tiny (close mouth) kisses

[superchristx]

The last couple girls I kissed were giving me small, closed mouth kisses. Maybe I've been out of the game for too long, but in highschool and my (other) college all my girlfriends wanted to suck face, stick their tongue in my mouth, cover me in spit and it was awesome. That's how I like to kiss, but these last two just wanted to hug me and give me weak little smooches. When this happens I interpret it as a red light and I 86 'em.

So the question is, should I just be a little more patient with these girls? Do some girls just kiss like that and they will never get wild? Is it a sign of low IL? Inexperience? Is it necessary to really suck face before moving on to bigger/better things? Anyway I just wanna know wtf is up with those bull**** smooches because they make me wanna walk.

 

[FunnyCide]

I don't know what your trying to describec casue you really need to see to know. But I'll say that most women do not want a tongue down their throat. Tongue is good but trying to taste what she had for dinner is bad. I'm pretty sure that's how most people feel since I hate it too when some girl is also trying to stick her tongue down my throat. I don't like slobber either...who want a face cover with siliva. When that happens I usually stop and wipe my mouth before continuing. Every women I've ever been with has said that I'm a good kisser and most don't stop kissing me.

With the small kisses...just take it slow. Kiss her gently but passionante...If you can kiss her well like that trust me she'll love it. BTW it also show that you're not trying to jump into the sack and that you enjoy just kissing her, when you try and turn that into a tonsel hockey match you lose that romantic euphoria and gentle kisses bring. The Romantic part may not do anything for you but it'll do wonders for her.

 

[DJ Hawtness]

Originally posted by superchristx
The last couple girls I kissed were giving me small, closed mouth kisses. Maybe I've been out of the game for too long, but in highschool and my (other) college all my girlfriends wanted to suck face, stick their tongue in my mouth, cover me in spit and it was awesome. That's how I like to kiss, but these last two just wanted to hug me and give me weak little smooches. When this happens I interpret it as a red light and I 86 'em.

So the question is, should I just be a little more patient with these girls? Do some girls just kiss like that and they will never get wild? Is it a sign of low IL? Inexperience? Is it necessary to really suck face before moving on to bigger/better things? Anyway I just wanna know wtf is up with those bull**** smooches because they make me wanna walk.

Dude, it's called A KISS for a reason, not a slobfest. =/

You want to make these "little kisses" more fun? When you're kissing, use kino by stroking her back slowly until you reach her @$$ and grab that big thang.

You could also tease her by giving her a little kiss, then start kissing/biting her (softly) on the neck, and cheeks, THEN going back for the mouth.

Girls need to be comfortable with a guy before they give french kisses. Now of course there are exceptions to this, but the VAST majority of girls want it this way.

 

[superchristx]

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"Kiss her gently but passionante"

What does that mean, to kiss passionate. Can you kiss passionate w/o systaining lip contact for one second or less? Mouths stay closed? Maybe this is romantic to her but to me it is boring. I'm not talking about tonsil hockey but I'm not a teddy bear to be cuddled and pecked.

ty funnycyde

 

[DJ Hawtness]

To kiss passionate is to kiss with affection - soft, but nice and gentle, so that she will REMEMBER your kiss.

 

[JT47319]

You obviously haven't escalated enough.

For example, as a **** test, sometimes when I go in for a kiss, a girl will turn her head.

Obviously to an AFC and newbie, this deflates his self-confidence that she doesn't want him and give up. WRONG!

She wants me, she just isn't quite ready YET. The key is to escalate and slowly heat things up.

So in said example, oftentimes I will kiss the offered cheek. Then slowly kiss her jawline. Gently move down her neck and kiss it as well as the shoulder.

Wash, rinse, repeat.

I am making her WANT ME more and more so that any logical arguments in her brain are being surpassed for her desire for me THAT I CREATED in her.

 

[DJ Hawtness]

Originally posted by JT47319
You obviously haven't escalated enough.

For example, as a **** test, sometimes when I go in for a kiss, a girl will turn her head.

Obviously to an AFC and newbie, this deflates his self-confidence that she doesn't want him and give up. WRONG!

She wants me, she just isn't quite ready YET. The key is to escalate and slowly heat things up.

So in said example, oftentimes I will kiss the offered cheek. Then slowly kiss her jawline. Gently move down her neck and kiss it as well as the shoulder.

Wash, rinse, repeat.

I am making her WANT ME more and more so that any logical arguments in her brain are being surpassed for her desire for me THAT I CREATED in her.

You said that perfectly, props dawg. <3

Superchrist, just don't screw your chance because you'll be lucky to get another one. =/

DON'T be afraid to touch, or approach a girl.

