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[frivolousz21]

just reading in the mature mans forum a thread on women wanting sex more then men..and nearly half the posters believe it to be true.


but its not true..its not even remotely true.

Ive never had a female friend ever tell me..she didnt date a guy or love him because of sex...and if she ever says well the sex wasnt good.she isnt attached or attracted to him much in the first place.


but this is another SS myth that floats around.

dont buy into this..please dont...



women need attention and love from you

you need the same plus sex from her


ive dated many women and slept with more then 20..and they didnt FYCK me because im brad pitt..they did it because I gave them a feeling of attractiveness with my personality and game.


dont get swept up believing its all about sex..its not.

 

[00Kevin]

I would agree with you but I think that it is also a myth that men "Need" sex.

The truth is we really don't need it like popular culture suggests.

Why do I say this?

If you buy into the notion that men need sex then women can hold that over you and make you do anything for it. Women today are told that sex is their weapon.

I once had a woman try to convince me that I should cook for her and the reward would be something sexual. I got rid of her fast for trying to who-re herself.

As a man why should I have to pay for sex from a girl I'm dating?

Modern culture also wrongly suggests that men don't need love from a woman. It suggests that men only want sex. these notions should be rebuked.

The fact is men need to feel loved by women just as much as they need to feel loved by a man.

It is not un-masculine to have a need to be loved. It is in fact part of human nature.

 

[frivolousz21]

I would agree with you but I think that it is also a myth that men "Need" sex.

lol, I dunno man..I really really love sex

but I could sacrafice..id go a yr without it the St. Louis Blues won the Stanley cup

he fact is men need to feel loved by women just as much as they need to feel loved by a man.

It is not un-masculine to have a need to be loved. It is in fact part of human nature.

Yes, 100 percent true...

everysince Ive had my current 8 month LTR..and her love and support for me..its made my life better much better period.

it was great on its own..but nothing compared to having her there.

I dont feel any less masculine because of it..but im sure a kbj wacking his monkey might tell me I am.

 

[Scrumtulescence]

That is an overgeneralization about women. Some women don't even like sex. Others have a sex drive that rivals most men's. It depends on the woman.

It isn't true, though, that women don't keep guys around if they're good in bed. At least in more casual relationships.

 

[Nighthawk]

A woman with a healthy sex drive is not a hoe.

Society teaches us men want sex more than women, and of course it suits women to keep up this pretence as it hands them power.

And many women who have never been f*cked properly are unaware of how hungry they really are in this area. But like I said here

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=94526

once they have tasted the real thing they behave like addicts awaiting their next fix. And if you have more than one woman hooked on your supply you can satisfy your sex drive easily and leave them all begging for more. Literally.

As for which sex actually has a higher sex drive, I don't know. Men would walk over broken glass for sex, most women wouldn't. But then women can usually get f*cked whenever they want. The important thing is to never let the woman think she is doing you a favour by sleeping with you. It should be a dream come true for her that she gets to be nailed by you.

It is up to you to frame your relationship from this foundation, verbally and physically. Sex IS that important, if you don't want to believe that, go ahead and risk losing your woman to a man that understands.

 

[Egoist]

you are way off on this one friv.

you are separating women into the categories, when in reality, every woman is a combination of all.


go read my reply in that thread then get back to me.

 

[Egoist]

Originally posted by Nighthawk
A woman with a healthy sex drive is not a hoe.

Society teaches us men want sex more than women, and of course it suits women to keep up this pretence as it hands them power.

And many women who have never been f*cked properly are unaware of how hungry they really are in this area. But like I said here

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=94526

once they have tasted the real thing they behave like addicts awaiting their next fix. And if you have more than one woman hooked on your supply you can satisfy your sex drive easily and leave them all begging for more. Literally.

As for which sex actually has a higher sex drive, I don't know. Men would walk over broken glass for sex, most women wouldn't. But then women can usually get f*cked whenever they want. The important thing is to never let the woman think she is doing you a favour by sleeping with you. It should be a dream come true for her that she gets to be nailed by you.

It is up to you to frame your relationship from this foundation, verbally and physically. Sex IS that important, if you don't want to believe that, go ahead and risk losing your woman to a man that understands.

yup.

the next step is to understand the sacred nature of sex in a relationship and you are almost there.

 

[Nighthawk]

Sacred? Is that when you do it in a church?

 

[L777]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
just reading in the mature mans forum a thread on women wanting sex more then men..and nearly half the posters believe it to be true.


but its not true..its not even remotely true.


but this is another SS myth that floats around.

dont buy into this..please dont...



women need attention and love from you




ive dated many women and slept with more then 20..and they didnt FYCK me because im brad pitt..they did it because I gave them a feeling of attractiveness with my personality and game.


dont get swept up believing its all about sex..its not.

lol....ok

 

[frivolousz21]

stop trying to justify your girlfriends low sex drive.

how do u know that? seriously where did u get that information from? did I call you and talk to you about my personal life?

I dont remember that.

there are plenty of women who are not slutty yet want to have much more sex than an average male.

the average man has 17 to 32x more testosteron then women....which is the dominate sex hormone in human beings.

she must be a freak of nature.

anyway, your post screams "INSECURE". Just being honest.

and you attack me evertime you get a chance, youve done it much worse in the past...

so what more insecure my opnion on this or some guy randomly attacking people on the internet???

