The secret to giving great sex is to be unpredictable and defy a woman's expectations of what she thinks is going to happen next. The great lover makes everything a welcomed (and sometimes even a disappointing) surprise (so that she craves what the next sexu@l experience is going to be like).
This falls into three phases:
1) Before penetration
2) During penetration
3) After your climax
1) BEFORE PENETRATION
Tease her sometimes. Make her guess when you're going to insert it, and sometimes prolong it after she would have expected it to have already happened by am inexperienced beta who only cares about getting himself off. Rub her pvssy and cl!t with your member and make her think you're going to insert it, but procrastinate. Sometimes, insert the tip, but then pull out. Then interject this with kissing and fondling as a commercial. Make her want it, more and more.
But that's only sometimes.
Other times, just jam it in there so quick she didn't know what happened.
And everything in between.
2) DURING PENETRATION
Great loving-making and fvcking is a combination of rhythm and depth and angle and position and duration. These must be mastered so that it's second nature and intuitive and organic in accord with what YOU feel. You're the one creating and engineering the experience for her. Sometimes you make love, slow and steady, in all its romance; other times you fvck her brains out like a wild, carnal beast. And everything in between. If you don't know what you're going to do next, neither will she. If you can surprise yourself, you will surprise her too.
Achieving this state of mind is the secret to being a sex god!
a) RHYTHM AND DEPTH
This is your bread and butter. There are almost infinite combinations. Think Morse Code. You have short, shallow thrusts, and you have deep, penetrating thrusts. These can be woven into different patterns as a loop, like the chords of a song. And they can be changed, like a verse moving into a chorus, and back again. Two shallow, one deep. Repeat for a while. Then change. Don't forget the middle ground. Come up with your own patterns utilizing these elements.
b) ANGLE
You can insert your member from a variety of different angles as you're fvcking, which will stimulate different areas inside her. Mixed with your rhythm and depth patterns, this does nothing but add to the flavor and unpredictability, and ultimately her satisfaction. Imagine a loop of 3 short thrusts, following by a deep one, but each of these thrusts penetrates her from a different angle? The possibilities are endless, and she, like hopefully you, don't know what's going to happen next.
c) POSITION
Sometimes you fvck in one position fast and hammering, and in a short period of time, and climax. But most times, you apply the principles I've already outlined, but every so often you change positions, and you transition smoothly without her knowing what's going on. You must do this naturally and organically, and again, you or her shouldn't know what's coming next. If you start fvcking her on the bed and you end up across the room on the floor, and she didn't know how it happened, you will be a god to her. She will worship you.
d) DURATION
Sometimes 5 minutes, but most times, way more. Save the shortness for selfish, special occasions. But most times, make it last 1-2 hours. Whiskey can help here for the titanic sessions. But if you can't last an hour sober, you suck and need work. Sometimes, she will beg you to cvm. Sometimes, obey her. But more times than not, ignore her and keep fvcking her brains out. Cvm only when you think it's time.
3) AFTER YOUR CLIMAX
Call it quits or go for a second round. Mix it up. Please her fully sometimes; disappoint her and have her wanting more the next. Sometimes leave your flaccid member inside her till it gets hard again; other times, go to sleep in a cuddle. If you talk about each others dreams and aspirations in life now, she will bond to you like Valcro.
I could write a book about this, and it has crossed my mind, but this is the gist of what I've learned about being a great lover! But God! If you can stimulate her G-spot doggy style with you pen!s, she will NEVER forget you!