This Young College Girl

[PimpOfTheSouth]

Me and her started talkin back and forth about two weeks ago. She invited me to a party so I went and chilled for a bit there but left early. Also im usually the first one to contact this girl which is a bit unusual because usually girls will text or call me first.

The next week which is present time.
I asked her if she wanted to go to lunch which she excepted but my car wouldnt start so I called it off. She asked If I was going to school and I told her probably not, thats when she offered to come and pick me up and take me to school. So she ended up taking me and bringing me back home later.

Im getting some mixed signals from this girl, one reason is that her ex- cheated on her but she still goes to see him even though he stayed with the girl that he cheated on her with. This girl has interest in me but im confused at this point on what my next move should be.

 

[Big Poppa]

Be warned mi amigo. I may not be a pimp but I know when a girl isn't ready to "move on"

If she's still clinging to her ex like a useless ragdoll then that means most of her sexual and emotional attention won't be focused on you. Does that mean you won't be able to get some? No, but it does throw your chances of "being" with her off a very high cliff with no bottom.

 

[Allurre]

Big Poppa's right.

The girl is still somewhat attached to her ex, who I believe is begging her for forgiveness, and she's got a soft hard therefore succumbing to his will.

 

[PimpOfTheSouth]

Yeah I agree with both of yall it sounds about right. This girl is definitley interested but it seems she still aint over her ex. Ill just move on slowly with the process.

 

[PimpOfTheSouth]

Me and this girl have now talked on the phone a bit and also have briefly texted more than a couple of times. It seems I got her about right where I want her but im a little confused on what to do next. The reason why im confused is because during the summer I lost a Hottie by being a little passive. Any thoughts??

 

[Emma]

She may still be hopeful that the jerk who cheated on her is just having a fling and not shutting her out completely. Keep seeing her if you like her, and be honest with her and yourself if you find you develop feelings for her. Who knows; she might just see the light and realize you're better for her than he is.

 

[cola]

Me and her started talkin back and forth about two weeks ago. She invited me to a party so I went and chilled for a bit there but left early. Also im usually the first one to contact this girl which is a bit unusual because usually girls will text or call me first.

The next week which is present time.
I asked her if she wanted to go to lunch which she excepted but my car wouldnt start so I called it off. She asked If I was going to school and I told her probably not, thats when she offered to come and pick me up and take me to school. So she ended up taking me and bringing me back home later.

Im getting some mixed signals from this girl, one reason is that her ex- cheated on her but she still goes to see him even though he stayed with the girl that he cheated on her with. This girl has interest in me but im confused at this point on what my next move should be.

Pretend like you give a fvck, escalate and isolate. If she says no, or shes not ready say NEXT, and let her find some dweeb to be her emotional tampon.

 

[PimpOfTheSouth]

Alright sounds like a plan. Thanks everybody for the good advice.

 

[Nutz]

Pretend like you give a fvck, escalate and isolate. If she says no, or shes not ready say NEXT, and let her find some dweeb to be her emotional tampon.

Yup, you should not be affected by what's going on between her and the ex. You do your thing and if she's not ready then "let the ho say no" and move on. Don't stick around with her waffling and not sure what she wants. I know what she wants.... she wants to have her cake and eat it too. They're all the same that way.

 

[PimpOfTheSouth]

What I find most confusing is the fact that she never initiates contact with me through Texting or on the phone. She initiates though a lot in person.