on ladies, grow some sense and don't misconstrue the smallest action I make on my testosterone as an attempt to rape you!

Just as an aside, I'm not posting this out of bitterness or inability to attract a women. I realize that this is just a fact of life that you've gotta deal with it. But sometimes it just feels good to vent!

you are either the creep/pervert or the guy that gets her wet.

 

[wiggamonkey]

ha ha-- how do i change my name?

 

[ketostix]

If a guy is non AFC and not attractive to the girl=creepy in many women's bird brains. It's really just a shaming/c0ck blocking tool that's easy for females to grab on to.

 

[wiggamonkey]

If a guy is non AFC and not attractive to the girl=creepy in many women's bird brains. It's really just a shaming/c0ck blocking tool that's easy for females to grab on to.

AGREED

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Yeah, so what happens if a guy is not displaying interest and is not attracted to her while she is attracted to him? Well they have another term for that and it's called 'gay'. So 'creeps' are guys where they are attracted to them that they are not attracted to who make some moves, while 'gays' are the other way around.

 

[mrRuckus]

Yeah yeah girls are dumb. And you [general] let them get away with whatever they want so what are you complaining about?

"my kids are such brats! i cant stand them." Uh you let them be that way. Blame yourself.

 

[Poonani Maker]

If you've ever been into an argument with a woman, she can say ANYTHING she wants, no matter how off-base or cutthroat because she CAN, she's daddy's little girl. She's protected, because she's fragile physically, and can summon any afc or even non-afc male to protect her sorry bratty, b1tchy whiny little ass. They can be immature but they don't have to be accountable to a higher power i.e. other males. We men have to hold the court and not be loose, not be gay. So they can fall all over themselves like a drunken louse but we must stand firm and think before we speak. They're not accountable for their behavior period unless someone (hopefully, YOU, the alpha male) is there to correct them from falling off the deep end and making a mess of themselves (as if they care - they don't they're protected by society because they've got the childmaker, the poonani). Respect is a big factor here too. Women don't know or care to respect. In my job I come into contact with people from ALL walks of life, and the ONLY complaints I've EVER gotten called into my company headquarters have come from WOMEN over the most FRIVOLOUS things, I mean the most trivial sh1t that someone could dream up, like getting a drink of water from their office cooler. Fvck. Lack of Respect, man, lack of respect. Women don't know the word. Even military women don't know the word.

 

[young_gun]

Women don't know or care to respect. In my job I come into contact with people from ALL walks of life, and the ONLY complaints I've EVER gotten called into my company headquarters have come from WOMEN over the most FRIVOLOUS things, I mean the most trivial sh1t that someone could dream up, like getting a drink of water from their office cooler. Fvck. Lack of Respect, man, lack of respect. Women don't know the word. Even military women don't know the word.

LOL!!! You are so right it's scary. Working at retail businesses has made me aware of this stuff. I NEVER got complaints from men, unless it was something that absolutely needed to be brought to my attention (overcharged them for something, product quality was really really bad). EVEN THEN (under the worst of circumstances), these guys handled themselves well and showed respect for me and for the store manager that came over to help them.

However, I'd say 95% of complaints I got were from snotty women who thought the world was entitled to them. I had one woman cut everyone in line (Christmas time) while I was in the middle of a transaction and demand her $0.23 of change that I had forgotten to give her. LOL. I had to end my current transaction, call a manager over and get them to open the cash register for me while this woman complained about everything under the sun. Lack of respect, man. Lack of respect.

 

[joey2times]

This it totally true. In this politcally correct, kiss ass world, everything a guy does is subject to being creepy/criminal.

Let's face it, college chicks are the worst. If you're not some cute, 19 year old frat boy, you're "creepy" If these bytches are that afraid of people looking at them or dealing with the real world, stay fvcking home and take your classes online. Now, there are creeps out there, and women have the right to be careful, but some women just think the whole world wants to rape them.

This attitude also transcends to other areas. White people can't say shyt without somebody pulling the race card out of their ass. It's been going on for a long time.

Example: Check out the old "Jeffersons" sitcom. Notice how many times George Jefferson called Tom Willis a honkey. Can you imagine if Tom called George the "N" word? There's always been a double standard.

So, everybody, get over yourselves and take responsibility. Women, not all guys are rapists. Minorities, when something doesn't go your way, take responsibilty and quit blaming whitey.

 

[LostAndConfused]

Everyone knows, black and whites alike, that honkey isn't that offensive. Its a really empty insult. The N-word is backed up by hundreds of years of backbreaking servitude, and people forget that over and over again. Of course that makes the N-word more loaded than a word made by some guy to get back at the "man." Its the same way that gringo isn't offensive either. If I call a white guy a honkey at my school, he'll just laugh and be like "Hey man i like cracka better."

