So I called up an ex from way back the other day. I dated her when she was 18 (now 25). I was her second partner.
Every couple of years we get in touch and hang out. Haven't gotten any from her since right after we dated, but did manage a make out session one of those years since.
The last time we hung out was a couple of years ago just as I started hooking up with my bisexual roomie (FEMALE, BTW). We went to a bar (just her and I) and somehow sex came up. This was the first time I can remember discussing sex with her, and to my surprise she was totally into it! She's normally pretty reserved.
So we're talking about my bisexual roommate (who I was fukking at the time), and I tell her I have to ask her a question. I don't remember what the question was but turns out she thought I was gonna ask if she would like to join us for some action. Since that wasn't my question, I never did get an answer, but lets just say she perked RIGHT up for the moment she thought I was gonna propose that she join us.
Anyways, that night she told me about the one threesome she had with the guy she dated after me (which I already knew about). I asked her if she enjoyed it blah, blah, blah and she basically admitted to being at least bi-curious. If my roomie would have been game (I asked, she said she only goes one on one) I WOULD have asked her to join us.
So....here's the deal. She told me the other night that she parties often in her new house with her two roomies and she wanted to introduce me to one of them.
This is the kind of girl that I could walk up to, look her in the eye, and ask her point blank if she would be up for it. My gut feeling says she will say yes, but worst case I'll get a nonchalant no. It's not like it will ruin our friendship.
Anyone been in this boat before? I can't help but think if I don't make it happen now I may lose the window of opportunity. And that would suck.
Every couple of years we get in touch and hang out. Haven't gotten any from her since right after we dated, but did manage a make out session one of those years since.
The last time we hung out was a couple of years ago just as I started hooking up with my bisexual roomie (FEMALE, BTW). We went to a bar (just her and I) and somehow sex came up. This was the first time I can remember discussing sex with her, and to my surprise she was totally into it! She's normally pretty reserved.
So we're talking about my bisexual roommate (who I was fukking at the time), and I tell her I have to ask her a question. I don't remember what the question was but turns out she thought I was gonna ask if she would like to join us for some action. Since that wasn't my question, I never did get an answer, but lets just say she perked RIGHT up for the moment she thought I was gonna propose that she join us.
Anyways, that night she told me about the one threesome she had with the guy she dated after me (which I already knew about). I asked her if she enjoyed it blah, blah, blah and she basically admitted to being at least bi-curious. If my roomie would have been game (I asked, she said she only goes one on one) I WOULD have asked her to join us.
So....here's the deal. She told me the other night that she parties often in her new house with her two roomies and she wanted to introduce me to one of them.
This is the kind of girl that I could walk up to, look her in the eye, and ask her point blank if she would be up for it. My gut feeling says she will say yes, but worst case I'll get a nonchalant no. It's not like it will ruin our friendship.
Anyone been in this boat before? I can't help but think if I don't make it happen now I may lose the window of opportunity. And that would suck.