Now heres a theory for you.
Think of those ancient scales, the one that lady justice holds up, just picture it for me and yourself.
Relationships follow the same principal as the scale, when one is high up the other is down low, and it takes time to balance.
Now remember when you had that "one" girl who you though about ALL the time and couldn't get her out of your head, what happend. She broke your freakin heart didn't she. That is because you were WAY the fvck up there and she was much lower because of it, she was grounded and in reality and you up in the clouds with ideas of good times with her.
Now I dont know who it works literally, either girls can sense it or it is just the law of the universe and love, but it does make sense. Look at any REAL DJ they are obviously the grounded one and thus in control of the situation and the girl is up there. But it is logical that two people aren't going to be both up there right of the bat right, or if it happends it is extremely rare.
Believe me the REAL DJs do feel or have the ability to be the one up in the air but they fight it or naturally because they have 3-4 prospects at the same time so they could careless right.
And thats what Im getting to, careless about the girl you want to skrew, don't become infatuated, and think about the cons before the pros of her to keep your self from lifting.
Next girl that you like try to keep this scale analogy in your consious and figure out where you stand and you can assume that she is at the other end, im not saying it happends all at once but over a week you will notice the differance in your situation, she will be the infatuated and you the catch, as it should be.
Like common you are the MAN here, and what do men do, they CONTROL well control the situation through your thoughts and feelings.
Think of those ancient scales, the one that lady justice holds up, just picture it for me and yourself.
Relationships follow the same principal as the scale, when one is high up the other is down low, and it takes time to balance.
Now remember when you had that "one" girl who you though about ALL the time and couldn't get her out of your head, what happend. She broke your freakin heart didn't she. That is because you were WAY the fvck up there and she was much lower because of it, she was grounded and in reality and you up in the clouds with ideas of good times with her.
Now I dont know who it works literally, either girls can sense it or it is just the law of the universe and love, but it does make sense. Look at any REAL DJ they are obviously the grounded one and thus in control of the situation and the girl is up there. But it is logical that two people aren't going to be both up there right of the bat right, or if it happends it is extremely rare.
Believe me the REAL DJs do feel or have the ability to be the one up in the air but they fight it or naturally because they have 3-4 prospects at the same time so they could careless right.
And thats what Im getting to, careless about the girl you want to skrew, don't become infatuated, and think about the cons before the pros of her to keep your self from lifting.
Next girl that you like try to keep this scale analogy in your consious and figure out where you stand and you can assume that she is at the other end, im not saying it happends all at once but over a week you will notice the differance in your situation, she will be the infatuated and you the catch, as it should be.
Like common you are the MAN here, and what do men do, they CONTROL well control the situation through your thoughts and feelings.