Throw me some help

[Womanless]

I need a start on this Please. I met a woman who I was attracted to and I got the idea she MAY of also felt the same about me. She worked in the same office as I do. Once I started trying to talk to her she quit. I felt I lost my chance with her and moved on. Now just yesterday I was thinking on how I wish I did more or tried harder and was thinking about how I wished she still worked in my office. Then all of a sudden today she comes walking in!!!!!! I asked her what she was doing and she said she was trying to get her job back. Which she did!! Maybe this is a sign for me.

Now I have actually been reading here for about 2 years and either I am stupid or something because I am kind of lost. I knew another woman who I tried to get with and it turned out BAD. It's at the point where she wants nothing to do with me. She DID have high interest level in me and I just destroyed that!

I know it's bad about dating in the work place. I careless what happens because this is as dead end of a job a job can be. What I want it somebody to give me a idea on what to do to get somewhere with her. I of course plan on talking to her more and I want to get to build some rapport before I ask her out. What should I do and what can I do to raise her interest level provided she has any. Thanks guys/girls

 

[Walden]

Read the f***ing bible and stop askling naff f***ing questions.

 

[flexion_]

A DJ strives to make himself better. Listen - why are you in a dead end job? Staying in a dead end job is the same thing as not make a move on a woman. Both require you do go outside your comfort zone. You see my point?

You have been reading here for 2 years? You should be able to spit out the bible on demand by now - yet you don't seem to have any grasp of it.

If you can't decide what you want in life for yourself you are going to remain with your current Username until you do. Honestly you have no hope getting this woman in your current state of mind.

You first need to make your life happy, work on improving yourself and make decisions in terms of what you want in life and then woman will come - there is no "how do I make this women like me" book.

 

[Unbridled_1]

It sounds like she quit the first time because you wouldn't leave her alone, perhaps you should

 

[thefonz]

It sounds like she quit the first time because you wouldn't leave her alone, perhaps you should

Ya, and then try it on us

 

[Alpine]

You're not stupid, you are scared.

You actually know what to do, things have probably got to get worse before you'll decide to do something about it.

You really sound like a right loser. I bet you feel like one too. Sh1ty job, women don't like you, and you know what, things will probably just get worse. They never get better.

Well I say that, but maybe there is something you can do.

You see in life everything tends to crap. Everything decays and diminishes if not acted upon. Cars break down if not serviced, houses get wood rot if you don't paint them now and again.

And people GET NOWHERE unles they take positive action. That's what's happening to you. You are dying and one day you will be dead, when you could have lived. How does that make you feel?

The best thing that can happen to you, is that you are so fed up, so unhappy, so thoroughly p1ssed off with life that you realise you only have two options. I surely hope you take the second one and that is to take the bull by the horns and decide to start taking positive action.

You don't need advice on any one particular woman scenerio, forget her, grab your balls, go out and say hello to 50 strangers tomorrow.

There, you've made a start, wasn't that bad was it.

Now start living.