I have been dating this girl since april. Shes told me some pretty serious/personal stuff about herself because she says she trusts me a lot. About a month ago, our relationship became very sexual. Since then, everytime we see each other we always exchange oral sex. No matter what we do together, we always wind up getting each other off, whether its in the woods, or in the car, or in my room. She says I do a really good job of making her orgasm etc. However, I feel that our relationship has gone from one extreme to the next - from a very innocent teenage relationship to a very intense relationship involving lots of oral sex. I like getting head and making her come of course, but I feel like we've lost something meaningful between each other since we've gotten sexual, something I can't put a finger on (no pun intended). Is this normal?
Also, two saturdays ago she told me "I think I am starting to fall in love with you." I don't know what that's supposed to mean, but I did not get all excited about it. I just said, "Really..." and continued kissing her. That day we had agreed to do something for the fourth of july. She said that when she got back from work on Thursday night that she'd "probably wind up calling me" to make plans. Well, thursday night at 10:00 she still hadn't called so I decided to call her up. When I mentioned the fourth of july she was like "Oh yeah, thats tomorrow" - almost as if she forgot. She said she knew a nice secluded spot where we could watch them together, so we said we'd hang out there for the evening. Do you guys think she was playing dumb on purpose about forgetting? Then she called me back 10 minutes later and said that she couldn't go with me becuase her parents were making her go with them and her family to see the fireworks in town. So I just said "OK, and good bye" to her, then I called her on saturday and we made a date for Sunday evening. All we did then too was make out and exchange oral.
Ever since school let out, we see each other only about one time a week. I am worried that if I don't keep our relationship fresh (new date ideas etc.) that its going to become boring and end. What do you guys think about this whole synopsis I've given? The way shes acting is confusing me. I am not quite sure how to understand it all and know if I am acting correctly/doing the things a DJ should be doing. Thanks in advance for your responses.
Also, two saturdays ago she told me "I think I am starting to fall in love with you." I don't know what that's supposed to mean, but I did not get all excited about it. I just said, "Really..." and continued kissing her. That day we had agreed to do something for the fourth of july. She said that when she got back from work on Thursday night that she'd "probably wind up calling me" to make plans. Well, thursday night at 10:00 she still hadn't called so I decided to call her up. When I mentioned the fourth of july she was like "Oh yeah, thats tomorrow" - almost as if she forgot. She said she knew a nice secluded spot where we could watch them together, so we said we'd hang out there for the evening. Do you guys think she was playing dumb on purpose about forgetting? Then she called me back 10 minutes later and said that she couldn't go with me becuase her parents were making her go with them and her family to see the fireworks in town. So I just said "OK, and good bye" to her, then I called her on saturday and we made a date for Sunday evening. All we did then too was make out and exchange oral.
Ever since school let out, we see each other only about one time a week. I am worried that if I don't keep our relationship fresh (new date ideas etc.) that its going to become boring and end. What do you guys think about this whole synopsis I've given? The way shes acting is confusing me. I am not quite sure how to understand it all and know if I am acting correctly/doing the things a DJ should be doing. Thanks in advance for your responses.