Also, forget everything your mom told you not to do to girls when you were younger, when you like a girl she has to know and kino is probably the most effective technique.

 

[FunnyCide]

Passionately....Can't really describe it but that's how all of my Ex's have described my kissing to me so I that how I describe it. If you can think of a point in any movie where the main characters close in for that long awaited kiss. You'll probably notice that for the first second or two their mouth isn't even moving it more of an intense emotional connection for the two. I don't know if that makes anysense...but the passion is there...

I disagree with the people ahead I don't think you've messd anything up. It seems like your just wondering why you haven't been in make out sessions with these girls and that's probably because they're not conforable enough yet but obviously they will be. They're probably just "sampling the product" before they decide if they want to buy it.

I know you're not a teddy to be cuddled and pecked but you can't just jump in a start making out with a women that you've never even kissed. After all would you wouldn't sleep with a girl without warming her up, right? (Anyone who would doesn't know how to have sex.)

 

[englishman]

I had a girl like that last year...was all little pecks? didnt really do it for me, seemed more like affection than passion...maybe you just got 2 in a row?

 

[englishman]

Originally posted by FunnyCide
I know you're not a teddy to be cuddled and pecked but you can't just jump in a start making out with a women that you've never even kissed. After all would you wouldn't sleep with a girl without warming her up, right? (Anyone who would doesn't know how to have sex.)

what thaphuk does that mean? sounds like it was written by a chick...

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

You are forgetting 2 thingS, YOUR HANDS!

So you want to make those close mouth kisses more interesting? when you're kissing start using your hands like real DJ's do! move your hands up and down her back slowly, explore her curves, grab that butt of hers, massage it!

A real DJ doesn't just stand next to a girl and kiss, he is kissing while his hands are massaging, exploring the woman! this kino will make sure everytime you do a kissing session she is so turned on she is ready to explode!

 

[arq-dj1]

dude

the girls i kiss give all the tong i want.. they kill passionatly etc

but, when i go for the neck, chest bone ... they say "no no" or start giggleling (is this spelling right?) saying that tickles...

and i heated damn a lot.. so i dunno what to do

i guess they think that is too sexual

 

[duke007]

Of all the girls I've dated and kissed (not including random nightclub kisses), they always stick their tongue right from the start of our first kiss. I was starting to wonder whether this is a new trend these days. Some are old some are young....but they all love the tongue!

 

[flyinshark]

Originally posted by arq-dj1
dude

the girls i kiss give all the tong i want.. they kill passionatly etc

but, when i go for the neck, chest bone ... they say "no no" or start giggleling (is this spelling right?) saying that tickles...

and i heated damn a lot.. so i dunno what to do

i guess they think that is too sexual

"No no" while giggling doesn't really mean "NO". My guess is that they just wanna test you to see how PERSISTENT you are. If you smile back, but KEEP GOING, they should normally accept it and LOVE it From my experience, it turns them on if you do things that they gently refused at first.

I also believe that in ******** "tickling" actually means "exciting". They are just shy to tell you the truth.
Hope this helps.

 

[mtllcanpssy]

A tip i read somewhere (cant remember where, cause ive read a lot of stuff lol) is when you're kissing them, with your hands on their waist to like run your hands up the side of her body to about right where her boobs are (but dont touch em or anything! you might nudge them but o well) This will drive em her crazy, go ahead and try it and come back with her response or what happens later.

 

[superchristx]

I KNOW this is a really old thread and shouldnt be resurrected, but check it out. I got a new girl, she gives off a totally naughty punk-rock vibe but she kisses like virgin. I said something to the effect of "we need to work on the way you kiss" and she got really offended. She punched me in the gut (like I said, punkrock) and I threw her out....

anyway a few days later we're in a sexual relationship, and it's insane! She wants to be kissed like a virgin but pounded like an absolute wh0re, with my hand over her mouth or around her throat. To be honest its almost pathological.

But the advice in this thread is killer. Using my hands has helped so much, and just generally pushing the envelope to get to the next base. Push and push, and keep pushing until she tells you to stop or pushes you away or whatever. The poster who said she wasnt warmed up was correct as well, once we're well into the act she's sticking her tongue in my mouth like a mexican stripper.... anyway thanks all and I love this forum!

 

[Gold Heart]

To the original poster, I know exactly what you're speaking of, and I don't like it either.

Maybe these other posters don't understand what you're talking about, but I feel you.

And even when you DO get some tongue, it doesn't seem like they're into it.

You have to get her aroused, and VERY aroused. Use your hands, and if you do it right, you'll see that she'll start getting into it more. If you get her to the bed and you 2 are lost in the moment, then it's all good from there.

You just need to bring her to that level.

 

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