Time to put women on the back burner

legolas

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Hello fellow don juaners,

I've been in this forum for quite some time now, even before my registration date says I used a different name(*), and have learned so much from this forum that I want to thank all of you for contributing.

Now this is not a goodbye note, in case you were thinking that, but I realized today that time has come for me to find a passion in my life and get a direction so that my whole life is perfectly aligned. Ever since the beginning of this year, I've noticed changes in my personality and the way I relate to people. My job in retail/sales helps me a lot in that area. Also with women I've noticed major improvements, and things are going well now. But my financial life is stuck in first gear and however much my parents and friends encourage me to find something better to do (ie. get a better paying job) I'm still stuck where I am.

The thing is that I'm out of college now, I've graduated and with the crappy job market it's hard to find a decent job. But I know that this is an excuse for the lazy person who has no desire to ask for more. So today, after a watching a bit of Suze Orman, I've decided to focus on my life's direction and passions. I haven't fully discovered what I want to do, but I have a pretty good idea. For one thing I know that I don't want to work for the rest of my life and then depend on the goverment to provide for me when my working days are over. I want to be financially independent. I want to do what I love doing and make good money at it. I want to retire rich!!!! (yes I am reading Kiyosaki, how did you know? :D)

So here's my pledge: I'm going to leave the "women" part of my life where it is right now, since I've found it takes a lot of time and energy to find a good gf and focking around just for fun is not my kind of thing to do. It iw well where it is right now, and I"d rather not waste my days thinking about it. It is time for me to focus my efforts to bringing my finacnial life up to par. Find out what I want to do, go out there and test my ideas, refine and test again. Until I get things going there, I will stay away from this forum, which has become my drug of choice these days, except for this thread which I'll subscribe to and watch for replies. I hope to post some good news in a few months. Until then I will see you!!

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(*) legolas was once known as PrinceCharming
 

Eric Smith

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You will back to getting women.

Last month I posted a message saying that for my first year, I am going to concentrate on my studies, get cut and buff, and analyze the DJ Bible so Summer 2004 can be 100x better than Summer 2003. People here said I would end up pursuing women. At first I denied that I would ever do that. Well, look at me now. I also said I wouldn't come back until October and here we are.

Sometimes I feel that putting the ladies on the back burner is a good idea and then by the end of the day, I am always reminded of why I should not put them on the 'burner.

Its up to you.

Best of luck to you.
 

bugsquish

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Good luck dude! With this kinda attitude you might just find women chase you instead :)
 

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Exactly! The second you say women go on the backburner and you focus on other important goals with a passion the women start beating your door down lol :D
 

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legolas

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Originally posted by Lone_raider
Exactly! The second you say women go on the backburner and you focus on other important goals with a passion the women start beating your door down lol :D
LOL :D

Well that's not why I'm doing it, but if that's the side effect, then I'll be even happier!!
 
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