Met a girl from Tinder for the first time today after chatting for a week and we ate at the mall and walked to the park and sat down, she was trying to get me to ride a bicycle and i was jus thinking im gonna pull back to my place, so i just said Lets go and I just LEAD back to my place and by the time she asked me "where are we going" I pointed and said "this is my condo over here, let me charge my phone real quick" so we came inside she started asking me questions about random things, we sat on the couch and put Superman vs Batman on Netflix. I put my arm around her, I'm massaging her shoulder, I throw her feet over my legs, everything seems to be going good. While we were talking about random stuff, I made her laugh then I just went in for the kiss.... and denied! she turned her face. I didnt mention it I just put my attention back to the TV and thought ok act like nothing happened. I started massaging her hands and she kept saying "it feels so good" and this time I looked her in the eyes and waited and SLOWLY moved my face to hers and shes like "what are you doing??" and as I went in for the kiss again she moved away. but everytime I held her leg or put my arm around her, it was ok so I'm not sure why she didn't want to do anything else. When I tried to kiss her on my last attempt she said "no kissing! only kiss if you are my boyfriend."
so then I was thinking do I just tell her things that she wants to hear? since she said shes looking for a boyfriend, do I say I am looking for a girlfriend too? She kept telling me she doesn't want a guy who talks to many girls, so do I agree and say "Yeah I don't talk to many girls, you're the only girl im seeing" to see if it drops her guard? She starts talking to me about her past and said first she wants to make sure im not a playboy, i told her we can be together but only if we learn more about each other first since its the 1st date. i put her legs on my legs and started rubbing her legs but everytime i tried to make a move to kiss her she would stop me and i didnt want to feel like i was forcing her to do anything so then she told me "let's shake on it instead" dafuq. Should I have just carried her to my bed? Or just accept some girls just won't **** you even though she comes to your place. At least I tried to make the moves. Girls decide if she's gonna **** or not before she even comes over maybe she just didn't want to do it on the first meet.
So where do you go from here? What should I do next and what could I have done to make things more favorable or have lead to sex or I would still have no chance if she rejects my kiss?
so then I was thinking do I just tell her things that she wants to hear? since she said shes looking for a boyfriend, do I say I am looking for a girlfriend too? She kept telling me she doesn't want a guy who talks to many girls, so do I agree and say "Yeah I don't talk to many girls, you're the only girl im seeing" to see if it drops her guard? She starts talking to me about her past and said first she wants to make sure im not a playboy, i told her we can be together but only if we learn more about each other first since its the 1st date. i put her legs on my legs and started rubbing her legs but everytime i tried to make a move to kiss her she would stop me and i didnt want to feel like i was forcing her to do anything so then she told me "let's shake on it instead" dafuq. Should I have just carried her to my bed? Or just accept some girls just won't **** you even though she comes to your place. At least I tried to make the moves. Girls decide if she's gonna **** or not before she even comes over maybe she just didn't want to do it on the first meet.
So where do you go from here? What should I do next and what could I have done to make things more favorable or have lead to sex or I would still have no chance if she rejects my kiss?
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