tired of being nice

[jcl301]

Hello brothers,

I am really glad that I somehow stumble on to this website. I just wish that I found this eariler. I taking the advice of reading the Dj Bible and there are some many great information and advice on there. I totally understand that is okay to be nice, but to be a MAN is takes confidence and everything else that the DJ's have been talking about.

Here is my story and there is a girl that I work with on the weekends that I really like. She just recently broke up with her boyfriend of three years. She broke up with him because he getting too jealous and acting like completely pyscho. She and I grew closer to one another. However her interests of me seems like it goes up and down like the freaking roller coaster ride. I am just tired of the bull S***. I made the mistake by telling her how I feel about her. I know that is really big mistake and I don't know if I really totally f*** it up already. We went out twice in the last ten days. The first date was just her and I going out to eat. Our second times was me going out with her and her sister to club. We just flirt with one another alot that is all. Well these last two weeks, she been the one that has been calling me every night. However, she didn't call me tonight though. In the Dj bible it said that the best thing is not to care. The most important thing is to love yourself and that give a S*** what people think. I totally agree with that, however sometime I know what to do, but my emotions just takes over and makes me do stupid things like by telling her "I like her". I just want everyone advice on this. Is there still an chance for me in hooking with this girl. I really like this girl and I know that I need to understand that so what if this girl doesn't like me. There are billions of women out there. I am slowing trying to put the DJ bible method into place. Like most of the DJ's says that it takes time to change into a REAL MAN. I am hoping with pratice and time I will become one. So what is everyone's advice about dealing with this girl, should I just blow her off or what? I look forward to everyone's advice and criticism. Thank you all.

Sincerely,
JCL301

 

[TheInfamousCBear]

You already fukked up when you showed your heart...Leave her alone, its over...I know its hard to get used to at first, but you have to show attraction intead of talking it, cause alot of dudes talk it, but dont walk it...And as for the "fukk what others say" thing, that takes awhile and alot of sh1t for you to get to that point, but when you get there, its good...

 

[Pimp-sicle]

JCT: Your done bro!! Never EVER EVER tell a girl how you "feel" about her until she shows you/tells you how she feels about you!!! In my book that's the biggest AFC mistake you can make. See, now she has you by the ballz!! She knows you'll come crawling to her if she wants you to "hang-out" with her or if she needs a favor. Not a good position to be in!! A true DJ always has plenty of girls to call and hang out with. When you get to this stage, you'll find that ALL the girls you want will like you because your not needy like most of the AFC's that chase them.

Go out there and get some field experience with women.


PIMP- by the way you have MAJOR ONE-ITIS!!!

 

[Starman]

haha good post pimp

listen to the guys advice..here is my further advice

1) SHe just broke up with her ex, she is USING you to stroke her ego and will disown you as soon as another guy comes along

2) You are her GIRLFRIEND, going out with her and her sister???

if you have the smallest microscopic chance left with this girl

1) STOP talking to her on the fone everyday

2) Start being distant with her

3) mention other girls you have interest in(i..e ask her advice about how you should talk to another girl you have the hots for but is unavailable like a teacher or a boss)

Its time to knock this dink off the pedestal you put her on

 

[jcl301]

thanks guys

Thanks everyone for your advice.

I guess I am pretty much done with this girl. That really sucks because she was actually good looking and not act like a stuck up Bit**. I am going to taking all your advice just leave it alone. Just play it cool, I guess. What should I do if she just keeps on calling me. You should just not answer or just answer tell her that I am just really busy right now. Thanks for all your help DJ's

Sincerely,
JCL301