This might sound AFC...

zen511

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This might sound very afc but it is my only flaw at being a dj from what I have encounted in the past 12 months since moving down the dj path.... I am terrible at getting myself to go for a first kiss with girls, I constantly tell myself that the moment isnt right or miss the signs that they are showing me... Now dont get me eventually when it does occur, I then soon after have their panties off within a heartbeat and have no fear whatsoever or inhibitions with them after that moment... Now my major problem is getting over that one hurdle...

Any suggestions on how to go about making that one move.... ways to go about it, how to properly set the move, gestures to make or do, or any other technique that works....
 

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Can you get her hand in yours? I find pulling a girl towards me very subtly is usually enough to show my intentions. If they don't come closer then you know the time is wrong and you didn't lose face over it.
 

MR_PERFECT

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Never ask for the first kiss. Even if she wants the kiss, if you ask, she'll have time to talk herself out of doing it. Some women think they'll look bad if they give in to easily.

I use one of two moves: If I've know her a little while, I'll "tell' her the kiss is coming next time I see her. I don't ask if I can do it, I tell her I'm going to do it. The other move is waiting for uncomfortable silence. Wait for you two to be face to face, nothing is being said and the two of you are just staring into each others eyes. Move in and kiss.
 

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Just grab her by the face and kiss her.
 

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you can always kiss your palm..then put it on her lips..I hear its the same thing

either that or go to a butcher and buy a cows tongue..and practice with it
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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