This site only for white people?

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I was thinking most of the advice posted in this site is referred to be used among white people, if im not mistaking.

Do this site work for black people, and how many black people are in this site other than me?
 

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How could advice for dating be for a specific race? Culture, maybe. Race, impossible; races do not court based on race.:rolleyes:
 

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The only 2 sites I know of specifically promoting themselves as being primarily for blacks are:

www.pimphop.com - this board seems to promote the "PIMP PLAYA" style of seduction, taking a disproportionate amount of pride solely determined by the color of a person's skin. However, since I'm Caucasian, I can't tell if the advice they give would be of any use... determine this for yourself. However, I'll post here an excerpt of the first thread I came across from there, entitled "SUP ALL U REAL PIMPS!! PLA help me with skool NOTES!!", in the hopes that it might help:

HEY<< if u like a girl in your class< and she sits Right next to you<< and u gotta be quite in class, the only way to start convo, is on NOTes to send each other<< SO please all u pimps n pimpets, WHAts the 1st thing i should write on the NOte to send to her<< to start a convo<< PLEase tell ME!! Write me asap!! PLease tell me exact sentences LIke what to write down<< BE smoothe about it<< AND if a giel send u a note 1st saying, "whats yur name" what should i write back to her, to keep it smoothe<<!!!! AND THANKs NAppY PIMP< he truly is a PIMPP< keep it up, please help me out with this 1


www.becomeaplayer.com (Some useful advice, but for the most part I'm not impressed with anything they have to offer - most seems a marketing plug for different colognes and 'aphrodisiacs' - going so far as to say that aphrodisiacs are essential if you want to "seduce and attract women", and that if you wear them "women subconsciously detect this product and they are instantly attracted to you!" :rolleyes:
 

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diablo,
That first site wouldn't appeal to the more mature brothers.
That second site, like you said, is too commercial.

I don't think there needs to be any change in technique when it comes to DJing based on what race you are. I will say that the less one rely's on pop-culture (movies, tv shows, music, ect) much of which is racially biased to begin with, then the more likely one is to be successful at DJing women of different races. Assuming that this is the goal to begin with.
 

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There used to be some threads for Af-Am DJs on this board. Try doing the search. But the principles are universal. Even though we (Blacks) have a more extroverted and direct culture, the general principles of confidence, approach, emotional control are still the same.

From a biological standpoint, there's no such thing as race.
 

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Substitute her name with "b1tch" when you talk to a girl, and you should be alright.



Oh man, gotta love stereotypes.
 

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Originally posted by Levex
Substitute her name with "b1tch" when you talk to a girl, and you should be alright.



Oh man, gotta love stereotypes.
that only works on TV. sisters like the guys that are cool, but not out and out abusive.
 

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doesnt matter

im black and it works....the whole thing is just mainly about confidence, actually going out and doing something. i can tell your whole approach is wrong. your worried about wether or not the information is tailored to white or black people...have you tried it?
 

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I know i know, was just joking.


But seriously, there are no major differences. Girl is a girl whichever color she is.
 

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Originally posted by MackJr
There used to be some threads for Af-Am DJs on this board. Try doing the search.
The mods always close them though...One thread didnt even have flaming in it and a mod closed it...Aint that some sh1t?
 

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Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
The mods always close them though...One thread didnt even have flaming in it and a mod closed it...Aint that some sh1t?
No, what's 'sh1t' is when those threads get out of hand, which virtually all of them do. For some reason, people don't seem to have the ability to take an innocent topic that asks a legitimate question which just happens to involve race and not pervert it into a bitterly racist diatribe. Perhaps if people could learn to control themselves, then problems such as these wouldn't have to be nipped in the bud. As is, by your own statement you said "one thread didn't have flaming in it". One out of how many? There's a precedent with racial threads, and that's that they soon get out of hand. If you want to discuss racial or racist issues, please do a google search and find a different board on which to do so.
 

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I'm black maybe we should start official black dj thread or website but the last one mods closed for some stupid reason
 

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Originally posted by DA KID
I'm black maybe we should start official black dj thread or website but the last one mods closed for some stupid reason
Gee. I wonder why... Oh, wait! I just wrote an entire paragraph explaining it! :rolleyes:

Read the reply directly above yours.
 

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Originally posted by diablo
No, what's 'sh1t' is when those threads get out of hand, which virtually all of them do.
Nah....There were a couple that had no flaming in them, and the discussion was good cause people were asking questions and they were getting answered, and then they got closed...All well, aint nothing....
 

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I see a lot of threads about 'pimpin ma wheels' and bling bling snoopdoggyidiot v (insert some black boxers name) in da hud.

So I assume there are quite a lot of black guys on here but I haven't got a clue what they are saying.:rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by bfl
I was thinking most of the advice posted in this site is referred to be used among white people, if im not mistaking.

Do this site work for black people, and how many black people are in this site other than me?
What have you tried that didn't work?
 

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I'm black and can tell you that the stuff on this site works with all females. I've found though (like most people probably have) this **** works ALOT better when a chick is already feelin you... and for me, DJ'ing a black girl is easier for me becuase they like me more. Some white girls don't really go for the bruthas so theres not much you can do in terms of DJ'ing... but i've seen a drastic difference when using the stuff on this site with a sista and with a white chick.
 

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they're all pink on the inside
 

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Originally posted by thefonz
they're all pink on the inside
lol true

basicly almost everytime that i remember to use this techniques on sistas it has turned out to work out good, the thing is that when i go out and approach a female this site and tips and techniques posted in this site for some reason are like erased from my mind and i end up just "doing me" (translation : saying watever i want that makes me think that its good to say and that will get me to get the female. no offense on the translation)
and like in my thread, sucess sucess sucess, it worked out better than i could ever imagine.

But i was just curious, although the few times ive remembered to used this techniques they have worked most of the time.
 
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