Aurora Demon
Don Juan
Remember where I park.
Don’t schedule more than 1 date in a day, you could end up spending a lot of time with the first girl if there’s a connection, then have to flake the second one or leave a good situation to start all over with another.
I have girls meet me at my place before I drive us both to the date venue. Once they arrive I hug them then say I forgot something and go back to my apartment with her following and I grab some random thing then head to my car for the hang out. This is a habit of mine, supposedly makes them more comfortable going back to your place after the activity, most girls should be surprised that you don’t make a love on them when they go to your apartment the first time.
Check the weather before meeting up. Seriously super simple yet made a huge difference.
Have the girl leave her purse at your house or your car before going on the date. I always meet up at my place for dates, so the girl parks her car and I drive us both. I noticed it’s an inconvenience for them to bring their purse if your date is an outdoor activity.
Have her walk in your apartment and room before the date starts.
Don’t drink too much water before the date.
Or you’ll be pissing too much.
Good for inside jokes.
Kino sooner!
Time dates for when the sun sets or when the sun is setting.
Dress appropriately for the weather.
Hug the girl as soon as I see her at the start of our meeting / day2.
Must begin physical contact earlier, it becomes harder and more awkward the longer I wait.
Remove extra chairs in my room. One chair that’s mine and she has to sit on the bed.
****ing a girl below your standards can actually hurt your ego.
Hard escalation frame: "I hope you're not one of those girls that are really weird and insecure and you're going to leave here and stop talking to me because of all this."
Reward frame for hard escalation: She seems like a free spirit and she seems
really mature, as most girls would be weirded out because they are so childish.
My sarcasm is too much, need to tone it down. I act like this because I’m
nervous or from some deeper insecurity.
Groom myself better.
Monitor my habits, I spend so much time alone I develop odd habits due to being awkward after not having been on a date in a while.
Stay sharp. Go on a date or hit on a girl every so often, even if I don't feel like it, at least for the sake of not getting totally rusty.. Lack of motivation is my main problem here.
Apparently, I spit habitually and I rub my nose a lot habitually, she said. I didn't even know this, I'm doing it out of nervousness, but these are habits I could not have observed in myself since I don't even think about it.
Say something about how her boobs are distracting, then say I can distract her. Take off my shirt, she likes it. This one should work regardless of body type.
Don’t schedule more than 1 date in a day, you could end up spending a lot of time with the first girl if there’s a connection, then have to flake the second one or leave a good situation to start all over with another.
I have girls meet me at my place before I drive us both to the date venue. Once they arrive I hug them then say I forgot something and go back to my apartment with her following and I grab some random thing then head to my car for the hang out. This is a habit of mine, supposedly makes them more comfortable going back to your place after the activity, most girls should be surprised that you don’t make a love on them when they go to your apartment the first time.
Check the weather before meeting up. Seriously super simple yet made a huge difference.
Have the girl leave her purse at your house or your car before going on the date. I always meet up at my place for dates, so the girl parks her car and I drive us both. I noticed it’s an inconvenience for them to bring their purse if your date is an outdoor activity.
Have her walk in your apartment and room before the date starts.
Don’t drink too much water before the date.
Or you’ll be pissing too much.
Good for inside jokes.
Kino sooner!
Time dates for when the sun sets or when the sun is setting.
Dress appropriately for the weather.
Hug the girl as soon as I see her at the start of our meeting / day2.
Must begin physical contact earlier, it becomes harder and more awkward the longer I wait.
Remove extra chairs in my room. One chair that’s mine and she has to sit on the bed.
****ing a girl below your standards can actually hurt your ego.
Hard escalation frame: "I hope you're not one of those girls that are really weird and insecure and you're going to leave here and stop talking to me because of all this."
Reward frame for hard escalation: She seems like a free spirit and she seems
really mature, as most girls would be weirded out because they are so childish.
My sarcasm is too much, need to tone it down. I act like this because I’m
nervous or from some deeper insecurity.
Groom myself better.
Monitor my habits, I spend so much time alone I develop odd habits due to being awkward after not having been on a date in a while.
Stay sharp. Go on a date or hit on a girl every so often, even if I don't feel like it, at least for the sake of not getting totally rusty.. Lack of motivation is my main problem here.
Apparently, I spit habitually and I rub my nose a lot habitually, she said. I didn't even know this, I'm doing it out of nervousness, but these are habits I could not have observed in myself since I don't even think about it.
Say something about how her boobs are distracting, then say I can distract her. Take off my shirt, she likes it. This one should work regardless of body type.
