so I remembered last night why I don't take girls I'm dating to clubs or bars. the damn aggrivation!!! plus my game isn't that good to deal with all that sh*t that goes on. i went with a friend of mine(HB8) last night to have a few beers and hangout and stuff. we sat down and were laughing and stuff(if you didn't know us you wouldn't be able to tell we werent 'together'), it wasn't like she was sitting there bored out of her mind or anything. i sh*t you not, within 30 min of being there til the time we left it started. guys touching her as they walk by(on purpose) and turning around smiling at her, guys coming over to talk to "us", guys, guys, guys, guys. some dude in his 40's kept buying her shots and i made the joke "that's good he's buying your drinks, it'll save me money".haha then theres a guy that goes around to all the bars selling roses, and she got two roses from two different guys. too funny.lol we laughed about the whole night. something i noticed though and i wanted to ask some questions. the other guys that were with girls, and hot girls at that, i didn't notice this happening to them at all. whats up with that? has anyone else been on a real date(this wasnt a date but i was curious) with a hot girl at a bar or club and had to fight off guys all night? if she were my g/f how would i deal with this? am i giving off some vibe that i'm "weak" and that the other guys aren't intimidated by me since they're touching her, coming up to us, and buying her drinks?
this is why your club/bar game needs to be tight
- Thread starter Robert28
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If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
oh this wasnt an acctual date, just hanging out with a friend. i just noticed that the other guys that were there with their g/f's, fiances, wives, etc werent having this happen to them. not once. i would just like to know how to combat this so when i am dating a girl, we can go to places like this and not have to worry about anything. i agree though dont take them to places like this until you start seriously dating them.
If you are in the situation, the best thing to do, is make fun out of it. If you act like it bothers you at all, its game over. You are labelled as 'jealous guy.' You could show some alphaness by tooling the guys, too. You could have spoke up like "Jeez, wheres my rose dude? Aint I hot enough for you?" Its like a verbal dominance contest. You need to beat them verbally, and make them turn their head down and walk away. This is the KEY to being alpha. Fvck with them.
Say something like "Oh my God! Why didnt I think of that? (turn to girl) Is that all I have to do? If I buy you a drink, your gonna totally jump me, right? Im so stupid! Bartender!" If you did that, you would totally just dominate that dude. He would look like a moron, and your value would skyrocket.
Next guy" Oh heres another one, babe. I hope you brought a lot of rubbers, cuz you have like three dudes you have to fvck now. Need me to run to the store for some KY for ya?"
Say something like "Oh my God! Why didnt I think of that? (turn to girl) Is that all I have to do? If I buy you a drink, your gonna totally jump me, right? Im so stupid! Bartender!" If you did that, you would totally just dominate that dude. He would look like a moron, and your value would skyrocket.
Next guy" Oh heres another one, babe. I hope you brought a lot of rubbers, cuz you have like three dudes you have to fvck now. Need me to run to the store for some KY for ya?"
People take their girlfriends or wives to bars or clubs? I mean, I know some who do but WHY?
Those places are for hookups. For singles. Not for people who want to maintain a relationship!
Seriously, date night is a restaurant, movie, play, archery, outdoors, golf, bowling, museum, etc. Anywhere but bar or club.
Those places are for hookups. For singles. Not for people who want to maintain a relationship!
Seriously, date night is a restaurant, movie, play, archery, outdoors, golf, bowling, museum, etc. Anywhere but bar or club.
horaholic said:
well the roses dudes didnt ever come over to us. they only talked to her when she was away from me. it was just alot of gus walking by touching her and one old drunk dude that kept hugging us both and smelled like old spice.haha he kept saying "i love you kids"haha
My point is, out-wit your competition. Its really easy to make someone uncomfortable when they are hitting on a girl. You simply call them out on it. nine times out of ten, the guy isnt going to be alpha enough to say "yeah, maybe I am hitting on her. So what? what are you gonna do about it?" That would put YOU on the spot, and you'd have to think quickly to beat him. I would play the "Oh. You totally win dude. She's yours. Just look at your hair, (mess up dudes hair here) your WAY hotter than me."
But.. most of the time they will get defensive "uh... Im not hitting on her. Im just being nice" she will smelll the lie, and you can say "If your bing nice, wheres MY drink?" Now, you blew him out, and he'll have to buy you a drink to prove he's just being nice.
All this shyt takes balls! Im not claiming I have the balls to do this all the time, but it is the best way to handle the situation, besides avoiding bringing girls to places like that to begin with.
But.. most of the time they will get defensive "uh... Im not hitting on her. Im just being nice" she will smelll the lie, and you can say "If your bing nice, wheres MY drink?" Now, you blew him out, and he'll have to buy you a drink to prove he's just being nice.
All this shyt takes balls! Im not claiming I have the balls to do this all the time, but it is the best way to handle the situation, besides avoiding bringing girls to places like that to begin with.
TheBucketOfTruth
Master Don Juan
Well good thing you guys were just friends. Don't go to a meat market if the meat you're bringing isn't for sale.Robert28 said:
The reason this happened to you and not the other guys there with their significant others was because the guys were observant. Just look at it from your perspective. If you see a guy with a girl you're attracted to, what are the chances of you approaching her if she's already quite close and intimate with the guy she's with? Not very high. It was clear you were just friends or at least an estranged couple of some sort and not in a relationship. They smelt blood and moved in.
Well, first of all, I probably wouldn't take a date to a bar or a nightclub.
But even if I did, I probably wouldn't sweat it. I would regcognize who she's going home with that night (me) and realize that all these other guys are wasting their time.
If a guy WERE to garner her interest in such a way as to pull her off me, I would simply go "Next!" and move on to any of the other 3 billion women on the planet.
The beautiful thing about girls is that there are plenty of them.
But even if I did, I probably wouldn't sweat it. I would regcognize who she's going home with that night (me) and realize that all these other guys are wasting their time.
If a guy WERE to garner her interest in such a way as to pull her off me, I would simply go "Next!" and move on to any of the other 3 billion women on the planet.
The beautiful thing about girls is that there are plenty of them.