But back on topic: wigga, there are two ways to think about women going up to you and complaining about creepy guys. The more positive way, which no one has mentioned yet, is that she's trying to find some way to start a conversation with you! its very reasonable to think that complaining about other guys being creepy could just simply be a female opener. However, most likely thats rarely the case. Usually its because they are just b1tches and they call guys "creepy" if the guy isn't the exact type of male she wants to date.

I.E: I went sarging at the mall, approached women very confidently, from the front (not sneaking up behind and tapping their back), so they could see me as I approached, I smiled, always had a comfortable opener, and girls still called me creepy. Why? Perhaps it's because I'm black, perhaps not...I'm not playing the race card, it's probably because I'm not the type of guy these girls want to date. That happens. If a girl calls you creepy, she really can't do much more than that...but the real b1tches make up stories like "he tried to rape me"

 

[JDA70]

I don't know what else to say other then it's
sickening how some women throw around the
"creepy" word like its going out of style or something.
Same is true for the word " Player"
When asked what a player is alot of them
say some stupid stuff showing their ignorance.

 

[LostAndConfused]

I don't know what else to say other then it's
sickening how some women throw arond the
"creepy" word like its going out of style or something.
Same is true for the word " Player"
When asked what a player is alot of them
say some stupid stuff showing their ignorance.

The word "pimp" too. I once had a girl say "sorry I don't like pimps like yourself." I doubt she knows what a pimp really is....

 

[Poonani Maker]

well, the good news is that, what Swinggcat says to turn it back on them, start calling Their behavior a little creepy, and "You're freaking me out!" "Stalker!" Saying, "You're a little bit too ____ (shady, creepy, shy, nice). I don't know about you. We'd never work out because..." I guess you have to consciously go on the offensive, to make them qualify themselves or get out of the way. I don't have the time. You're stealing my time to where I could be with another woman right now. Life is short.

 

[JDA70]

The word "pimp" too. I once had a girl say "sorry I don't like pimps like yourself." I doubt she knows what a pimp really is....

Yeah that BS to.

Pimp is so over used these days.
Most don't even know what one really is.
Pimps are low life scum bags IMHO.

 

[joey2times]

Everyone knows, black and whites alike, that honkey isn't that offensive. Its a really empty insult. The N-word is backed up by hundreds of years of backbreaking servitude, and people forget that over and over again. Of course that makes the N-word more loaded than a word made by some guy to get back at the "man." Its the same way that gringo isn't offensive either. If I call a white guy a honkey at my school, he'll just laugh and be like "Hey man i like cracka better."

But back on topic: wigga, there are two ways to think about women going up to you and complaining about creepy guys. The more positive way, which no one has mentioned yet, is that she's trying to find some way to start a conversation with you! its very reasonable to think that complaining about other guys being creepy could just simply be a female opener. However, most likely thats rarely the case. Usually its because they are just b1tches and they call guys "creepy" if the guy isn't the exact type of male she wants to date.

I.E: I went sarging at the mall, approached women very confidently, from the front (not sneaking up behind and tapping their back), so they could see me as I approached, I smiled, always had a comfortable opener, and girls still called me creepy. Why? Perhaps it's because I'm black, perhaps not...I'm not playing the race card, it's probably because I'm not the type of guy these girls want to date. That happens. If a girl calls you creepy, she really can't do much more than that...but the real b1tches make up stories like "he tried to rape me"

See, I don't agree with that at all. I think the reason the word honkey isn't as offensive is because whites don't feel they have the right to be offended.

I'm tired of hearing about the wretchedness behind the "N" word. If it's that bad, blacks wouldn't be calling eachother by that name. In truth, white people probably are offended by "cracka" and "honkey", but have been conditioned to think it's OK. As whites, we're not allowed to complain, even though most of us had nothing to do with racism, or what happened in the past.

Prejudice exists everywhere and for several different reasons. Fat people get rejected for jobs, short people make less money, ugly people can't get dates..blah blah blah...the difference? Short, fat, ugly people can't scream about the injustice the way minorities can.

 

[young_gun]

Thread closed.

 

[MrStabAHo]

See, I don't agree with that at all. I think the reason the word honkey isn't as offensive is because whites don't feel they have the right to be offended.

I'm tired of hearing about the wretchedness behind the "N" word. If it's that bad, blacks wouldn't be calling eachother by that name. In truth, white people probably are offended by "cracka" and "honkey", but have been conditioned to think it's OK. As whites, we're not allowed to complain, even though most of us had nothing to do with racism, or what happened in the past.

Prejudice exists everywhere and for several different reasons. Fat people get rejected for jobs, short people make less money, ugly people can't get dates..blah blah blah...the difference? Short, fat, ugly people can't scream about the injustice the way minorities can.

You complainin about people complainin...STUPID....