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[CheekyMonkey101]

Hi.

I'm not sure how many of you use Tinder, but over the last month since I re-joined it, girls seem to have become even more flakey than before. I know this is a very small sample, but this has happened to me four times in a row now, whereas before this pretty much never happened.

I realise that it's a number's game, it's something I've noticed more and more.

For context, I am 29 and live in London.

I was wondering if others here have noticed this as well.

 

[jnMissouri]

London? Girls there are so promiscuous, it'd be difficult NOT to get laid....I've been to London. They are very sexually liberated there.

 

[CheekyMonkey101]

London? Girls there are so promiscuous, it'd be difficult NOT to get laid....I've been to London. They are very sexually liberated there.

Yeah, particularly in nightclubs.

However, Tinder has a ratio of like 9:1 men to women.

 

[holidayad_]

Yep. Tinder is rigged here in Brazil too. Bumble works better for me.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Women don't take men on dating apps seriously in 2023 they are seen as a time kill and or a joke to mess around on when she is bored

A lot of profiles are carbon copy of one another and so are conversations

" I like the beach , hiking , walking '
" I like dogs"
" I like food"
" looking for my person"
" lets skip the small talk and meet for drinks"

These are all dating app cliche's , and a woman may play along for a bit depending on how bored she is or how much attention she wants

But then some guy will actually approach her in somewhere like the gym , make he pu$$y tingle and he will become her primary focus simply for just being a part of her reality

Its harder and more nerve wracking but you get about 100x the credit from a female just for talking to her in the real world

You don't even have to do that much , just talk to her like a normal person find out if she is single and if she is usually its a green light

I met a girl in a smoking area now she has become fvck buddy , I literally spoke to her for 5 mins

This Never would have happened on a swipe app

 

[Murk]

Try Bumble or better yet, Hinge (good in London).

I'm playing around on Badoo (staying undercover) and smashed 2 of society's rejects from there. I'm not really taking OLD seriously, maybe later in the year.

 

[CheekyMonkey101]

Women don't take men on dating apps seriously in 2023 they are seen as a time kill and or a joke to mess around on when she is bored

A lot of profiles are carbon copy of one another and so are conversations

" I like the beach , hiking , walking '
" I like dogs"
" I like food"
" looking for my person"
" lets skip the small talk and meet for drinks"

These are all dating app cliche's , and a woman may play along for a bit depending on how bored she is or how much attention she wants

But then some guy will actually approach her in somewhere like the gym , make he pu$$y tingle and he will become her primary focus simply for just being a part of her reality

Its harder and more nerve wracking but you get about 100x the credit from a female just for talking to her in the real world

You don't even have to do that much , just talk to her like a normal person find out if she is single and if she is usually its a green light

I met a girl in a smoking area now she has become fvck buddy , I literally spoke to her for 5 mins

This Never would have happened on a swipe app

Maybe I should start approaching irl.

Apart from the other week I've focused solely on online dating.

Maybe it's good to try different methods and diversify.

 

[CheekyMonkey101]

Try Bumble or better yet, Hinge (good in London).

I'm playing around on Badoo (staying undercover) and smashed 2 of society's rejects from there. I'm not really taking OLD seriously, maybe later in the year.

I liked Bumble. Got some attractive women from there.

Hinge was a bit hit and miss. I got a lot of matches but many of the girls seemed very delusional.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

London? Girls there are so promiscuous, it'd be difficult NOT to get laid....I've been to London.

.....with an *American* accent, no less.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Maybe I should start approaching irl.

Apart from the other week I've focused solely on online dating.

Maybe it's good to try different methods and diversify.

online is the easy option

Anything that is easy generally isn't that good for you in the long run

Takeaway food is easy , but eat a lot of it and your going to end up overweight and depressed

Same with the swipe apps , easy to make a profile but depressing when absolutely nothing comes of it and your effectively like a dog running around chasing its own tail

100x harder but You will get a much higher calibre of woman in the real world

 

[CheekyMonkey101]

online is the easy option

Anything that is easy generally isn't that good for you in the long run

Takeaway food is easy , but eat a lot of it and your going to end up overweight and depressed

Same with the swipe apps , easy to make a profile but depressing when absolutely nothing comes of it and your effectively like a dog running around chasing its own tail

100x harder but You will get a much higher calibre of woman in the real world

I get good results on online dating, so I guess that that should give me confidence approaching irl.

I'm just a bit out of practice. I don't even look at women on the street or gym anymore.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I get good results on online dating, so I guess that that should give me confidence approaching irl.

I'm just a bit out of practice. I don't even look at women on the street or gym anymore.

Online results cannot be correlated with IRL

there's an entire world of difference

The main one being certain types of ( men and women) are very good at curating glossed up dating profiles that will use all the buzz words ,key points and photos the opposite sex wants to see & hear simply because they have as much time as they like to build these profiles


In the real world you get taken at face value as there's no way for you not to be you have to think on your feet and act immediately

Cold approaching for me is kind of exhilarating , I never really know how its going to go and some of them have been comically horrendous but afterwards I always give myself a pat on the back just for putting my balls on the line

 

[CheekyMonkey101]

Online results cannot be correlated with IRL

there's an entire world of difference

The main one being certain types of ( men and women) are very good at curating glossed up dating profiles that will use all the buzz words ,key points and photos the opposite sex wants to see & hear simply because they have as much time as they like to build these profiles


In the real world you get taken at face value as there's no way for you not to be you have to think on your feet and act immediately

Cold approaching for me is kind of exhilarating , I never really know how its going to go and some of them have been comically horrendous but afterwards I always give myself a pat on the back just for putting my balls on the line

If you get a lot of good results on online dating as a man, then this can certainly be replicated irl if done correctly (considering that you are actually honest about how you look and about everything else in your profile).

 

[Jason Chang]

Try Bumble or better yet, Hinge (good in London).

I'm playing around on Badoo (staying undercover) and smashed 2 of society's rejects from there. I'm not really taking OLD seriously, maybe later in the year.

all of you can try another dating apps also example like OMI, coffee meets Bagel (CMB), sugarbook,sweetring.

 

[corrector]

I met a girl in a smoking area now she has become fvck buddy , I literally spoke to her for 5 mins

Is she hot?

 

[Bingo-Player]

Is she hot?

Yeh solid 7 , I can't complain