 

[Egoist]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
how do u know that? seriously where did u get that information from? did I call you and talk to you about my personal life?

I dont remember that.




the average man has 17 to 32x more testosteron then women....which is the dominate sex hormone in human beings.

she must be a freak of nature.



and you attack me evertime you get a chance, youve done it much worse in the past...

so what more insecure my opnion on this or some guy randomly attacking people on the internet???

funny enough i don't have a problem with you, dude. when you've said good stuff, i always agreed, but crap like this i just laugh at.

by the way, your assessment of role of testosterone in female sex drive is way way way off. you are basically citing factpinions. Like i said in my other reply, anyone who classifies women with high sex drive as sluts or freaks is inexperienced at best, or stupid, insecure, whatever you want to say.

 

[Egoist]

Originally posted by Nighthawk
Sacred? Is that when you do it in a church?

yes!

:crackup:

seriously though its more along the lines of tantric sex. problem is, you can't really practice it with someone that you don't love.

 

[frivolousz21]

by the way, your assessment of role of testosterone in female sex drive is way way way off

listen I know that etrogen and pestrongene are the main female sex hormones.

and they still dont combine to bring the effect of Testosterone alone in males..

why do u think they call it ROID Rage.


by hey if im wrong..then I have great natural game....or im just a sexual beast in the eyes of women

 

[Nighthawk]

Tantric? Is that when you do it, er...

Of course tender loving sex is great too - I usually alternate between both to keep 'em guessing.

I never meant to suggest f*cking should be mechanical or routine. It is best when it's a transcendent meeting of mind, body and soul.

And a duck.

 

[BrotherAP]

To suggest that women don't feel a need for a sexual intimacy from a man they love is to ignore the mounds of evidence in this world that suggests exactly the opposite. I seriously challenge you to mantain a LTR with a woman while denying her sex, and this does not include giving her some religious reason about wanting to wait until marriage. I mean, simply act uninterested in it. Say nothing of sex to her, and make no move to turn her on or respond to her advances. See how satisfied she is then, and how long she'll stick around.

And, for the record, I've never met a woman who genuinely didn't like sex who wasn't raped or abused earlier in life, or suffer from some sort of hormone imbalance or disease. In other words, sane, normal and healthy women also have a normal and healthy sex drive. We are sexual beings by nature, it's the reason we're here (not the purpose, but the cause mind you) so to suggest women need sex any less than men is ridiculous. The nature of our urges my differ slightly, and the conditions of us enjoying it may as well, but we all want sex one way or another.

 

[frivolousz21]

To suggest that women don't feel a need for a sexual intimacy from a man they love is to ignore the mounds of evidence in this world that suggests exactly the opposite. I seriously challenge you to mantain a LTR with a woman while denying her sex, and this does not include giving her some religious reason about wanting to wait until marriage. I mean, simply act uninterested in it. Say nothing of sex to her, and make no move to turn her on or respond to her advances. See how satisfied she is then, and how long she'll stick around.

Listen, I have sex with my fiance, everynight ive seen her since day 1 of sex with us...except maybe 3 or 4 times when she was going threw her bad morning sickness.

im not saying the sex doesnt matter.

I use sexual touches, tone, jokes..when i seduce a women.

8 months into this LTR...2 yrs into it, 5 yrs into it...I GUARENTEE YOU..it would bother a male to go longer without sex then a women.

try going 3 days without sex after u did it everyday for months...I bet she can deal with it..but you will be waxing ur pole like a mad man.

or maybe im just sickly horny.

 

[DJ_in_making]

Friv I agree with you 100%!

But some people are willing to accept ANY theory they read.

Guys are so willing to buy into this fantasy, and I think it's because they WANT to believe it.

Hell, I want to believe it myself but it's simply not true, but hey you can't change people's way of thinking no matter how much of an argument you can bring up.

 

[Scrumtulescence]

I guess all the women who openly admit they love and need sex, all the girls who get horny as hell, are freaks, and a vast minority.

 

[DJ_in_making]

Originally posted by Scrumtulescence
I guess all the women who openly admit they love and need sex, all the girls who get horny as hell, are freaks, and a vast minority.

was that to me?

Women have sex to feel "beautiful" to them fvcking them tells them they're hot!.
I don't know why I'm trying this but here goes....

Let's all think logically for a second, imagine a putting these items on a scale if you will.

1. Men have billions of sperm (infinite)
2. Women have a select amount of eggs. So Biologically, who would be more horny?

-95% of men masturbate
-60% of women masturbate.

-Men think about sex far more often then women
that disproves everyone's point about them wanting it more, but are too afraid to show everyone.

-Notice how major industries such as dating services/ porno movies/ are all directed toward men. If women were so unbelievably horny, wouldn't these commercials be directed toward them?

Ok. I'm done w/ this thread, if no ones open minded there's no point in a discussion.

 

[frivolousz21]

DJ_in_making---

not to mention Testosterone is much more powerful and potent then estrogen and pestrogene.



I think saying women are just as horny as men could be a way for guys to justify getting cheated on..or not being able to find a good women.



women dress up and go out to impress other girls..and steal mens attention

YES ATTENTION.

you go out to clubs so you can meet women to get LAID.


women enjoy sex as much as you do

women do not want sex as much as you do